When I was a child, some parents said that "I hope my children just grow up happily" sounds really ironic!
For years in a row, whenever I came home at night and passed next door, I could hear a woman screaming as she tutored her son, and I didn't know when she would stop! It's okay once or twice, but after a long time, I feel sorry for the child!
When I went to the hospital, I was surprised, many of the registered parents took their children to the psychiatric department, and there were children of four or five years old! I have to say that most depressed children have terrible parents at home!
It is not easy for children, the educational environment is extremely perverted, and parents do not understand education and cannot understand them. The so-called not letting the child lose at the starting line means forcing the child to become mentally ill!
Children in the first year of high school begin to go to bed at 1 o'clock and start at 6 o'clock every day, and those who are beaten with iron will not be able to stand it!
In the past two years, how many students have jumped off buildings in our nearby schools, it is estimated that no one dares to report it, and the depression is probably mild, and no one is willing to face this reality.
Whenever I see the news of a child's depression and suicide, the people around me talk about this problem, and the most they say is that now the child's ability to bear it is too poor, glass-hearted, and parents are spoiled and selfish, as if they have never asked why the child is depressed and will commit suicide. If you drive the child crazy, you have to ask: How did this unfortunate thing come to my house?
Children are the bottom of the family and even the entire social ecological niche, so all the negative energy, resentment, jealousy, greed, etc. around you will eventually be poured into the trash can of children like garbage, intentionally or unintentionally, so their world is not as sunny as adults think, and social pressure is often embodied in unimaginable ways.
Now it is a superficial set of propaganda people-oriented, behind the scenes of students as resources, some parents just treat children as assets, although children are naïve, but not stupid, they will want to die when they are pressed by the cage built by adults, even if they are really dead, they will be blamed for the child is too fragile, extremely sad, and those who survive, who are still willing young people, choose not to marry and have children, but they are just fighting against a bigger cage.
Sometimes I think about the results, I try my best to get into a university, but I can't find a job when I come out, so why bother!
As we all know, education is a closed loop, and the result of how parents treat children will eventually return to parents in circles.
Involution doesn't just hurt, it doesn't even make sense. When excessive stress exceeds the brain's capacity, it only plays a role in holding back. Therefore, a lot of "volumes" are simply in the opposite direction, a sigh.
If parents themselves have not suffered from studying, they will not be able to understand and understand their children. We have suffered from learning ourselves, so I know how hard it is to study, and I don't want to go back to school, so my child didn't sign up for any tutoring classes, and when I can be happy, I can have more!
What is lacking in our country's education is not knowledge but wisdom, and it is not the same to study hard and work hard to memorize papers.
Cultivating concentration, learning ability, ability to cope with pressure and the spirit of not admitting defeat may be more crucial, as for the number of points in the exam.
Ordinary people let go of their demands, find their comfort zone to lie down, and accept the levels and materials they can achieve, which is a relief for themselves and their children. This world is the world of capital and a very small number of talents, and no matter how high ordinary people jump, they are also sending nutrients upward, so why bother?
My philosophy is that grades are not that important at all, after all, people's interests and concentrations are different, and there is no need to compare with others, life is a marathon, and it really doesn't have to be at what age to blossom and bear fruit.