I once read such a passage: People are poor and cold, and they are cold and warm. Asking people is like swallowing a three-foot sword, relying on people like the ninth heaven.
There is not so much empathy in life, more is just cold and warm self-knowledge. It is impractical to ask people who do not have a common interest to pay for your loss.
The collapse of adults is mostly silent. The people around them are very busy, and they all have their own troubles, some pain, some pain, and they must carry it themselves.
When we are at the trough of life, it is like being in a cold winter, as long as we can strengthen our faith and survive, we can usher in spring.
Mr. Yang Dai once said: "When you are in a high position, all you see is flashy spring dreams, and when you are in a humble place, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world." ”
When you are at a low point in life, don't take the initiative to contact others frequently, in the eyes of most people, this is a kind of interruption.
And this kind of interruption will not only solve the actual problem, but may also aggravate your psychological pressure and cause sadness in vain.
When you are at a low point in your life, don't take the initiative to complain to others
The sword blade is sharpened by itself, the plum blossom fragrance comes from the bitter cold, and there are not so many casual successes in the world. Behind every dazzling, there is a bitter year.
When we are at the trough of life, don't bother others and pass on negative energy.
Choosing to be a character like Xiang Lin's sister-in-law, in addition to being able to temporarily exchange sympathetic eyes, does not help her plight in the slightest.
Too much frequent talking, in exchange for the other party's disgust. No one can be the trash can of your emotions, and the frustration you exude when your mood is depressed can easily affect the emotions of others.
After all, people have an instinct to seek advantages and avoid harms, and don't let yourself live as a "trouble" that everyone wants to avoid.
Some people live in tall buildings, some people live in deep ditches.
When you are in a high position, don't forget to introspect yourself, and when you are in a low valley, don't lose confidence. But this faith does not depend on others to give, but comes from one's own heart.
When you're at a low point in your life, don't overestimate your weight
When we are at the trough of life, we will all long for someone to pull ourselves, but the world is unpredictable, and it is the most unstable thing to pin our hopes on others.
When you smile, the whole world will accompany you, but when you cry, you are mostly alone.
Guo Degang said in his family training to Guo Qilin: "It is difficult to go to heaven, and it is even more difficult to seek people." Huang Lian is bitter, and no money is even more bitter. The danger of the rivers and lakes is even more dangerous to the human heart. Spring ice is thinner, and human feelings are thinner. ”
Fate is uncertain, each of us has struggled, but we have to compromise. Being a human being is most afraid of not recognizing yourself and overestimating your weight in the hearts of others.
As the saying goes, human feelings are as thin as paper. Your big thing, to someone else is just a story. The world loves the icing on the cake, and who wants to give charcoal in the snow.
When you are proud of the scenery, there is never a shortage of friends around you, but when you are down, you will find that the people around you have become busy.
Don't bother others, but don't want to disappoint yourself. People who have already tasted the warmth and coldness of human feelings will never want to taste it a second time.
To get out of the trough of life, rely on yourself.
Others can help you for a while, can't help you for a lifetime, once people form dependence, it is more terrible than being in a trough.
The reason why life is dazzling and happiness is precious is because there are ups and downs, there are highlight moments, and there are also lows.
A smooth life, everyone desires, but at the same time will make you become desireless, lose hope for life and the future, and lose the motivation to fight.
If you are not brave, who will be strong for you?
When we are in a low valley, we must know how to save ourselves, rather than pinning our hopes on others. When we are at a low point, we can see the cold of the world, and we can know who is a true friend and who is a hypocrite.
When you are in a difficult situation, don't bother others too much, so as not to end up being poor and poor. Man, the more you count on, the greater the disappointment.
There are too many uncertainties in life, but people who rely on themselves in a down-to-earth manner can live frankly without fear of hardships.
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[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]