Zi Yue: "Gentlemen have nothing to argue about. It will shoot too! Give in and rise and drink, and its contention is also gentleman. ”
Translations
Confucius said, "A gentleman has nothing to fight with." If so, it's an archery competition! The two sides humbly let them go up to the church, walk down the hall, and finally drink alcohol, and such a contest is gentlemanly. ”
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In ancient times, archery was not only a martial art, but also an entertainment competition. The competition takes place in the courtyard, in groups of two. When it is their turn to play, the two will go up the stairs to the church, and when they go up the steps, they will make a salute and make concessions to each other. After each of them finished shooting arrows, the two men also made a salute when they came down to the hall and bowed to each other. After the game, the negative party must be punished for drinking, and they must also go to the church, and they must also make a salute and give in to each other. The whole game was played in a very polite manner, appearing to be gentle and elegant, harmonious and orderly. This kind of activity is not only a skill competition, but also a training of personal temperament cultivation, reflecting an elegant competition atmosphere. The contestants showed a peaceful psychology of winning and not being proud of defeat, showing courtesy and friendliness to their opponents, and a gentlemanly demeanor. Although the game is won and lost, it is a winner in terms of mental outlook.
A gentleman is selfless and generous: therefore, he does not fight for interests and reputation, and does not argue about right and wrong and will. The indisputation here is not an endorsement and echo of the wrong opinion, but the belief that the dispute over small rights and wrongs is meaningless, but will have side effects. The reason for the indisputable reason is the understanding and understanding of those who hold wrong opinions, which is the embodiment of open-mindedness and generosity. Although the gentleman does not compete with others on specific matters, he is the ultimate victor. This victory is premised on the availability of character, insight, knowledge, and ability, and is the triumph of personality.
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