Wen | Zhao Jingxuan
Lin Yongjian is the audience's favorite squinting male actor,
He has starred in "The Age of Peace", "The Story of Happy Farming", "My Name is Wang Land"
"Golden Wedding" and other excellent works,
He is a member of the 10th and 11th Sessions of the China Federation of Literature and Art.
He is the vice chairman of the 6th China Television Association and the vice chairman of the 2nd Literary and Art Volunteer Association.
With his excellent performance,
Won the Golden Eagle Award for "Audience Favorite TV Drama Actor Award" three times,
Feitian Award "Outstanding Actor Award",
China-Korea International Film Festival "Art Award",
Sino-AMERICAN FILM FESTIVAL "Best Actor Award",
Chinese Opera Festival "Outstanding Acting Actor of the Year Award",
TV Series Gold Star Award "Outstanding Actor Award",
China Drama Festival "Excellent Performance Award" and other honors,
It was called "the most affectionate squinting shadow emperor" by netizens.
In addition to being the Emperor of Shadows, Lin Yongjian is also a "good son-in-law of the people".
Father-in-law and mother-in-law said that he was closer than his own sons,
Even Venus praised Zhou Dongqi's "eye poison" and picked up potential stocks.
However, it was such a "good son-in-law" who almost divorced when he became famous,
From the husband and wife who look at each other and hate each other to the present you and me,
What did Lin Yongjian do?
01
In 1969, Lin Yongjian was born in Qingdao,
Qingdao is near the sea, the sea is vast, but Lin Yongjian has a pair of "squinting eyes",
Laughing becomes a "silver lining".
When he was a child, Lin Yongjian was always ridiculed for his small eyes.
No one could have imagined that he would enter the show business circle.
One day when he was 17 years old, Lin Yongjian was walking on the street, and the ghost made God buy a newspaper.
As soon as he took it, he was attracted by the first page of information,
"Qingdao Repertory Theatre Admissions, interested!"
After Lin Yongjian saw it, he was moved, but as soon as he remembered his appearance, his interest dropped by 3 points.
Fortunately, I know my brother Mo Ruojie.
The sister saw Lin Yongjian's thoughts, so she opened her mouth to encourage:
"Your appearance is easy to remember, with its own sense of joy, you go and try it!" What if it does? ”
His sister's affirmation made Lin Yongjian's confidence increase greatly, and he handed in his information at the registration office.
Later, as his sister said, Lin Yongjian was admitted to the Qingdao Repertory Theatre and gave him the opportunity for half a year.
I think the meaning of family is here,
When you hesitate, someone can give you the most precious advice.
Lin Yongjian cherishes this hard-won opportunity,
However, when newcomers first enter the workplace, there will always be some tempering,
The same goes for Lin Yongjian.
In the drama troupe, Lin Yongjian poured tea and handed water, even if there was a chance, it was scraps.
But if you don't experience a bone-chilling experience, how can you get plum blossoms?
Hard work will be rewarded.
Soon, Lin Yongjian's spring came.
The CCTV program group came down to select people, and at a glance, they looked at Lin Yongjian, who was down-to-earth and hard-working.
At the sound of an order, he turned right and became a key training object.
Good character, luck is naturally not bad,
Lin Yongjian confirmed this, not only got the opportunity, but also married a military flower!
Man goes to the high place, the water flows to the low place,
In 3 years, Lin Yongjian went from a nameless boy to a drama actor in Qingdao.
But his ambitions were far more than that, so he seized the opportunity and jumped to the Guangzhou Military Region Comrades-in-Arms Drama Troupe.
Here, he started everything from scratch and floated and sank in Guangzhou for 8 years.
Later, he still relied on the substitute to pick up the leak, and won the role of the TV series "Peacetime".
After the series aired, it was nominated for the Feitian Award for Best Supporting Actor.
This time was nominated, Lin Yongjian looked at the bigger stage,
At the age of 30, he changed from a drift to a north drift.
Man is one life, thing is one life, it is a big deal to start over.
When he arrived in Beijing, Lin Yongjian washed the dishes again, starting from scratch,
Live in the basement, eat instant noodles, pour 2-3 hours a day on the bus to compete for roles,
The pressure was so great that he used the window as a toilet.
It wasn't until he later met Zhang Guoli that he came to prominence by relying on "Ji Xiaolan".
Later, the 2 also became "good friends" in "Golden Wedding".
There is a saying that goes like this: "Karma is good at diligence, absurd in play; action is in thought, and destruction is in follow-up." ”
Lin Yongjian does everything to the best,
Active in the crew, will be for an expression, a sentence carefully pondered,
In order to perform the play well, he entered the acting class of the Chinese opera.
And as a person, the crew is very concerned about him,
Soon after, he entered the Air Politics Repertory Theatre,
Here, Lin Yongjian used his personality to capture the love of his life.
02
Entered the Air Politics Drama Troupe, and became a colleague with Yan Ni,
Once, Yan Ni took Zhou Dongqi to Lin Yongjian's dormitory to find his roommate for rehearsals.
In order to avoid embarrassment, Yan Ni pulled Lin Yongjian to talk homely.
Nagging, Yan Ni suddenly asked a question: "Lin Yongjian, do you have a girlfriend?" ”
Lin Yongjian said awkwardly, "No! ”
Yan Ni was overjoyed: "Dong Qi is not there, do you two look at each other right?" ”
As soon as these words came out, Zhou Dongqi was very embarrassed and even pulled Yan Ni away.
Lin Yongjian was on his mind, thinking about how to get people out,
Lin Yongjian's old real is famous in the regiment,
He asked people with a red face several times before he found Zhou Dongqi's phone.
After the phone was connected, I was so nervous that I couldn't speak well.
Things are uncertain, and before the two can further understand, Lin Yongjian receives a call from his father who is seriously ill.
As a parent, the most worrying thing is whether the child is living well or not, whether he has a family,
The same is true of Father Lin.
He took Lin Yongjian's hand and said, "Son, Dad can't stand it, Dad wants to see you start a family." ”
Lin Yongjian looked at his thin father on the hospital bed, and tears flowed down.
Back in Beijing, he asked Zhou Dongqi to have a supper.
Halfway through the meal, Lin Yongjian suddenly said: "Dong Qi, we are both single, or we will get together to live a life, I will work hard!" ”
Zhou Dongqi was stunned.
Lin Yongjian saw the situation, his heart was very worried, Zhou Dongqi was born into a military and political family,
The conditions at home were several times better than Lin Yongjian's, how could she simply nod her head and agree?
After Zhou Dongqi eased up,
Pulling out the phone in my hand and calling home: "Mom, I'm getting married!" ”
After the conversation was finished, the phone hung up, and Lin Yongjian saw that Zhou Dongqi agreed, and he was so happy that he could not speak.
The next day, Lin Yongjian took Zhou Dongqi to the restaurant, and then returned to his hometown in Qingdao.
Married in Father Lin's hospital room.
In this way, Lin Yongjian married the military flower with a supper.
But marriage is not a child's play,
Those who are gracious and love before marriage, and quarrel endlessly after marriage,
Two people who don't know each other walk together and are doomed to a life of marriage that won't be stable.
03
At that time, Lin Yongjian was still a poor boy.
Father died early, only 30,000 yuan on his body,
There wasn't even a decent wedding, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law weren't at all happy with him.
Lin Yongjian in order to prove that he can give Zhou Dongqi happiness,
He did two things:
One is desperately acting,
The second is not to search for the face.
In the crew can rub the rice can not rub, he rubbed,
He searched for himself, and he did the same to Zhou Dongqi.
Zhou Dongqi's family conditions are good,
I haven't missed anything since I was a child.
She never thought that she would be so "sloppy" after marriage.
Once, Zhou Dongqi and a friend went shopping,
Passed a shoe store, saw a pair of shoes for 500 yuan,
Friends carry a lot of big bags,
Zhou Dongqi was moved, thinking of buying a pair with his own salary, Lin Yongjian always had nothing to say, right?
She bought her shoes home, put them on her feet and asked Lin Yongjian if he looked good.
Lin Yongjian looked at the tag for 500 yuan,
He immediately raised his voice:
"How do you buy such expensive shoes, I only have seventy or eighty shoes, is it necessary for you to buy such expensive shoes?"
This 500 yuan is enough for our 1 month's food expenses! ”
Zhou Dongqi was also aggrieved and quickly opened his mouth to explain that he was using his own money.
But Lin Yongjian was angry, and when he got married, he still shared what you and I,
The two had a big fight over the matter.
The couple's living habits are different, and they often quarrel over "how to spend money".
Although it is a small thing, the details determine success or failure,
Over time, the relationship between the two is very tense, and the marriage is in danger.
Lin Yongjian In addition to saving,
He was desperate.
In 2005, Lin Yongjian and "Sketch King" Gong Hanlin, as well as his partner Huang Hong, starred in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala sketch "Decoration".
Lin Yongjian reversed the string, starring as a Tianjin aunt, a puffy curly hair, a pink top,
Coming out of a smashed wall,
He shouted, "What are you doing!" ”
With a performance of 180 seconds, Lin Yongjian made the people of the whole country remember him.
But in fact, 5 days before the appearance,
Zhou Dongqi gave birth and lost their first child.
However, as husband Lin Yongjian is not around,
No one can get over such a hurdle.
Marriage is to support each other, when encountering difficulties, cheer each other up,
Accompany each other, as long as the other party needs, can appear in time.
In the face of Lin Yongjian, who is like a "demon" to money,
Zhou Dongqi retreated and wanted to end this marriage.
But Lin Yongjian is known for being honest,
That is, to recognize death.
Since you have been married back home, there is no reason to let you go,
He only when Zhou Dongqi was a tantrum,
Still busy making money.
I love you, so I love The House and the U,
Lin Yongjian is a traditional man, sweet words he will not, but his love is in daily life.
Although he cut in the aspect of money, he was also "stingy" towards Zhou Dongqi.
But the money that should be spent, he was not stingy at all.
Zhou Dongqi's younger brother wants to study abroad,
But Zhou's father and mother are old, and they can't afford this cost of studying abroad.
Lin Yongjian, as brother-in-law,
He took over this responsibility without saying a word,
He also said to his brother-in-law, "You study hard, and when you read it, I will send it to you." ”
After sending the brother-in-law abroad, the family was left with my father-in-law and mother-in-law.
The son wants to raise and does not wait, such a regret Lin Yongjian tried,
The son-in-law is also a son- and since he has become the son-in-law of the old Zhou family, his father-in-law and mother-in-law are also his own parents.
He discussed with Zhou Dongqi to take his father-in-law and mother-in-law to his side.
But Zhou Dongqi looked embarrassed,
At that time, the house they lived in was 30 square meters, and the two people living in it were slightly crowded.
Take the parents over, there is no room for privacy at all.
Lin Yongjian saw Zhou Dongqi's hesitation.
He said: "My parents are not in good health, and they are at ease when they receive them, otherwise we will be like this.
Let's buy a house first, even if it's 2-lot. ”
After Zhou Dongqi listened, he said lightly: "We don't have any money for 2 hands!" ”
Lin Yongjian smiled and took out his bank card: "We have it!" ”
Looking at the smiling and blossoming man in front of him, Zhou Dongqi also understood,
It turns out that his "cutting" is also another kind of love.
This love can be seen and touched.
04
After taking my father-in-law and mother-in-law to my side,
Lin Yongjian was afraid that his wife would not be able to take care of her alone.
He eased his work and left all his time to his family.
My mother-in-law was sick, and Lin Yongjian ran before and after running for her.
Register, take her for examination, and he does everything himself,
In order to control the 3 highs, Lin Yongjian was always paying attention to the food of the two elders.
Too salty, too sweet, too oily, nothing,
Staying up late in the hospital as a nurse, pushing her out to bask in the sun when the weather was good.
It is said that there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time,
But Lin Yongjian did not abandon it in the slightest, and everything was taken care of properly.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law boasted, "This is my son-in-law, but he is better than his own son." ”
Regret for his father, Lin Yongjian put it on his father-in-law and mother-in-law,
Living together for 19 years, he never blushed with his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Once, Zhou Dongqi couldn't stand his parents' nagging,
Talk to them in a tone of voice that rushes a little,
Lin Yongjian immediately said to her: "Talk well, how old are you, what angry with your parents." ”
Over the years, Lin Yongjian's fame has become bigger and bigger, and the house has become bigger and bigger.
But what remains unchanged is that the name on the house is always Zhou Dongqi.
In 2010, Zhou Dongqi gave birth to a son Lin Dajun,
Time flies,
Today, Lin Yongjian is 53 years old,
His son, Lin Dajun, also became an 11-year-old boy.
In order to better accompany his son to grow up,
In 2016, Lin Yongjian said that he would suspend the new work.
He said: "If you just focus on busy work, the relationship between father and son will be red lighted,
Your child's childhood is fleeting, and the scene can be filmed at any time, but the child will not wait for you.
I can't act for a lifetime, but Dad has to be a lifetime. ”
Lin Yongjian did what he said, and after that, he rarely appeared on the screen.
05
There are many men who can speak the truth, but very few can shoulder responsibilities.
Lin Yongjian is one.
He has been in the past few decades, no scandal and no hype,
Concentrate on acting well and living your own little life.
Such a man is the best of the best,
Living a life is not the same as falling in love,
When you are in love, you can talk about it all over the world,
But marriage is different.
The talent of genuinely caring for the family is precious.
Lin Yongjian will not sweet talk, and the romantic things between husband and wife cannot be done.
But he lives a very real life, and there is no shortage of responsibilities to bear,
Express your love with your own actions.
In the face of Zhou Dongqi's dissatisfaction with him, he did not care,
When the brother-in-law needs help, stand up,
When the father-in-law and mother-in-law need to be cared for, he does not wear clothes,
Just sending the brother-in-law to study abroad, few people can reach,
Not to mention not having your father-in-law and mother-in-law supported by your biological parents.
This thousand-year-old Lin Yongjian, can Zhou Dongqi not love?
Of course she loves!
In fact, such love is high-quality, worthy of our pursuit of love.
In life, most women have illusions about love.
Single-minded pursuit of perfection and romance,
But such a love only exists in fantasy,
And what we need to love is the real person, not the abstraction of the imagination.
I hope that Lin Yongjian and his wife will continue to be happy and bless them!
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