People's life, will experience a lot of things, there are good things and bad things, when encountering bad things, we will always be pessimistic and disappointed, heartbroken, feel that the sky is going to fall, we must not be able to bear. But time is the best doctor, no matter how great the grief, no matter how deep the wound, it will slowly fade and heal in the passage of time. It is not terrible to encounter bad things, but it is terrible that we have been devastated since then, and we have lost the courage and perseverance to fight against bad things.
There are no two identical leaves in the world, and no two identical people! Even twin siblings can have differences of one kind or another. Not to mention others. Some people may be born very lucky, encounter more good times than bad times in their lives, get more happiness than pain, and have more wealth than others, but this cannot be a reason for us to be unhappy and unhappy! In the face of adversity, maybe this will make us calmer, learn to think, learn to be flexible! When experiencing pain, perhaps this can temper our will more and make us stronger and more decisive!
In people's lives, we will meet many people, some people make us sad, some people make us happy, some people make us grateful, and some people make us hate. The person who can make us sad must be the person we value the most. This person may be our loved one, our best friend, our favorite lover, and so on. We may be sad because of their betrayal, deception and departure, but there is a degree of sadness, we can't be sad all the time, and life has to go on! Today is a dark day, we can't change it, but when we wake up, tomorrow may be a sunny day with bright sunshine.
The love between men and women is perhaps the most torturous emotion in the world, and when we have it, we may feel that we are the happiest person in the world, and once we lose it, we will feel that the world is falling apart and we cannot live. In fact, no one in this world will live without anyone. If we are unfortunate enough to encounter such a change of mood, we may wish to divert our attention, such as friends who love literature, you can try to calm down to climb the grid, and the writers can share their writing experience; friends who like sports can go to the gym to practice muscles and move their muscles; they can also rub mahjong, dance square dance and so on. And when our attention is focused on one thing, the wounded heart will naturally be calmed.
Tolerance is a virtue! When others offend us, we may as well endure the anger in our hearts, learn to tolerate others, and perhaps one day, when we accidentally offend others, others will give us the same tolerance. Life is like this, one step forward, maybe it will be the abyss, and a step back, it will be the sea and the sky!
Simple and happy! The reason we have people who live in misery is because we ask too much! With power, you want money; with money, you want fame; with fame, you want love; with love, you want family, and so on. He wanted everything, and in order to get these things he wanted, he didn't hesitate to ignore the law and discipline of the country, and as a result, he might not get anything, and eventually end up in prison.
If you cry because you miss the sun, then you will also miss the stars. There are many things in life, we don't have to be too attached, such as wealth, such as power, can not have is not necessarily a bad thing, do not know that those who fall badly are often those who climb high! Life is a kind of continuous self-cultivation, giving up at the right time, learning to forget, and turning gracefully in life.