When men hurt themselves, many women will quarrel with men, however, such an approach will not make you happy. Only men who really hurt you will be afraid of your noise, most men in the relationship, in fact, the most feared is the woman's noise, because:
1, noisy shows that you still care about him, so he just needs to coax you
In fact, the more you care, the more noisy you are, so when you quarrel with him because of a man's behavior, he will be happy in his heart. This kind of performance of yours will make him feel that you can't do without him, so he won't listen to you seriously, but will only coax you casually.
2, noisy explanation and communication, he also has the opportunity to make excuses for himself
If you quarrel with him, it means that you still want to continue with him, which means that you are willing to give him a chance to explain. So, he will make excuses for himself and even weave lies to deceive you. He doesn't really think about how he wants to get better, he just thinks about how to get through the confusion.
Therefore, in the relationship, the last thing a man is afraid of is the woman's noise, and the more noisy you are, the more he has the opportunity to defend himself. Only when you are silent can men be truly afraid because:
1) Silence shows that you have no expectations of him
If a woman is really disappointed in a man, she will become less noisy and undisturbed. Therefore, what men are afraid of is not the noise of women, but the silence of women. Because when you are silent, it means that you no longer believe him and are not willing to give him another chance.
2. Silence is a manifestation of unlove
In fact, silence is a manifestation of unlove, because it hurts the heart, so no matter what men do, there will be no reaction. Men are afraid of women's silence, because when a woman begins to be silent, it means that she no longer loves in her heart.
3, silence will make the contradiction accumulate more and more
After the contradiction occurs, if the woman chooses to be silent, it will make the contradiction accumulate more and more, and even cannot be released. Therefore, men are afraid of women's silence, and such cold treatment will only bring greater harm to feelings. If the contradiction cannot be resolved in time, the two people are likely to drift apart.