"Dream of the Red Chamber" is a very great novel, the characters in the play have long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and even mention some characters in the play, will become synonymous with a certain aspect.
For example, the dispute between Bao Dai in the novel, which seems to be an inevitable and irreconcilable contradiction, some people just like Lin Daiyu's true disposition, and some people just like to learn Xue Baochao's knowledge.
The Tinglin Sect and the Tingxue Sect have always had their own reasons, and sometimes they will fight for this big fight, and they are eager to denounce each other for being worthless, although the relationship between the two people in the original work is actually relatively good, and even Lin Daiyu recognized Aunt Xue as a mother.
If it is reality, how will you choose, if you really choose, are you willing to marry Baochao, or are you willing to marry Daiyu?
If I had to choose, I would choose Xue Baochao, because marriage is a long-term mutual, the joy of the first sight, not as good as the long-term like, marriage and love are really not the same thing.
In fact, this question, at different ages, will have different answers, because at different ages, people's feelings and thinking are not the same, when they are young, they think of marrying Lin Daiyu, because Lin Daiyu represents rebellion.
Sister Lin knows more about me, a sentence Sister Lin never advised me to study, completely classified Xue Baochao into a kind of person who chases fame and fortune, and those Lu worms in Jia Baoyu's heart are the same characters.
Lin Daiyu's rebellion is a rebellion against tradition, a rebellion against hypocrisy, a rebellion against the original human condition, especially on the issue of reading, Lin Daiyu's rebellion is completely in line with all the fantasies of a teenager and his future.
This is the same as us who just graduated from college, the road arranged by our parents is not going, the stable job is not, we must follow our hearts, we must go out and break in, but the result is that most of them will regret it.
Parents are also young, but why would they persuade their children to find a stable job, this is the ordeal of life, give them the final choice, too much fact, a stable job in, really fragrant.
Rebellion often has to pay a price, just like Jia Baoyu finally went to the imperial examination for the sake of the family, many things since you are alive, you must take on certain responsibilities.
Xue Baochao could see more clearly, for the sophistication of human feelings and all the pros and cons, she had a very clear calculation in her heart, which may also be related to her being from a merchant family.
Marriage is a long-term thing, two people to spend decades together, in this long years, two people to face the chai rice oil and salt countless times, to face the trivialities of life countless times, because mutual understanding, mutual tolerance is very important, how to reasonably deal with the relationship with others, is also very important.
But these Lin Daiyu are not good at, Lin Daiyu is talented, but because of this, he has developed his arrogant personality, and under this personality, it is inevitable that there will be some contemptuous actions.
And Xue Baochao is more decent, all aspects are more balanced, poetry is certainly not as good as Lin Daiyu, but she can also be properly called a talented woman, and after marriage, she will definitely be able to take care of a home in an orderly manner.
Home is not only two people, it is a whole, and in the face of this whole, you can't let your own small nature, you must have a very gentle and appropriate way to deal with the problem, otherwise it will add a lot of trouble for no reason.
In fact, no matter how much you say, you are less than a certain age, it is difficult to really appreciate the meaning, when you are young, you like Lin Daiyu, and after middle age, you must begin to like Xue Baochao, and to marry Xue Baochao is also to marry Xue Baochao.
Which one will you marry, welcome to leave a message to communicate.