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Love someone, always hope to get the other person's response.
Want to be appreciated by him, liked by him, remembered by him.
So you desperately try to be good to him, sincerely and attentively for him, just in the hope of being able to have a place in his heart.
But true love is not maintained by a single heart, and any unilateral love, even if it is loved deeply and paid more, will not have results.
As Chen Guo said:
"The essence of love is to attract, not to sacrifice and move."
Only the people they like and like themselves as well will the seeds of this love take root and blossom.
In a relationship, the man who treats you this way, there is no need to continue.
01 Not replying to your message is a form of exclusion
I have seen such a sentence:
"I message you in the morning, share the video with you at noon, you don't reply to me until a long time, sometimes you don't even reply, in fact, I understand that I do the same to people I don't like." 」
Indeed, in a relationship, only men who do not love you will be willing to turn a blind eye to your news and turn a deaf ear.
If he loves you, he will definitely respond to your sharing very seriously, and will not be willing to perfunctory you, snub you, and make you sad and sad.
In fact, how much a man cares about you is directly proportional to the speed and frequency with which he responds to your messages.
If he cares about you, even if he is busy, he will reply to your message at the first time and will not be willing to make you sad and sad.
A person's enthusiasm, after all, can not solve the relationship between two people, when the enthusiasm can not be responded to, we must know how to stop.
After all, feelings that are paid unilaterally are not happy at all.
Turning a blind eye to your news is actually a kind of rejection, and if you have also met such a man, there is nothing wrong with letting go in time.
02 Always belittles you, that's a hurt
In a relationship, love magnifies the strengths, and not loving only magnifies the shortcomings.
Indeed, when men like you, they will say all kinds of sweet words to you, to coax you to be happy, to make you confident, and to feel that you are the happiest woman in the world.
On the contrary, once a man is out of love, he will deliberately belittle you, hurt you, and make you feel like a bad woman.
In this relationship, you are careful to pay, but always not to be seen by him, even if you do it well, he will try his best to blame you and pick your faults.
In his mouth, you have no advantages, all shortcomings, he resents you, throws a tantrum at you, in fact, has shown his attitude towards you.
Always belittling you is actually a kind of harm, and if you also meet a man like this, stopping the loss in time is the best choice.
03 Always being ambiguous with others is a kind of infidelity
I have heard the saying: "Men have a sense of proportion, women have a sense of security." ”
There is no doubt about this.
In relationships, women want more than just love, but preference.
But he obviously knows that you will be angry when you see him ambiguous with others, or you are unwilling to refuse, which is actually a manifestation of not caring.
Because I don't care enough about you, I will be ambiguous with other women; because I don't care, I don't know how to refuse.
Always ambiguous with others, in fact, is a kind of infidelity, if you also meet such a man, don't be obsessed with it, timely withdrawal is the best choice.
As Yishu said:
"Whether a man loves you or not is hidden in the details, as long as you are diligent enough, you will definitely find some clues, but most of the time, we are not willing to admit it." 」
In fact, you should have understood long ago that he does not reply to your messages, which is a kind of rejection; he always belittles you, which is a kind of hurt; he is always ambiguous with others, which is a kind of infidelity.
The rest of your life is long, please don't waste time on people who don't love you, so that you can be happy for a lifetime.
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