If it were not for Chen Lu's 9-year relationship with Huo Zun, perhaps people would never know who Chen Lu was.
Now that Wu Yifan has been accused by Wan Fu as a bad artist, this storm has not subsided, and the Huo Zun incident has emerged again. Although the nature of the two things is different, but the reason is the same, but also once again remind the girls, love should open their eyes, love in the "cut land compensation" can not be exchanged for happiness!
Chen Lu published a long article in which Chen Lu told the story of her 9-year relationship with Huo Zun. It is said that if a man has money, he will become bad, and he will abandon his wife, but Chen Lu is too worthless, she is not even a bad wife, she has always been just Huo Zun's underground girlfriend.
In this article, Chen Lu told how as an ordinary girl, she gave everything for Huo Zun, and even gave up her future. However, what she exchanged for it was not Huo Zun's cherishing, but ruthless abandonment.
Chen Lu said that she would rather be wronged than buy the best for Huo Zun, she was extremely conniving with Huo Zun and paid for his precious youth, whether it was emotional investment or financial investment, Chen Lu paid too much.
Although Huo Zun was the son of Fire Wind, Huo Zun had nothing when they met. Chen Lu fell in love with Huo Zun at first sight and fell in love with him from then on.
Chen Lu thought that she could pay everything in return for reciprocity, but she did not expect that what was waiting for her was Huo Zun's betrayal. During her interaction with Huo Zun, Chen Lu had realized more than once that Huo Zun and other women had ambiguities, and even had signs of splitting legs, but Chen Lu still kept brainwashing herself, and she thought that Huo Zun loved her.
But time is the best witness, Chen Lu finally realized that she was not a person, and after she recognized the true face of Huo Zun, she immediately proposed to break up with Huo Zun and demanded 9 million yuan in compensation from Huo Zun. Subsequently, Huo Zun also gave a response, Chen Lu's long speech, in exchange for Huo Zun's only words, every word was full of indifference and ruthlessness.
1, Huo Zun responded: She is not worthy of me now!
After the Huo Zun incident broke out, he himself responded, but Huo Zun's words were very rude, he said that he had no feelings for Chen Lu, and he could not break up with Chen Luti in his current identity.
Huo Zun believes that with his current status, he will find a better one in the future. Huo Zun also believed that now that he and Chen Lu were together, it was a gift to Chen Lu.
To put it simply, Huo Zun's response only wanted to express one meaning: she was not worthy of me!
I believe that this sentence is enough to make Chen Lu feel pain in her heart, and this sentence is enough to negate Chen Lu's efforts in the past 9 years. In addition, Huo Zun also said that he did not want to accuse Chen Lu, and there were rumors that Huo Zun had threatened Chen Lu before, but Huo Zun said that there was no such thing.
In addition, Huo Zun also attached a handwritten letter, the main content of which was that Huo Zun acknowledged the intersection of Chen Lu and his past, but the core content was to persuade Chen Lu to look forward and be brave and forward!
In fact, Huo Zun is using these simple words to persuade Chen Lu to let go and not to continue to entangle, at the same time, Huo Zun also expressed that he has long wanted to start a new life, and finally wished "we are all happy."
The reason why the Huo Zun incident caused such a strong response was because Huo Zun's behavior became a typical example of scumbags abandoning the chaff and many women who had the same experience expressed sympathy for Chen Lu and hated Huo Zun. However, combined with Huo Zun's response, the public opinion of the outside world did not let Huo Zun have any emotional fluctuations, and it also reflected from the side that in this relationship, Chen Lu and Huo Zun's efforts were indeed not equal.
2. Is the relationship not equal, facing a breakup?
According to Huo Zun's idea, now that their status is no longer equal, Huo Zun hopes to find a better other half in the future, but now Chen Lu is still an ordinary person. From this, we have to ponder the question, is the relationship not equal, is it facing a breakup? Why did Chen Lu still stand still in place for 9 years?
In fact, combined with Chen Lu's self-statement, it is not difficult to see that she is indeed a typical love brain, once in love, she will beautify the other party on her own, and even see that the other party has behavior that does not meet expectations, and will automatically make up the brain into a happy appearance. In fact, in these 9 years, Chen Lu had many opportunities to know other outstanding members of the opposite sex, and there were also opportunities for promotion, but Chen Lu gave up for Huo Zun.
Chen Lu and Huo Zun met in 2012, when Huo Zun was poor and white, and although Chen Lu was just an ordinary dancer, her future was bright. Even if Chen Lu is an ordinary person with no name, at least she still has a stable life and good prospects for future development. At that time, Compared with Chen Lu, Huo Zun was not enough to match her, but Chen Lu still accepted Huo Zun because she couldn't help but fall in love with this man.
But then Chen Lu's opportunities became better and better, she was the youngest deputy senior title professor in the dance troupe at that time, or a national second-level actor, if Chen Lu continued to develop, there will be better development in the future. However, at this time, Chen Lu chose to give up her career, she resigned from the dance troupe, and then opened a studio. Chen Lu thought that this would reduce Huo Zun's burden, and she usually had more energy to invest in Huo Zun's body.
For Chen Lu's resignation, the other members of the dance troupe could not understand, but at that time, Chen Lu had already been overwhelmed by love and insisted on doing so.
Later, Huo Zun became famous, and he parachuted into the Spring Festival Gala and became popular all over the country, and then the relationship between the two people became unequal again, and at this time Huo Zun began to dislike Chen Lu. Chen Lu continued to brainwash herself from the beginning, and later had to admit that Huo Zun was not worthy, and what Chen Lu experienced during this period may only be known to herself.
Chen Lu wants to use 9 million yuan to buy out the past 9 years of efforts, but in exchange for Huo Zun's lawyer's intimidation threats, claiming that Chen Lu will be sent to prison like Wu Xiubo's girlfriend. At this time, Chen Lu saw Huo Zun more clearly, and he also felt that his efforts in the past 9 years were not worth it.
In fact, the disparity in status is not the direct cause of the breakup, although Chen Lu paid too much, far more than Huo Zun, but the fundamental reason for the two breakups is that the man's character cannot support the relationship.
3, girls meet scumbags should be self-deprecating?
In Chen Lu's self-statement, it can be found that Huo Zun has always looked down on Chen Lu outside, but he still enjoys Chen Lu's efforts. Huo Zun would also self-harm and even be violent when facing Chen Lu.
Such a man leaving early is the best policy, although many people think that Chen Lu has paid for 9 years only in exchange for Huo Zun's ruthlessness is relatively unworthy, in fact, if Chen Lu still has illusions about Huo Zun, she may be more miserable in the future.
Girls meet scumbags do not need to be self-deprecating, do not lose your happy and confident appearance because of anyone, if the flowers bloom, butterflies come, leave the scumbag, in order to run faster to a better life!