"Men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man."
Marriage is an important part of a person's adult life, especially for women, if the marriage is not happy, it is bound to affect a person's life and state.
Even in the high-paid and relatively free industry of actors, we often see news that so-and-so actresses are suspected of having a bad relationship, and divorced and left an unhappy state and then regained their spirits.
Actress Wang Xihua is one of the typical cases. Although her career is successful, in terms of love, she has always been immature, and she has also met people at fault, but fortunately, she ended her painful marriage in time and found happiness again.
Now Wang Xihua knows better what she wants, and she has become confident and happy again. So, what kind of emotional experience does she have?
Acting is considered not pretty enough
In 1970, Wang Xihua was born into a happy family in Xi'an. Wang Xihua's father is a painter, and he is well-known, and has held his own painting exhibitions in major cities across the country, which is quite artistic.
Wang Xihua's father loved Wang Xihua very much, and he carefully raised his daughter from a young age and encouraged her to try all kinds of new things. Wang Xihua thrived under the cultivation of her father, and found that she liked to perform from an early age, often performing the programs she learned from TELEVISION to others at home or even in the community, making everyone laugh.
Seeing that the child liked to perform, Wang Xihua's father began to consciously train her to go down this road. In this way, Wang Xihua successfully entered the children's art school to study acting at a very young age, laying a solid foundation for her future artistic path.
Twenty-two-year-old Wang Xihua was successfully admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy for further study. At that time, Wang Xihua was the oldest student in the class, and she had been serving as the head of the class, taking good care of her classmates, because she studied well in professional courses and filmed TV drama works many times.
When Wang Xihua was in college, everyone praised her. At that time, Wang Xihua had a bright future and was the most talented student in the eyes of teachers and classmates.
However, after entering the society, the development of things was not as smooth as Wang Xihua expected. In 2007, Wang Xihua had a hard time getting a chance to star in the heroine of a movie, but after training and shooting for a long time, Wang Xihua, who was struggling, was told that she was just a substitute, and the real heroine in the director's mind was Mei Ting.
In the end, Mei Ting dropped out of the Central Academy of Drama, and all the efforts wang Xihua put in vain, but still failed to star in the movie.
Not long after this incident, Wang Xihua got the opportunity to play the heroine of "Military Song Loud", which she cherished very much. In order to play this role, Wang Xihua, who was already very slender, lost twenty pounds again in a short period of time.
However, what people did not expect was that Wang Xihua still lost this role, because the producer felt that she was not beautiful enough.
Although Wang Xihua has now played many classic roles and her acting skills are recognized by the audience, the spell of "not beautiful enough" has always been put on her head, making her feel some inferiority, and perhaps the failure of her first relationship is also related to this.
Marry a good man again after a second marriage
Wang Xihua's first husband was named Zhou Jing, an international student. In that era, the people who could study abroad were among the best talents, and so was Zhou Jing.
Wang Xihua and Zhou Jing first met at a bar, where a group of people were shouting and drinking, and the atmosphere was very noisy. Wang Xihua liked to be quiet, so she did not go up to be with them, but sat by and drank silently.
It may be that Wang Xihua's beautiful and lonely, and a little sad look impressed Zhou Jing, who returned from studying abroad, and Zhou Jing suddenly liked this girl. Therefore, Zhou Jing took the initiative to chat with Wang Xihua, and the two people were very speculative at first sight, and they also agreed to see each other next time.
But what Wang Xihua did not expect was that Zhou Jing was more frugal and advocated the AA system. Even when in love, Zhou Jing helped Wang Xihua buy a bottle of water to buy Wang Xihua's money to wang Xihua AA, and after marriage, it was the same, which made Wang Xihua a little sad.
Once, Wang Xihua, Zhou Jing and a few friends were eating out and said that Wang Xihua was a guest. However, Wang Xihua accidentally did not bring a wallet, so he had to let Zhou Jing go and pay. What I didn't expect was that after returning, Zhou Jing actually said to Wang Xihua in front of everyone: "Remember to return the money to me!" ”
Do the couple still have to settle accounts like this? Everyone present looked at each other, which made Wang Xihua shy and annoyed, very faceless.
Not long after, Wang Xihua had to go to filming in other places, but Zhou Jing did not support his wife's work at all, and complained continuously every day. This incident made Wang Xihua completely realize that Zhou Jing was an extremely selfish person and was not worth entrusting for life, so she made up her mind to divorce Zhou Jing and began to concentrate on her career.
After the divorce, Wang Xihua spent all her time on work, and her career was getting better and better. Because of the role of Zhang Juxiang in "The Woman in charge", she suddenly became a household name and became a famous "rural sister", and since then, she has continued to play.
Career is there, and love is gradually coming. During the filming of a TV series, Wang Xihua met Shen Hang.
Shen Hang is also an actor, he is very talented, can act, but also can write scripts.
However, at that time, Wang Xihua was already a famous actor, but Shen Hang was not cared about. Although Shen Hang also liked Wang Xihua in his heart, he always had some inferiority and felt that he was not worthy of Wang Xihua.
After Wang Xihua knew the true thoughts of Shen Hang's heart, her heart was angry and funny, in order to show her feelings for Shen Hang, she immediately took a plane to find Shen Hang, and the two people saw each other and left tears of excitement. At that moment, Wang Xihua knew that she had found a destination for the second half of her life.
epilogue
After exchanging heartfelt complaints with Shen Hang, the parents of both sides were very satisfied, and the two soon entered the palace of marriage. Soon after the marriage, Wang Xihua gave birth to a lovely baby, and the family was very happy.
Wang Xihua used her own personal experience to tell us that failure is not terrible, as long as we have a heart that dares to pursue, we will eventually overcome the wind and rain and win happiness. I wish her happiness forever.