If you have time, let the little ones have fun

Photographed on February 12, 2022 at home coffee table

In the evening, accompanied piggy piggy to McDonald's, I drank a cup of coffee, and he ate apples. Soon after, he took my hand and walked downstairs to my seat.

I saw a place for a kid to play in the children's area, and I took him in to play. At first, they played together, and finally they got tired of playing, and the piggy pig continued to play.

I don't know how long it took, when I wanted to go, this little piggy piggy didn't want to go and said "last time". This means that there is no last time, and it just happens to mean that I still want to play.

When I wanted to carry him away, a McDonald's big sister happened to tell me, "He's so focused on playing, why don't you let him continue playing?"

Just this sentence made me a little overwhelmed and felt awakened. Yeah, why not let the kids keep playing.

If you have time, let the kids play

I looked at the time of my phone, and it was still early to eat, so I simply let him continue playing. The eldest sister was right, since the child was playing happily, why bother his Yaxing.

The words of this eldest sister, I thought carefully, were not my original intentions for education? Do not disturb the child's concentration, do not disturb the child who plays with his heart.

I was going to take the child home forcefully, and the idea had gone against my original intention, really punching myself in the face, and it was a bit big.

This can reflect a truth, the difference between reality and ideals.

Think about the ideal or continue, if there is time, or let the child play more, concentrate on playing, until the child is tired of playing.

Nor do we want to be disturbed at the moment when we are having fun

If we are also having a good time and are suddenly disturbed, the mood will definitely be suddenly unhappy, and may even be mad.

For example, if we play basketball on the court and it rains heavily when we are happy, everyone loses their good and happy mood.

We know how to express our emotions because we're adults and have to complain about the weather that shouldn't be coming.

Turning to the child, the child does not understand that he suppresses his emotions, so he will only cry. From the amount of crying and the time, it can be judged whether the child has just had a lot of fun.

If you are very happy and suddenly disturbed, the child should not cry for too long, and can calm down in an instant and not cry. If you are not happy and suddenly disturbed, the child will definitely cry loudly and cry for a long time.

Therefore, let the child have fun, you can let the child voluntarily leave the scene.

No one wants to be disturbed, adults are like this, let alone our cute children.

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