With the progress of this society, the degree of civilization increases. Nowadays people in society believe more and more in science. Most of the younger generation, in particular, believe only in what really exists, and those illusory superstitions do not care at all.
However, there are always fish that slip through the net, and although some people's bodies are young, they hide an ancient, decaying soul in their bodies, clinging to feudal superstitions and refusing to change.
Once, a pregnant woman in Chongqing was about to give birth in the hospital, but her husband was reluctant to sign for surgery, which caused heated discussion.
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A pregnant woman in Chongqing is waiting for delivery in the hospital, the doctor means that the mother is now a little dangerous, let the family sign for the operation, but the family refuses to sign, saying that it is not yet time to give birth to the child, and has been delaying time.
Many people see a video and say it's outrageous, is this the rhythm of giving birth to an emperor? What is such a husband going to do? Someone else gave him a baby.
In fact, it can be seen in the video that the doctor and the maternal husband, as well as a middle-aged and elderly woman, seem to be the mother-in-law of the mother, have communicated separately. But they all insisted on waiting until the allotted time (the right time) before removing the child.
When the nurse in front of her communicated with her husband, her husband seemed to be very angry and threw the responsibility to the hospital.
The nurse is a little upset, or trying to communicate with them well, you choose not to do it yourself, she has made it clear, so many patients' families have helped her witness.
The doctor was also persuading them, presumably saying: If you can hold on for a while, there is no way for you to entangle any more. If all goes well now, there is still a possibility, and there is still a possibility.
Doctors and nurses came together, bitterly advised for a long time, from the video has not seen the man's family to relax. I kept pulling back and forth, procrastinating for time, trying to wait until the stipulated time.
Doctors and nurses must have been scientifically judged to put life first. And what is the man's family doing? Putting feudal superstitious ideas first is a blasphemy and contempt for life.
The video made many female compatriots chill, and some people shared similar experiences; some were afraid of marriage, fear of childbearing, afraid of encountering such things themselves; and some said that mothers themselves could not sign? Can't hold your own life in your own hands?
In fact, the doctor also communicated with the mother, the man's family did not let the mother sign, and the mother herself did not want to sign.
It is estimated that I don't want to offend the man's family! It may also be because they are weak now, and they will have to rely on them to take care of themselves and their children in the future.
Some people are lamenting what marriage brings to women? There is no freedom to have children, and one's own life cannot be decided by oneself. In fact, it is not that you can't, but you don't dare.
Women should be independent and powerful, look after the character before marrying, reduce dependence on thoughts after marriage, and not be humble.
Now there are many women who choose to take their babies alone and do not rely on the elderly. Some people even do not marry and have babies, some time ago very hot Ye Haiyang chose artificial insemination, gave birth to their own babies, their own babies, and recently just gave birth to a second child.
Her life is up to her to decide and be responsible for herself. Her children are lively and lovely, healthy and beautiful, and they grew up in love at first glance. Only when the mother has love, the child can feel the love.
Women are growing, and men need to grow as well. Pregnancy, childbirth, and baby-bearing are almost all borne by women themselves. Because men are not involved, they do not experience the difficulties and anxieties of women.
Men should be empathetic, try to understand women's difficulties, and help them do what they can.
This allows women to get some rest and be able to better adjust their bodies and emotions. Men are also involved in parenting, enhancing the relationship between parents and children, and the whole family will become harmonious!
In the process of progress, feudal ideas can not be had! Feudal backward ideas have long been proved to be fictitious, backward, and unscientific. All the achievements of civilization that mankind has achieved so far are based on science.
As a modern person, ming is enjoying the convenient life brought by science and technology, and his mind is still immersed in superstition, which is a typical "cheap and selling well".
For traditional culture, we are not saying not to inherit, but to inherit selectively, and we should take its essence and remove its dross. And the so-called time-picking baby, that is the dross, is a feudal superstition, should be abandoned.
The reason is very simple, if science proves that the mother is almost in danger of life, how can the baby be born? I have to say that this makes the doctor feel very helpless.
Therefore, it is imperative to promote science and break superstition.