Don't accumulate feelings and emotions, and finally immerse yourself in your own feelings and emotions, and concentrate on the other party.
The other person's language behavior makes you uncomfortable, and you should immediately deal with the matter with the other party.
Instead of being aggrieved and uncomfortable, holding back and accumulating to a certain day (zero boundary point), because of a small thing, all emotions and grievances erupt for no reason.
At this time, the other party will be confused, will you feel that such a small thing is necessary for you to make such a fool of yourself? You don't want to live it, do you? This way of dealing with emotional feelings is very detrimental to feelings.