As I get older, a lot of my mindset has changed, like I'm becoming more solution-oriented.
Many people's so-called bitter words seem to be full of emotion, but in fact they are useless, and these words are based on the conclusion of a single sample of his own life experience and perception, scientifically speaking, it is completely unspentative, nothing more than telling you about his experience and experience.
For example, some people who have suffered hardships will tell young people that it is good to suffer and can exercise people.
It sounds encouraging, but it doesn't make much sense. Because he has not "suffered", he simply does not have the ability to objectively compare "suffering" with "not suffering" - even, I dare to speculate maliciously that he may be mainly trying to make you suffer a little, not for your own good. Like your boss.
Suffering is not necessarily more than a smooth ride. There are many more "principles of life" that cannot solve the problem.
"Teacher, I'm so bitter, I opened a café and no one came." Every day is painful. ”
"It is good to eat some bitterness, to understand sweetness after eating bitterness, to have resilience only when you eat bitterness, and to persist in order to see the dawn."
You believe in these chicken soups, if you don't stop the loss in time, you may be killed by him. And really want to help you, is to ask what to do.
The principle of life is far less than the solution, I suggest that everyone should use the latter as a guide to think about the problem, and the brain will be much fresher.
