As the saying goes, "an ugly daughter-in-law always has to see her in-laws", and the latest issue of "21 days before marriage" Li Jiaming, a hairy son-in-law, always has to go to the door to see her future father-in-law.
Before going to his father-in-law's house, Li Jiaming confessed that he was very nervous, because he knew that his future father-in-law had a very cold personality and was a very serious person who did not smile. This undoubtedly made Li Jiaming, who was already nervous, feel even more pressured, afraid that where he said the wrong thing and did not do well enough, resulting in leaving a bad impression and evaluation on his father-in-law.
In fact, Li Jiaming's worries are not unreasonable, Liu Yongxi's father is a very serious and strict person, especially for Li Jiaming. In fact, as Liu Yongxi said, even if Li Jiaming is not wrong to do anything, he is "wrong", because he came to marry his beloved daughter, which is naturally some inevitable "hostility"
However, the pressure is also a good testing force, in the face of the "difficulty" of the father-in-law, Li Jiaming showed 100% sincerity, not only to cope with the assessment of the father-in-law, but also to prove how much he loves Liu Yongxi in front of the parents-to-be, otherwise how can the parents of others rest assured that the happiness of their daughters for a lifetime will be entrusted to you?
Li Jiaming's sincerity is the first - real
Yes, this is probably the most realistic of any reality show actor I've ever seen. Before Li Jiaming visited the door, Liu Yongxi reminded him that if he drank with his father, according to local customs, the first three cups should be done first.
Therefore, Li Jia remembered Liu Yongxi's words, and the first cup of drinking with his father-in-law, he drank it to show sincerity and respect.
Li Jiaming's reality is not only reflected in drinking, but also in the evaluation of his parents. In the face of inquiries from his parents-in-law, Li Jiaming revealed that his personality followed his father, and his father was a husband who completely listened to his mother at home.
In fact, Li Jiaming said this, which means that he will be like his father, and he will listen to Liu Yongxi's words when he starts a family in the future ~ This is a kind of assurance that he really gives to his father-in-law, but he is too honest.
Li Jiaming's words still made the father-in-law very satisfied, and at the same time amused Liu Yongxi's mother. Although Li Jiaming's words are somewhat realistic, they can not only adjust the atmosphere but also satisfy the parents-to-be, which can also be regarded as some value.
Li Jiaming's sincerity is the second rule - honesty
Liu Yongxi's mother asked Li Jiaming's age, and Li Jiaming, in order to please and reassure his mother-in-law, did not hesitate to say that he was 90 years old.
Not only was his real age exposed, Li Jiaming also explained to his parents-in-law that his official information was written in 92 years, and this was not his intention, it was the company's arrangement.
In this way, Li Jiaming's real age is not 28 years old, but 30 years old!
Although Li Jiaming is very honest about his true age, it is also a kind of honesty for his parents-in-law. But in fact, he is so honest, there are drawbacks.
On the one hand, it is equivalent to directly acknowledging that the age of their official information has moisture, and it is also equivalent to sitting on the "fraud" of the agency company and marketing the age of the artist to a smaller age. In other words, it also caused netizens to question, what is the age of other artists in Li Jiaming's company? Are they all real? (It is estimated that the brokerage company will not be embarrassed to see here) ~
On the one hand, Li Jiaming has a certain impact on his career, and the older the actor's role will become narrower.
Although as artists, both male and female artists are either vague in conception or small in age, after all, age is the biggest "natural enemy" for actors. And the agency to the age of the artist "fake", in fact, is also a helpless move.
After all, the age of artists and actors is like "gold", which is the "scale" of professional life, and the agency is also too worried.
Therefore, on the issue of age, Li Jiaming is sincere in front of his parents-to-be, but his image in front of fans and audiences has some bad influence.
And after the real age of 30 years old was exposed, it was a potential "blow" for a small actor like Li Jiaming, whose career development was slow and his popularity was not high.
Don't underestimate the difference between 28 and 30 years old, the difference between 2 years old will be a watershed between the ages of the two characters.
Li Jiaming's sincerity is the third article - resolute attitude
In the face of the torture of the father-in-law, Li Jiaming and Liu Yongxi are both actors, how to solve the practical problem of gathering less and leaving more after marriage? And Li Jiaming also made his own commitment, the first attitude is to resolutely resist all kinds of temptations.
As Li Jiaming said, the entertainment industry has too many temptations, and in line with the principle of giving Liu Yongxi a sense of security, he has done not add the contact information of actresses.
Liu Yongxi explained that this is to avoid the emergence of certain problems from the root.
Not only refusing to add the actress's contact information, Li Jiaming also promised that he and Liu Yongxi would be the first to call in addition to working hours.
From refusing to add actress contact information to maintaining communication with his fiancée anytime and anywhere during non-working hours, this is a unique sense of security that Li Jiaming can do to Liu Yongxi's professional characteristics.
In Liu Yongxi's words, this is the attitude of the two people to be responsible for each other's love and feelings, to do each other's best ability to make commitments and responsibilities for each other.
Seeing this, I not only lamented Li Jiaming's love and attitude towards Liu Yongxi again, but also very firm and responsible, and had the responsibility of a man.
But at the same time, I also feel some emotions, being an artist is really too much test, and the entertainment industry is tempted too much. The actors enter the group for half a year, and the actors are at work with each other day and night. If you play a couple, it is impossible to avoid emotional communication, although this is just work.
Therefore, as an actor and artist, facing up to the temptation, achieving your own commitment and correct attitude is the greatest strength to cope with all tests.