About love, personal story

What is love?

In April 2021 I met a girl, and in June we were together, because in Shanghai, we are a weekend couple, usually all kinds of work weekends to meet.

I really like her, and I do what I can do in my feelings, and I'm afraid that she can't feel that I love her, and I love her very seriously.

Usually WeChat chat or voice or video, stay together on weekends to watch TV movies and play games, go to shops to eat food, and carefully prepare surprises and joys for each other on holidays.

At the end of the year, she began to prepare for the interview for a new job, in her hometown, after each interview to help analyze the interview, optimize the next interview, and got a good offer in the last two days of the year.

When the year came, because of the epidemic, her family's policy was strict, and she did not plan to go home for the New Year, so I invited her to come to my house for the New Year, and she did not want to, even if it was as a friend instead of a girlfriend.

Because I don't usually go home much, I will go home for the New Year by myself.

Years later, I was told that I had submitted my resignation and that I could complete my departure on 2.18.

Silence, the silence of two people.

I have tried many consultations, and I am willing to go to her hometown to develop and settle down, or I am not willing.

One of the most memorable conversations was:

You went back to work, but what about me?

Let's go our separate ways.

There are no special surprises, and we have no possibility of follow-up.

Suddenly thought of a sentence, together is a matter of two people,

And separation is a one-man decision.

It's probably my love.