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Text: Zhong Haoqi
Editor: Zhong Haoqi
Preamble:
People will meet many people in their lives, but how many can enter their hearts?
Some people say that love is best budding at the right time, but how can there be so many appropriate fates in the world?
Sometimes you miss it, and it's a lifetime to look back.
When true love comes, do you still care about age?
Let's step into the life of actor Wang Qian and take a look at her story.
Born in a Kochi family, he failed the college entrance examination
In 1968, Wang Qian was born in a Kochi family in Tianjin, and her parents were both school teachers.
Influenced by her parents, Wang Qian set up the ideal of becoming a people's teacher since she was a child.
Under the careful cultivation of her parents, Wang Qian's academic performance has always been among the best.
School teachers and classmates all believe that it is a sure thing that such a girl with excellent character and learning will be admitted to Beijing Normal University.
However, the sky is unpredictable.
In the third year of high school, her mother suddenly fell seriously ill, and her father was busy with work and had no time to take care of it, so the burden of taking care of her mother naturally fell on Wang Qian.
In order to take care of her mother, Wang Qian had to put down her intense studies.
She learned to cook and do laundry, and did her best to share her mother's worries.
The abandonment of homework led to the failure of the college entrance examination, and Wang Qian missed the university she had long-cherished.
Although her dreams were shattered, the tribulations of life did not break Wang Qian, but instead stimulated another potential in her heart.
Wang Qian knows that she must grow up as soon as possible to reduce the burden on her family.
She resolutely chose a vocational college, used her spare time to work in a factory to make money, and worked part-time at a cultural center.
In a sketch competition at the Cultural Center, Wang Qian's acting talent was discovered by a teacher.
With the encouragement of her teacher, Wang Qian had the idea of becoming an actor for the first time.
Who would have thought that this seemingly accidental experience would become a turning point in her life.
Admitted to Nortel, his acting career started
In 1989, 21-year-old Wang Qian made an important decision: to leave Tianjin and come to Beijing alone.
In the confusion and worries of relatives and friends, Wang Qian chose her own path without hesitation.
She applied for the acting department of Beijing Film Academy, and with her extraordinary talent and hard work, she successfully passed the assessment and became a Nortel student.
Since then, the dream of being an actor has taken root in Wang Qian's heart.
During college, Wang Qian was hungry for acting knowledge and studied acting hard.
The hard work paid off, and in the second semester of her freshman year, Wang Qian received an invitation to shoot her first movie.
Although she is only a supporting role, Wang Qian treats it with her heart, strives to shape the role, and shows her strength.
Since then, Wang Qian's acting career has gradually opened, and various film and television works have been invited.
When she graduated, Wang Qian did not stop, and she was admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute for further study with excellent results.
In 1994, 26-year-old Wang Qian made another bold decision: to go to Hong Kong and become the host of a local TV station.
This decision surprised many people, but Wang Qian firmly believes that only by constantly breaking through herself can she find a broader stage.
It was also in this year that Wang Qian met the man who changed her life - director Xu Qingdong.
fell in love with the director, and his career gradually improved
Xu Qingdong, a middle-aged man 23 years older than Wang Qian, is a well-known director in the circle.
He had a failed marriage, but he was not defeated.
During the filming of the movie "Anti-Drug Hero", Xu Qingdong invited Wang Qian to play a supporting actress.
The two became acquainted with each other because of the drama and began a journey of cooperation.
In the joint work again and again, Wang Qian admired Xu Qingdong's talent and keen artistic insight, and Xu Qingdong was also attracted by Wang Qian's intelligence and love for performance.
In life, the two cherish each other, often discuss art and life, and share each other's ideas.
Love is quietly bred in such a tacit understanding.
In 1997, 29-year-old Wang Qian was nominated for the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actress for her outstanding performance in "Anti-Drug Heroes".
Although she finally missed the award, this nomination is undoubtedly an affirmation of Wang Qian's acting skills and marks a new step in her career.
In the following years, Wang Qian frequently starred in works directed by Xu Qingdong, and the tacit cooperation between the two was praised by the audience and industry insiders.
In 2000, 32-year-old Wang Qian played the role of female policeman Hua Jijie in the hit drama "Six Groups of Serious Cases", and she was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people with her skillful acting skills and heroic image.
This role not only won Wang Qian the love of countless audiences, but also made her popularity soar to a new height.
From 2002 to 2008, "Six Groups of Serious Cases" has launched a number of sequels, and Wang Qian has also returned to the crew again and again, interpreting the role of Ji Jie into three points, creating a classic screen image.
Face the age difference and bravely pursue love
While their careers are thriving, the love between Wang Qian and Xu Qingdong is also heating up.
The two have been in love for many years, and have walked through many important moments of their lives hand in hand, supporting each other and making progress together.
In 2004, 36-year-old Wang Qian made a brave decision: to enter the marriage hall with 59-year-old Xu Qingdong.
Faced with the 23-year-old age gap between the two, it is inevitable that there will be various doubts and discussions from the outside world.
Some people say that Wang Qian is for the career, and some people say that Xu Qingdong is plundering from the cradle.
But Wang Qian is calm, in her opinion, true love has nothing to do with age, let alone worldly eyes.
Money and status are not an issue, the important thing is to truly love each other and be willing to spend life together.
After marriage, Wang Qian and Xu Qingdong became a recognized model couple in the circle.
They work together, learn from each other, and achieve each other in their careers.
For this hard-won marriage, Wang Qian is willing to give everything.
At the age of 39, Wang Qian, who was already old, gave birth to a lovely daughter for Xu Qingdong.
The arrival of the little angel brought endless joy to the family.
62-year-old Xu Qingdong tasted the joy of being a father for the first time, and Wang Qian also realized the greatness of maternal love.
Although life is simple, every day of a family of three is full of happiness and joy.
Her husband passed away and she raised her daughter alone
However, the good times were short-lived.
After staying together for 7 years, Xu Qingdong died of illness at the age of 69.
The sudden death of her husband is undoubtedly a huge blow to 46-year-old Wang Qian.
During those days, grief seemed to drain all her strength, and the burden of life and career suddenly weighed on her thin shoulders.
The 9-year-old daughter still doesn't understand the world, and she cries and screams for her father all day long, and Wang Qian's heart is like a knife.
But as a mother, Wang Qian knew she had to be strong.
She wiped away her tears and gritted her teeth to face the difficulties of life.
For the sake of her daughter, she regained her strength and walked out of the haze of bereavement little by little.
While taking care of her daughter, Wang Qian also returned to the screen, using work to numb herself and give life a new meaning.
The husband had a last wish before his death, which was to shoot a TV series called "Cradle".
This is Xu Qingdong's work that has poured a lot of effort into it, and it also shows his infinite love for the film industry.
In order to fulfill her husband's wish, Wang Qian spent 7 years preparing for this drama.
From the script to the shooting, she is involved in every detail and strives to present the most perfect work.
For Wang Qian, "Cradle" is not only a TV series, but also a memory of her deceased husband, and an unchanging miss in her heart.
Epilogue:
Time flies, time flies.
In the blink of an eye, 55-year-old Wang Qian has been living alone with her daughter for 8 years.
In the past 8 years, she has never thought about remarrying, because Xu Qingdong is the only one in her heart.
Every festive season, Wang Qian will take her daughter to sweep Xu Qingdong's grave, telling the bits and pieces of these years.
Although Xu Qingdong has left, their love has transcended life and death and turned into eternity.
Love requires courage and perseverance.
Wang Qian and Xu Qingdong's love across ages can stand the test of time.
Looking back on the past, no matter how hard it is, it can't withstand the fiery truth.
Wang Qian interprets the appearance of love in her own way, perhaps ordinary, but deeply moving.
There is love in life, what more can a husband ask for.
Let us bless Wang Qian, bless all the lovers who don't care about age, only care about their true hearts, and wish you happiness forever.