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Can't copy the genius girl Gu Ailing, but can copy her mother's chicken doll routine

author:Sister-in-law parenting

These days everyone is picking up her family lineage, some people think that it is the IQ inherited by generations, some people think that it is the wealth that ordinary people do not have, there are so many smart people, there are many rich people, so why is she so successful? From mom's point of view, why is her mom chicken baby so successful?

Gu Ailing is just a talented and hard worker, just not short of money to support her, and has a coaching level mom and super brain, and her mother can freely spend time to support her children's learning and practice. All are indispensable.

Pickpocket here many people are very discouraged and pessimistic, we ordinary people have neither endless money nor complete disposable time to give children, the most pessimistic is that it is impossible to have such a smart and talented child... Give it up haha

But we can look at what experiences we can learn and replicate from the process of her mother's chicken out of a genius girl.

1. [Find your child's talent and love]

Gu Ailing has attended many interest classes, and after trying, she found her favorite and best thing, skiing. This is the most important and fundamental. This is also something that we chicken parents can do. Countless people envy her success, in fact, more people feel her love for skiing, rather than the heaviness of bitter haha. This is the difference and the final difference between being forced to be a chicken baby and actively accepting a chicken baby.

2. 【Academic and Career Strategic Planning + Top Resources】

Learning to ski in the United States, a super push sports, plus the mother is a ski instructor level, and can free time to support children to go back and forth on the weekend for ski training, the average parent does not have the money and energy to drive back to the 8 hours of car transfer and full companionship every weekend, no husband no other baby? Her mother really didn't, so she was 100% supportive of Gu Ailing.

The skiing project itself has to brush off most people, not ordinary people can afford to learn, when you do not have the opportunity to contact and do not have the ability to practice, so it is impossible to be good at. It just so happens that it is the child's talent again. So the circle of this competition will not be very large.

What is particularly important is that her mother uses world-class ski resources, everything is the best, the key is to see if the child is in contention!

Academically, her mother also played the brain of Peking University's IQ plus the combination of East and West, and prepared for the SAT with the blessing of the top institutions in the domestic test-taking education powerhouse.

Whether it is academics or skiing, this professional design reflects the strength of her mother's chicken baby, the combination of East and West, dimensionality reduction, and the use of resources at hand to the extreme.

So what can we ordinary families do?

Ordinary families have more children if they have the conditions, and maybe they will have very intelligent children. Not a joke, in fact, the bully family is likely to give birth to a child with an ordinary IQ, and the family that is not a bully also has the chance to give birth to a child with a high IQ.

People have money to do skiing, children just have skiing talent, we other children can engage in affordable specialty, the first step is also the key is to discover the child's talent, and then carry out the next step of the plan.

What if you don't have top resources? What resources to use what resources, try to lift the child, let the child stand on the shoulders of the family resources, according to their own occupation to let the child early enlightenment early participation in early learning.

3. 【Gu Ailing's self-confidence and courage】

We all know that she has a mother and family with unusual academic experiences, which will of course give her confidence and confidence. But let the child be confident really do not need to have such a strong background and IQ of the family, let the child confidence and courage is our ordinary parents can also do, so we as parents also need to work hard, try to learn how to educate children, this can start from reading parenting experience and books, do not need to be super rich parents can do.

4. 【The Best Times】

Seeing a message that she was actively summoned back by the country, vigorously developing ice projects, if there is no excellent opportunities for herself, these opportunities will not fall on her head.

It seems that everyone likes to say that others have the best era, each era has its own characteristics, and the people who can seize the opportunity in each era must be smart and hard-working and excellent people.

What we can do is first become better ourselves, and each generation is accumulating and each generation is improving. So as parents, we must be chickens themselves first, make more money and read more books to broaden our horizons and improve chicken skills hahaha.

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