It is undeniable that with entering the society, everyone has become more and more realistic, and truly realizes that the poor couple Pepsi laments, fairy tales are all deceitful, and the Cinderella that I saw when I was young can only exist in the hegemonic novel forever.
And the door is right, is our greatest sobriety, measuring ourselves a few pounds and a few two, in this range to find someone to spend a lifetime, is the biggest truth, if there is a little possibility, is to try to choose from people with better economic conditions, as long as the difference is not too much, this weighing the pros and cons of the reality, regardless of men and women.
Of course, no one denies that there will be exceptions, but there are still more ordinary people, aren't they?
Speaking of Gu Wei, don't talk about the original work what has already broken up, not in a department of the ex-girlfriend and other plots, just watch TV series.
In the TV series, Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue explained that he and Gao Hun were not boyfriend and girlfriend, had not been together, had not been before, and would not be in the future.
It has been shown here that Gu Wei is not unenlightened in feelings, on the contrary, his pursuit of his love, like his pursuit of his profession, has a scale in his heart, like a mirror.
Before meeting Lin Zhixiao, he didn't necessarily know what kind of girlfriend he wanted to find, but he clearly understood that Gao Huan was not the girlfriend he wanted.
Gao Huan is very good, intellectually beautiful, good family, good work, character - a little bit careful, but also has his own pride, harmless, but no matter how good it is, it is useless, Gu Wei does not call her.
Love is something that actually makes no sense.
When the hormones are on the head, whether you are a human or a ghost, anyway, it is you, even if you are a little ghost in the temple of Yama, the god in the heavens says that he loves me, and I will not take a look at it.
But if you have to analyze, it is not without reason to follow, the following is just a personal opinion:
Why didn't Gu Wei like Gao Huan?
The two of them are classmates, and when they do experiments in college, they should often be together, and they are both excellent, how to see it is a talented woman.
But it was precisely like this, perhaps, that Gu Wei regarded Gao Huan as the division that the threesome must have my division at this time.
To tell the truth, having taken experimental classes will be a little touched, the more good the people with good grades, the more assertive and more ideas, perhaps more want to let the group try according to their own, medical experimental resources are even less, when young and stubborn, they have to compete and prove that their ideas are right.
Excellent people and men may have affection for each other, so it is possible for people with large bellies to take care of each other, but it is difficult to rub out the spark of love.
Let's be honest, most men don't like strong women with their peers, other things women strong men will let them be spoiled because of love, but professionally, most of them will not give in, and everyone has their own little pride in their hearts.
After Gu Wei and Gao Huan graduated, they entered the same hospital, and Gao Huan's father was the vice president, which further aggravated the possibility that Gu Wei would not choose Gao Huan.
Men are proud, when they have the ability, no one wants to be said to be a phoenix man, relying on women to take the position, not together, there is already a scandal in the hospital, Gu Wei originally had no feeling for Gao Huan, and it is even more impossible to have a spark.
Gu Wei is also a medical family, but it may not be as high as Gao Huan's father's position, but Gu Wei's family is also well-off, after all, there is a cousin of the rich second generation who does not do business and only spends money to clubbing.
And from the plot of several episodes, Gao Huan is somewhat trying to control all the signs of Gu Wei, even if it is the next career promotion and the like, how gu Wei may accept such a future.
Gao Wei did secretly approach Gu Wei what he liked, and even turned himself into the second Gu Wei, Gao Leng was smart and calm, but for Gu Wei, it may be more like the family's parents asking him to be not too much, as can be seen from the back preview, Gu Wei's parents hope that he will focus on professionalism, which is also the reason why Gu Wei's mother likes Gao Wei, after all, the goal is the same, but Gu Wei is looking for a wife, not a second mother, not a paste copy of himself.
So why did Gu Wei like Lin Zhi School?
People who have been in the rules for a long time will inevitably look at a person who is incompatible with themselves.
But if you look at this more, you won't be able to get it back, right?
Gu Wei is too cold, and there is a cleaning habit, Gao Huan simply can't do too close to him, maybe after holding hands, it is face-to-face to disinfect each other, like looking in the mirror, no meaning.
The first time Gu Wei tried to confess, he knew that he envied the atmosphere in Lin Zhi's school' home, Lin Zhixue and her mother Ms. Li were called "VIP special care" by the hospital people, Gu Wei often said that this mother and daughter were too accustomed to Old Lin, and when confessing, he secretly poked and poked that if someone could be so accustomed to himself in the future, it would be great.
Who wouldn't want to be spoiled by such an unprincipled principle? Teacher Lin is very noisy and because he is the director of teaching, he is full of style, but Lin Zhi's mother and daughter are still very accustomed to him.
Gu Wei's living conditions do not require him to weigh the pros and cons to choose a partner, he does not need to consider the income of Lin Zhi school, for him, like is very important, because like is appropriate, not because of the right to like.
He admired the vigorous vitality of Lin Zhi School, the strength to overcome difficulties, and liked the family atmosphere of the Lin family, because he did not have any of these, and Lin Zhi School satisfied him in a short period of time, not to let him watch, but to take him into it, how could he be willing to let go?