If people want to make their personality and ability more perfect, or stronger, then they must learn to dispel the shortcomings of the crowd and the strengths of the masses.
If we always stare at the shortcomings and shortcomings of some people, then there may not be people around us who we can intersect.
But if we can stare at the strengths and strengths of others, or learn, or imitate, then we are basically surrounded by people who can relate to us.
But there is a very important premise to do this, that is, a person's mental framework is close to objective, rather than extremely biased towards the self.
In fact, feelings, walking the heart is the same reason, let's take a constellation as an example, to talk about this matter in detail.
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Once the relationship has a gunpowder flavor, it is very difficult to eliminate it, and in general, the things that make the relationship have a gunpowder flavor are competition and comparison, one of which is strong and the other is weak, and their psychology is completely different.
For example, those people with strong personalities that we can see in life, then such a personality will bring some gunpowder to the relationship, and even say that this gunpowder smell is not even aware of themselves.
In the same way, the same is true of weak personality, in other words, in the relationship, there is no one in this world who has a truly perfect personality, so it is easy for people to have a gunpowder smell between people.
Of course, when you understand the concept of "gunpowder taste", don't just understand it as the concept of "sword rattling", in fact, it has many concepts.
For example, whether there is a practical effect, whether there is a real meaning, then in this concept, you think about the characteristics of Taurus.
If you want to understand, you may be able to enter the heart of a Taurus person, and if you don't understand, I advise you not to try, there is no result.
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Let's talk in detail about the characteristics of taurus in this regard, and the growth stage of people will have a more distinct or large difference between before and after, for example, we often say that some people are not enlightened, and some people are civilized.
This point is particularly obvious in Taurus people, and the growth and enlightenment of Taurus requires extremely deep stimulation, which is very similar to the growth and change of its otaku Scorpio person.
So if a Taurus does not experience any major injuries and pain in the process of growing up, then he generally does not wake up in advance, and taurus men and women are the same.
In general, special experiences are not easy to appear in Taurus people, because they are very good at stopping losses.
For example, if they have no future with the current object, then after he has this idea, he will not pay attention and start to stop loss.
One-sided, so special experiences often appear in the type of thing that taurus can't walk out of a certain circle on its own.
Then this characteristic of taurus will lead to a thing that they grow slowly in their relationships, because they are biased towards the self, so they are very unbelieving.
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Taurus's first love is a relatively meaningful problem, in fact, many Taurus in the first love is often abandoned party, Taurus does not express feelings, they only recognize the facts and rules.
This incident has a great impact on taurus' emotional consciousness in the future, and it is difficult for them to go out of this circle of influence.
They're always thinking about practical things, like an intuitive question, what's the use of making friends? You take people as friends, what do they think of you?
After that, it is the logic of stop loss again, it is obvious that the Taurus with this inertial thinking is not the Taurus that has awakened, in fact, you can also find a characteristic in such Taurus that they will resist interpersonal relationships.
Resistance is because they feel useless, or too tired, this psychology is not a simple concept, through which we can draw two conclusions.
Taurus can safely accept the relationships they want, the relationships they feel comfortable with, and the other is that Taurus can't adapt to relationships that are not within their own thinking framework.
Of course, many times, maintaining a relationship is indeed a tiring job, but if we feel tired, it means that we are not good at handling the relationship.
Not good at it because self-awareness is too heavy, not how tiring it is to maintain relationships.
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In fact, after saying the first 3 points, you have almost concluded that it is difficult to enter the heart of the Golden Bull.
To put it simply, if you like a Taurus and you are willing to be nice to him, the Taurus can accept you on the surface, but it may not be such a thing on the inside.
Two concepts, one is the relationship of interests, the other is a pure emotional relationship, the essence of these two relationships Taurus is very clear, in a relationship, Taurus's thinking framework will only affirm one relationship.
Either it is a relationship of interest or a pure emotional relationship, the former needless to say, the key is the latter, what is the pure emotional relationship that taurus thinks?
For Taurus, this one is almost non-existent, between friends? Between objects? Between husband and wife?
Or let's talk about the inverse logic:
Once Taurus finds the essence of a relationship off-topic in a relationship, what will they do? Stop!
Relatively speaking:
Taurus accepts a person in its heart and affirms a person, which requires a long time or common experience, as well as an accurate verification of the person's character, feelings, morality, and three views.
If there is no result in this matter, the Taurus will not be at ease with the person in front of him, let alone at ease, and when it comes to this kind of thing, the Taurus itself feels tired.
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Taurus' inner demands and pursuits are actually still very pure, and at the same time, they are also very stubborn, and they will resist or give up relationships that they feel are meaningless.
So in Taurus, there are very few relationships that can survive.
Although they themselves do not believe that they will meet a pure person, they will still have an empty room in their hearts reserved for this unknown.
It is actually very easy for Taurus to do something with a purpose, whether it is smooth or good expression ability, which they can easily learn.
The shortness of the crowd, the length of the broad masses, this logic Taurus as long as it has been used once, it will automatically be in the future.
Because there is no need to really walk the heart to do this, and in the face of feelings, even if they are civilized Taurus, they are still "clumsy".
Finally, whether a person has really entered the heart of the Taurus or not, this has to let the Taurus give the answer itself, and the answers of others are inaccurate.
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