As the saying goes: "Burn more incense, provoke more ghosts", the ancients experienced, a saying that breaks human nature often says: Reading countless people, it is better to help noble people. In life, we often encounter some solutions that are not solved

As the saying goes: "Burn more incense, provoke more ghosts", the ancients experience, a word to break human nature

As the saying goes: Reading countless people, it is better to help each other than noble people. In life, we often encounter some problems that cannot be solved. At this time, we are eager for someone to help.

Sometimes, however, the ending often backfires.

As the saying goes: burn more incense, provoke more ghosts.

Sometimes, asking too many people, it is difficult to achieve great things.

Rely on people to run, rely on yourself not to fall

Have you ever experienced such a dilemma:

When you are in difficulty, when you say that you want to invite someone to dinner, the hearers can't avoid it.

But when you are rich, even if you borrow money from others, there are people who give generously.

As the old saying goes: Poor in the downtown no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives. This is the reality of human nature. The world is hot and cold, and the world is vicissitudes. The essence of human nature is to be born of profit.

All the hustle and bustle in the world is profitable, and the world is bustling for profit. The thing that concerns the interests is that blood relatives will break the blood flow, not to mention people who are not relatives.

Society is very realistic, and this is what human nature wants.

Therefore, we must stay sober as a person. Don't be superstitious about the camaraderie of "friends".

Rely on everyone will run, rely on the mountain to fall.

In life, the only thing you can rely on is yourself. As long as you don't give up, nothing can make you shrink back; as long as you are strong enough, nothing can break you down.

Even if there is no one to hold an umbrella, we must strive to move forward; even if there is no one to help, we must strive to be strong. We must believe that the so-called success is just a little longer than ordinary people insist on.

More people talk, less helpers

In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is written: After reading all the human feelings, I first understand the foot of the madness; I am prepared to taste the taste of the world, and I know that it is true.

The world is cold and warm, like people drinking water. Only after going through the tastes of sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty can we understand that people live in the end in order to complete themselves.

In fact, everyone is struggling to live for themselves. Along the way, everyone will feel hard, tired, difficult, and sad.

So, the biggest social etiquette for adults is not to cause trouble for others.

We cannot blame people for being cold and thin, but can only say that it is the common sentiment of people to seek advantages and avoid harms. In the face of interests, even blood relatives will turn their faces. What's more, at the intersection of generality, Pingshui meets.

In life, there are more people who look at you, fewer people who understand you, more people who talk about you, fewer people who help you, more people who meet, and fewer people who depend on each other.

This society is like that. Don't bend down easily and ask for someone. The words of others cannot solve the problem.

In everything, ask yourself more. No one understands, works their own, no one helps, tries their best.

Understand that the strong are not without tears, but can run forward with tears in their eyes. Everything you have won for yourself is more fragrant than what others have given.

People talk a lot and talk a lot

As the old saying goes: many people are powerful.

But the old ancestors also told you: People have many mouths and many words.

Everyone must have heard the story of the three monks who had no water to drink.

The end of the story is to tell us: sometimes, more people are good at doing things; but sometimes, more people will mess things up.

For the essence of the human heart is self-interest. When confronted with something that is not good for themselves, most people instinctively choose to escape.

Kazuo Inamori said that man can be roughly divided into self-centered, self-interested people and the opposite, altruistic people. Unfortunately, altruism, that is, the kindness of caring for others and thinking of others, is not easy to develop.

In this world, after all, there are more people who are selfish, and fewer people who are altruistic.