Everyone's life seems to have a lot of troubles.
It will be because of career anxiety, will be anxious because of interpersonal relationships, and often because of emotional sorrow.
Emotional things, like a person, with a person, it should be such a simple thing to say, in reality, from the beginning to the end, but always full of all kinds of problems.
Sometimes, even if you like it, you will not dare to take the initiative, even if you love, you will not know how to operate, even if you are particularly serious and careful, you may not be able to have a good ending.
People who do not fall in love will only be a little lonely at most, and people who really enter a relationship will not be so easy at every step.
Love, a simple word, will always make people eat badly, can't sleep, can't think straight.
For love, everyone is the same, there will be a lot of doubts, but also often think about how to love, and for this problem, we don't have to think so much, can completely simplify the complex.
When the heart is moved, be brave and pursue love.
Because of personality, there are indeed many people, even if they meet someone they like, they will not dare to come forward at all.
Worry that you like each other, but the other party does not like yourself, worry that you have taken the initiative, and can not get a better response, will only be ignored by the other party, and even trampled by the other party's own heart.
In the face of uncertainty, we will be a little afraid, there will be a lot of ideas, which is very normal, but even so, we should not stop there, and then let each other's relationships go unchecked.
Hiding your mind, it can be very simple, pretending to be indifferent, missing each other in vain, but we will regret it.
In fact, instead of being afraid, in our hearts, we are more worried about missing each other in vain, without starting, it is over.
Meet, but miss, of course, this is not good, do not want to be so, no matter how timid, not confident, lack of courage, we must overcome well, do something, to fight for ourselves.
Follow our own hearts, when we do that, if the other person happens to like us, it is very fortunate, even if the other party does not like us, we at least know the other person's attitude.
Good or bad, success or failure, that will be considered an ending, when you like a person, you are not afraid that the other party does not like us at all, afraid of being afraid, from beginning to end, we have not done anything, and we do not know each other's attitude towards us.
Success together, cherish.
After experiencing love and being loved, we will actually understand that successfully chasing a person and confirming a relationship with a person is not the end, but just a new beginning that belongs to each other.
After falling in love with a person, getting to know each other closely, it is easy for us to feel disappointed in each other, and we feel that the other party does not seem to be so good, but we must not start to become perfunctory, not good for each other at all.
That person chooses us, that never means that the other party belongs to us, no matter when, the other party can actually choose again, it is possible to leave us, and then have other choices.
If you don't cherish it, you will lose it, and you will be annoyed after losing it, which has never meant much.
In addition, from one person to two people, we will inevitably be a little uncomfortable, and some things will not know how to deal with it at all. For the way to get along, we can not be so handy, but we must learn well, to run in.
There is never a natural fit for two people, and all relationships require a process of slow adaptation.
In this process, we must know how to restrain our temper, know how to understand each other's needs, and we must also know how to maintain single-mindedness, respect each other, always accommodate each other, and give each other more tolerance.
Only in this way can we get along with each other gradually into a better state, and we will not live up to this feeling.
After losing, learn to let go.
When we first fall in love, once it starts, we want it to be a lifetime.
However, too many feelings, even if there is a good heart, there will still be a day when it can't go on.
Maybe we don't feel suitable for each other and don't want to continue, maybe the other person feels inappropriate and wants to give up, or maybe we don't want to be with each other and first propose to go.
No matter the reason for the breakup, what it is, after the real separation, we will inevitably be more uncomfortable.
The more deeply loved, the more pain in the heart will often be more, and it is easy to fall into the memory.
In this regard, after all, it is a person who used to like it so much, we can allow ourselves to sink a little, but after a period of time, no matter how reluctant we are, no matter how unwilling we are, no matter how sorry we feel, when each other is no longer possible, we still have to let go.
You don't have to start giving up on yourself because you're alone, you don't have to live a good life anymore, and you don't even want to love anymore. It's a pity to lose love, but it's just the past, but it's just the past, that person is gone, but we still have a lot of future.
Slowly, we must let ourselves come out of the past, begin to learn to look forward, to make our present better than the past, and to find a love again, so that we can really become happy.
The best gesture of loving a person, when you meet, you will not easily miss it, and when you fall in love, you will cherish it well, and when you are separated, you will be fine with each other.
You can love someone very much, enjoy the prosperity of the world with each other, and spend years together.
You can also live without each other, even if you are alone, you can be brilliant and live well.
Loyal to love, willing to pay and care for love, but not too paranoid, must be with whom, the other party as their own, feel that without each other, their lives will be gray.
Anyway, feelings and reason coexist, love the people you love, and know how to love yourself.
I regard love as an important part of my life, but I don't think of it as my whole life.
Love is warm, and if you don't love, you are strong.
Text/Tan Meng
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