As the weather got warmer and I spent more and more time out on the weekend, I recently went to visit a good friend, who was my college classmate, and when I was studying at school, it was called a good one. In the four years of college, we played over, people really learned it, and after graduation, we went to study in the United States. He has actually been back to China for a long time, but there is really no contact between him and usually. Many people are more envious of foreign life, thinking that everywhere abroad is good, but in fact, after going abroad, they will face a lot of problems, and the overall small talk is actually mainly expressed 3 feelings.
First, the environment is strange and prone to loneliness
When I first arrived in the United States, I felt that everything was new, but soon I felt lonely for a few days, because every day was class, class, meals, school, nightlife. When he was in China, he preferred to do things with a few friends, whether it was eating or studying, but he would be restrained abroad and prone to loneliness.
Second, there are barriers to communication
His English is actually quite good, but it is only the ones taught in books, because he has few opportunities for actual communication, so when he comes to the United States, he feels that the English he learned is not English, and he has to learn from scratch. The problem bothered him for a while, but it wasn't long before he basically mastered basic communication skills. I remember he said it was quite slippery, maybe there was a shy component.
Third, eat not accustomed to Western food
What Americans eat, Presumably, does not need too much introduction here. Their dishes are certainly incomparable to those of the mainland. It is understood that he did not eat well when he first arrived in the United States. Milk + bread in the morning, hamburgers at noon, nothing to do with some fruit, basically this is what it looks like. He loves to eat kung pao chicken, fish fragrant meat shredded, braised meat three fresh, but did not hear him talk about it, we do not know whether there is, but I feel that he is not cold to Western-style rice.
There is a saying that I think he said very well: "What you think is good, others feel bad; what you think is bad, others will feel very good, and do and cherish." What do you think about studying abroad?
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