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01. Preface
Cui Yongyuan said: "Friends can't be seen when you are smooth, and when you encounter some unhappiness, you will find that there are very few friends at that time." ”
Money, like a mirror, can easily illuminate people's hearts.
When you have money, it seems that there are many friends around you; when you have no money, you find that there are actually very few people who really communicate with each other.
The more you are in the trough and in the mud, the more you can see through the reality of human feelings.
People, once poor, will have a new understanding of the world.
Life's ups and downs, deep in the situation, can make us clearly understand the people around us. Whoever is true to you and who is sincere to you can see it once when you are poor.
People, once they have no money, can see through people's hearts. At that moment, you will suddenly wake up: It turns out that in this world, no one can rely on you, and you can only rely on yourself.
Interact with each other, do not overestimate your feelings with others. Once a person is poor, he can see clearly the warmth and coldness of human feelings.
02, people have no money, low sense of dignity
Money is a piece of wrapping paper, which can make a person feel respected and make people look different.
When people have money, everyone is willing to be friends with you.
Su Can in the movie "Wu Zhuangyuan Su Qi'er", because his father is the governor of Guangzhou, is carefree and enjoys a good life of glory and wealth.
At that time, his family was well-off, he was full of friends, and every day around him was lively.
The friends around him are also full of flattery and respect for him.
However, during the examination of the title, he offended people, his father's official position was removed, and his title was not preserved.
Their father and son live on the streets, and none of the deceased are willing to lend a helping hand.
Because they had no money, they were bullied and forced to eat dog food. In the end, in order to survive, he was forced to be a beggar, suffered from white eyes, and fell into the abyss in his life.
Once people have no money, they are easily looked down upon and bullied.
When there is no money, those wine and meat friends who call brothers and brothers will also scatter, and they will not even want to look at you again.
In life, money can give a person dignity, but also can give a person the confidence to live.
Once people are poor, they will breed a sense of inferiority and live a grievous and humble life. Once people are poor, they understand what is the vicissitudes of the world, and the world is hot and cold.
03, man, once poor, he will see the human heart clearly
In life, when a person suffers from poverty, he is often in a "weak position".
The famous actor Huang Bo once felt it and said: "When people are weak, there are really many bad people." ”
Once a person is poor, he can see the people around him. When people are rich, everyone is willing to do "icing on the cake" because you have "value".
And when you are downcast and poor, there are too few people who are really willing to "send charcoal in the snow". Because, when you don't have money, your sense of value will be very low.
Only when you are poor will you understand the truth that "the poor are in the downtown area and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains."
Once a person is poor, he can see clearly the people around you and whether their feelings for you are deep or shallow.
When people are poor, people who really treat you will not stay away from you, let alone look down on you. Even, willing to reach out and pull you.
When you are suffering from poverty, if there is someone around you who does not abandon you, then this person is also worthy of your life to be kind.
04, people, no money, found that they can only rely on themselves
People live in this world, seemingly loved and cherished, but some people really can only walk on their own.
Lin Huiyin said: "Those who invite good companions to accompany the rainy season and walk through the years together, but one day they will eventually disperse at a certain ferry port." ”
When people get along with each other, some friendships are really only a few short spring and autumn.
Especially when a person encounters major setbacks and failures, it is often difficult for friends around them to maintain a relationship for a long time. Because, people get along with each other, often also need to be presented with "value".
Once people become poor and their sense of value becomes low, others are not willing to waste time and energy to manage a relationship.
Life is always stormy, and when you fall into poverty, you don't have to be sad, and you don't have to feel that the world is uncertain. All tribulations are only temporary.
There will always be a way in life, and you can only belong to yourself. Even if it is difficult, it is necessary to survive alone.
In the trough period, please tell yourself: the more tempering you have endured, the stronger your heart will be and your ability will be superior.
When people are poor, you can only rely on yourself, be strong, work hard, and always see the rainbow after the wind and rain. You don't have to have any attachment to the people who leave your life. Come welcome, go not demanding.
05. Summary
Wind and rain in life is the norm, no matter what kind of situation you suffer, please don't panic.
Even if you are in a low point and have no money, please maintain a good attitude. Because, all situations are to make you grow better and let you see the people around you.
People, once they have no money, they understand the sophistication of people and know how to work hard.
A person who has gone through the stage of no money is actually a very good thing. Because, after people are poor, they can stimulate their potential.
When people are poor, they should push themselves appropriately to know that there is a new situation that can be opened.
When people are poor, misfortune and happiness depend on each other, and there is no need to be discouraged.
Sticking to the hardest road in the past will have unexpected gains. When people are poor, they don't have to be in a hurry, try to improve themselves, grow, will understand more truths, and become better people.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.