Before there was a very hot word on the short video platform, "I emo", many people estimate that they often see it, but they don't understand what it means.
In fact, emo is popularly speaking, my emotions are up, of course, this emotion is definitely not a good emotion, generally a negative emotion.
Later, someone launched a campaign to lose the "emo", and many people also followed the trend, but there were a few who could really lose it from the bottom of their hearts.
Many people are full of ambition during the day, persistent depression and depression at night, and may ask themselves countless times in their hearts, is my life over?
Effort is useless? Anyway, good luck never takes care of yourself, wake up, life is more than one color.
Especially in this era when everything is fast, many people seem to be busy with themselves as a gyroscope, but life is still a mess.
The pressure of children's further education, the pressure of choosing a career in middle age, the pressure of parents' illness and support, the contradictions between husband and wife, and the aspects of life seem to be pressing on themselves.
Now many people are depressed during the day, anxious at night, and can't sleep at one or two o'clock in the middle of the night, as if they don't make money for a minute, and they are a sinner.
But effort is also confusing, especially when you see some people easily get what they want, while they try so hard and lose a mess.
Many people choose to lie flat because they feel in their hearts that no matter how hard they try, good luck will never take care of themselves.
Why do people now have such emotions?
The short video era has made information dissemination simple, and people's way of life and entertainment has changed from watching TV in the past to brushing short videos now.
The big explosion of information has pros and cons, especially for many people with weak self-recognition and no worldview, it is easy to affect them.
Take a short video, at the beginning of the door is a variety of life and scenery, everyone likes it very much, and later it has become a platform for some people to show their lives.
Then came a group of fake rich people, fake successful people, although these people slowly disappeared, but it gave many people an illusion.
It seems easy to earn ten thousand yuan, and the monthly salary of tens of thousands seems to be normal, and the kind of people with a monthly salary of thousands of yuan is simply a loser in life.
Accept yourself, accept the ordinary
Saying so much is to say a sentence: "We have seen too many glamorous people, whether they are real or fake, especially the people around them, happiness is really too harsh." 」 ”
Everyone set off from the same running line, why did he live so well, he still ate the last meal, did not know where the next meal was.
In fact, to be honest, it is not so much to hate yourself for not living the way you want to live, but rather that other people's lives make you feel envious.
Envying the lives of others is the norm, and each of us is envious of others, and at the same time we are secretly envied by others.
In the past, an official number has released a set of comics, telling the story of "envy", everyone wants to be like each other, disgusted with the boring status quo.
People have the ambition to soar into the sky, and they cannot pass through themselves without luck
In fact, it is really not necessary, the vast majority of us are ordinary people, many people will not have a big thing in their lives, and a lifetime of ordinary is the norm of life /
Get up early on the street to take a look, there are figures busy and running for life, this is what ordinary people should look like.
Don't say that there is no effort, effort is useful, such as you spend 2 hours delivering takeaways, make dozens of dollars more, than you sleep at home, or spend dozens of dollars ten thousand times stronger.
We ordinary people have to work hard, but don't try too hard to become a kind of paranoia, learn to accept that things backfire, and pursue the beautiful too eagerly, which will only make you tired.
The old ancestors have long said: "People have the ambition to soar to the heavens, but they cannot pass through themselves without luck", even if they are just an ordinary person, even if the family conditions are not very good, they must work hard to live.
Each of us ordinary people is actually creating different stories, trying to live our ordinary days well, that is the biggest extraordinary.
After all, it is not the hero who stands in the light who is the hero, and each of us who is nameless is also the hero of our own life.