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Some people always think that with the help of others, their lives will be better, but they don't know that they can rely on others for a while, but they can't rely on a lifetime. In this life, only relying on yourself is the biggest winner.
Because no matter how big the eaves of others are, they can't cover the storm of your life. Moreover, if you don't work your own, no matter how much others help you, it won't work.
All things are not owned by me, all things are used by me. Only by strengthening one's faith and persevering in one's struggle can one attain one's own peace in the midst of the world.
The world is disturbed, and he is the master of his destiny.
Life, only by relying on yourself, is the winner of life.
01. The biggest guarantee of life is: ask yourself
People who rely on outside help know very little about their lives. And people who are self-reliant, do not have to travel far, they will have a pattern of governing their own lives. Because they know how to ask for themselves, they are the greatest guarantee for their lives.
There are two brothers who go out together. My brother learned a fish farming craft on his own and didn't make any money. After the younger brother went out, he went around to meet rich people and earned 300 taels of silver by relying on the investment of others.
After a few more years, the older brother built two ponds in his hometown by his own efforts, and the fishing industry flourished; while the younger brother turned around unsuccessfully, and the people who had previously invested in his business also withdrew. I didn't make money and lost a lot of money. The younger brother was very upset.
Just when the younger brother was in a state of distress, the older brother came to visit the younger brother. After listening to his younger brother's story of his failures, his brother said: "Ask others to always look at other people's faces, everything must rely on yourself, it is better to ask others than to seek yourself." Yourself is the guarantee of your own safe life. The younger brother understood instantly.
Asking others will suffer from the snub of others and taste the sweetness of life; and asking for yourself can protect yourself throughout your life and face all the winds, frosts, snow and rain in life without fear.
In a person's life, don't expect others to help you solve all the problems, some pains in life must be healed by yourself, and some thresholds must be crossed by yourself.
Only by being the master of your own life will you live as you please.
In life, there will be fewer people in the same way; the more suffering experienced, the less suffering will be suffered.
The years are long, the parents who raised us will grow old, the friends who make friends will also be scattered, and only if they can shield themselves from the wind and rain is the greatest confidence in life. Only in this way, even if you have experienced the ups and downs of the world and are injured to the skin, you are still your most solid backing.
In life, the greatest guarantee is to ask for yourself.
02. The greatest safety in life is: rely on yourself
Modern society, complex, confused fish and dragons, a little attention, will fall into a situation of provoking right and wrong. Therefore, smart people know that it is safest to rely on themselves.
People in the rivers and lakes, walking is not easy. The strongest refuge is created for yourself, and the greatest sense of security is also given to yourself.
Actor Song Dandan has been married three times in her life, the first time no one knows who her husband is; the second time she married Yingda, which is also the one that hurt her deeply; the third time is to marry her current husband Zhao Yuji, and only this marriage is that she met the right person.
The first half of Song Dandan's life was very painful, especially when she divorced Indah. Indah did not even come back to visit his son Batuu, and even his grandfather's funeral did not allow Batu to attend, and Song Dandan was very angry. So much so that in public, Song Dandan scolded Yingda for not being human.
Only a month after the two divorced, Yingda and Liang Huan married. Song Dandan may have been stimulated, and soon after Yingda got married, Song Dandan married Zhao Yuji, who had known him for 28 days. However, Zhao Yuji can be called a good husband, otherwise Song Dandan's third marriage is another tragedy.
Song Dandan was very distressed, especially during that period of time, nearly 15 years or so, no one looked for her to shoot, and she had to experience the pain of emotional changes. Strong and tenacious Song Dandan, a person in the house with the computer to play mahjong, stock trading, play games, to heal themselves.
Today's Song Dandan is over 60 years old and has long since retired. She now has a very stable life, and she says that when she recalls her previous painful experiences, she feels afraid and does not know how she survived alone. But she has always been strong and has never lost faith in life.
As she said in an interview: "I look back and I think every step I take is bumpy, but really every step for me is on the top." ”
There are too many variables in life, so that your life is full of insecurity. Instead of finding comfort in others, it is better to support yourself and give yourself a sense of security. What others give will make us feel involuntari, and what we give will make us feel safe and secure.
Relying on the sense of security given by others is likely to be a void in the end; and relying on yourself will be blessed by God.
In a person's life, there is as much effort as there is a sense of security; as much firm faith as there is, how stable life will be.
03. The biggest gain in life is: invest in yourself
Everyone likes a stable life in this world, but there are unpredictable storms in the sky, and people have bad luck and bad luck. Not everyone's life can be stable forever, there will always be unexpected accidents and accidents.
Some people will choose to ask for help, and some people will choose to take money to eliminate disasters. In fact, if we choose to invest in ourselves at the beginning and run our lives well, we will avoid many accidents, or even if accidents occur, we will be able to solve them.
The other day, I attended her classmates' party with my mother and found that several of my mother's classmates, although they had been eroded by the years, looked particularly young compared to them, as if they were two generations.
Later, in their chat, I learned that they were very concerned about maintaining themselves. They say that they should maintain their own physical health and not cause trouble to their children...
There is also a male classmate of the mother, whose project went out of business a few years ago, and looked around for someone to help invest in start-up funds, but he couldn't find it. Later, I enrolled in a study class in the city, studied economic management, market operation, and finally used my knowledge to make a comeback.
Times have changed, things are changeable, and what remains unchanged is their own ability. As long as you have the ability, you don't have to worry at any time. Even if you fall into the abyss, you will be born of adversity; even if you have no food in your bag, you will still make a lot of money.
Live to be old, learn to be old. No matter how old you are, as long as you insist on investing in your own learning, life will have inexhaustible power.
The cycle of years will take away a lot of you, but what can't be taken away is your wisdom, your ability, as long as you insist on investing in yourself, you will get the greatest benefit in yourself.
04, rely on yourself to win life
A person's life is destined to be a journey of single-handedness. If you are cowardly, no one is brave for you; if you are vulnerable, no one is strong for you. Life often has wind, frost, snow and rain, sour, sweet and bitter, you must experience it yourself; sorrow and joy, you must endure it yourself.
Therefore, do not rely on others, always rely on yourself, strong self is the king.
For the rest of your life, may you be the ferryman of your life. It can withstand the wind and rain, and can withstand the wind and frost and snow sword. Don't look at other people's faces, don't seek perfection. Rely on your own ability to shine and be the little sun of your life.
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