The encounter of fate is only the beginning of love.
When you meet the object of your choice, many people only want to grasp the hard-won fate, and finally only want to blossom with the person they want.
However, in this world, there are many feelings that are inseparable, even if two people have the opportunity to meet, if the way they get along is not right, they will still face a separate ending.
When fate quietly comes, how should we grasp it?
In an individual's opinion, feelings can not be forced, if there are real feelings, naturally will be together, such an idea seems reasonable, but they do not know that in the emotional, everyone will have differences, at any time there will be unexpected situations.
So, when we start attracting each other, all we have to do is: find the topic point.
Learn to create a topic point
In the relationship between men and women, to show self-worth and release their attraction, in addition to internal and external value and emotional value, the most important thing is the social value when interacting with people.
The level of its social value directly affects a person's attractiveness index, and also determines whether a relationship can embark on the road of love.
In essence, the so-called social value is formed by the topic point, if the topic point can bring emotional fluctuations to the other party, it means that your social value is still good.
So what you have to do is search for information from all aspects in a timely manner to create the topic that should be there.
For the fun and sense of humor of the topic, you can usually collect more humorous jokes, praise others, and other behaviors before incorporating these into your chat.
Have enough of their favorite topic points, no matter what content they talk about with each other, you can easily tap each other's interest points, attract each other's attention and interest, and give each other a sense of familiarity.
When the distance between the two is close, your attraction will have the aura of the protagonist at this time.
While conversations with each other involve topics of interest to him from beginning to end, the other person's attention is always on you, and you can talk about these topics in an insightful and interesting way, which is a self-introduction that suits him.
Sound strikes east and west, creating spiritual intersection points
Once familiar, start with his side and ask your friend to give psychological cues, remembering that there is a prerequisite here that you have to make a suggestion when your chat is still smooth and enjoyable.
For example, you can say, "I brought some specialties from home on the weekend, and I can't eat them all by myself, can I share them with you?" Haha, come and go ~ send me the address, you can also send you some. (But you need to note that in previous relationships, you had never shown a sense of need for each other.) ）
When the other party receives your expertise, he will definitely share it with the buddies, at this time everyone will boo, suggesting that eating the food you sent will definitely praise you from your point of view, sublimating your value charm.
At the same time, the hints of the people around him will also make him think further in this direction, this girl is really good, next, find an opportunity to chat with the other party: "How about the specialties of my hometown?" Is it delicious? ”
Extending topics from hometown specialties, for example, most young people leave their hometowns to work. They can talk about "nostalgia" or "the anxiety of young people in the city", this kind of topic that is related to the heart,
It's easy to touch the other person's emotional point, he will open his heart to you and reveal himself.
In this way, guide the other party to reveal their emotions and feelings, and your hearts will be on the same track, and the distance between the hearts of the two will be closer.
Finally, I would like to say:
You have to give "emotional resonance" on a spiritual level, which is what is called empathy in love science.
The hints of side-by-side attacks, coupled with the emotional resonance of the depth of the topic, create a spiritual meeting point while also providing a haven of spiritual rest.
Here's a small question for you: is it better to chat during the day or use the "empathy" technique at night? (You can write your answer in the comments section)
After two small actions, on the one hand, you show your value and release your attraction, on the other hand, you are still a touch to his heart.
As long as the heartbeat signal will breed in the other party's subconscious, the strange kindness is born, and finally, you can give more guidance, use some difficult to play, push and pull and other skills, let the other party fall in love with you step by step.
In the face of love, we must take the initiative to guide and work hard from multiple angles, and there will be fewer difficulties on the way forward.
I hope to meet him in my heart soon and bravely take this step.