Mango TV self-made domestic first marriage preparation life record reality show "21 days before marriage" has been broadcast to the fifth issue, recently, Liu Yongxi and his father because of the marriage issue dispute caused netizens to discuss, is to solve the long-term post-marriage planning or first solve the current gift problem, reflecting that young people pay more attention to the present, and the elders are more worried about the future social reality, the perspective of the problem is easy to let the two generations form a wall in the ideological and emotional exchange, but this is the story that every family is really happening. Liu Yongxi's family is also actively using dialogue and communication to resolve intergenerational conflicts, in the face of the father's reluctance and worry about his daughter's distant marriage, Liu Yongxi sent a long weibo post to reflect on his own willfulness and bad temper, and his mother's sentence "The daughter is old, can't stay, let it fly" is also a blessing and fulfillment for the daughter, and the family knows more about understanding and tolerance in contradictions and conflicts. In the show, Liu Yongxi's father asked his daughter all kinds of questions about married life, which also triggered the audience's thinking about the reality of marriage.
For sweet newcomers Li Jiaming and Liu Yongxi, marriage is a bold declaration of "as long as you dare to marry, I dare to marry", as long as you love each other, you have the courage to break through all tests, but talking about marriage is not a child's play, and the practical problems after marriage put forward by the elders are also what Liu Yongxi and Li Jiaming want to face. Liu Yongxi and his father quarreled because Liu Yongxi wanted to solve the problem of whether he should accept the gift money given by Li Jiaming's family first, but Liu Yongxi's father considered that it was not clear what the two planned for the future, there was no need to worry about the gift money, and the mother thought that when the daughter grew up, some things were to be reminded and suggested, but the point could be, and then let the children solve it. In the show, Liu Yongxi's father also raised concerns about the future of the two more than once: how to solve the problem of gathering less and leaving more after marriage? How is income distributed? How do families run their business? Is it to buy or rent a house when getting married?
Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, as Mother Liu said, "You always ask the children if they are ready, so ask rhetorically, are you ready?" In fact, as a parent, Liu's father was not ready: "It seems that I have been thinking about her in my heart, that is my child, I think it is the best child under the sky." 」 The daughter is about to get married, the parents' questions and worries are behind the children's unreassurance, and what is shown to the audience is the father's unspoken love.
In the program, Li Jiaming met his father-in-law for the first time, and the "high cold" attitude shown by Liu's father was from his father's natural "hostility" to his son-in-law; Liu's father took out the "Father-in-law's Book" that he had written for three months and asked questions, and the seemingly deliberate "difficulty" was actually the father's search for a channel for his worries to express; in fact, even Liu Yongxi's dispute with his father was just a father who did not want to let go, hoping that the child could still calm down and listen to his own nagging before marriage.
Liu Yongxi's father's various reactions to his daughter's marriage are actually the process of accepting and convincing themselves, Liu Yongxi's mother said "The daughter is old, can't stay, let it fly" said how many parents are helpless to leave their children. Liu Yongxi also understands her parents more through the program in the continuous run-in of two generations, she sent a long post on Weibo to write down the subtext behind her father's reluctance and worry about herself: "To get married, the daughter should learn to grow up, life is not carried out according to a beautiful trajectory, many things Dad can not bear for you, in case unsatisfactory things happen, does the daughter have the courage to face it?" Will you come back to find Old Liu crying nose? Old Liu couldn't see his most beloved daughter going home with tears in her eyes... Daughter, you think again, think clearly about remarrying", this is the good intentions of parents.
"21 Days Before Marriage" not only focuses on marital happiness, but also cares about family warmth and warmth, and records the details of the lives of four groups of guests through multiple angles, whether it is sweet, romantic, or anxiety and conflict, all of which are truly presented in front of the audience, so that the audience can understand and tolerate more in the collision of each family, trigger thinking about the reality of marriage, and experience warmth and happiness from it.