Go back to your mother's house
"Can't we go back this year?" That day weChat video saw that Dad's hair was all white! The wife looked at Lao Bai and looked dejected.
Originally at most twice a year to go home, although it is in the same province, but in the end it is still a little far, let others say that they have not gone out of the province, what is far to marry, but only their husband and wife are clear, and it takes 6 hours to drive home.
Lao Bai looked into his wife's eager eyes, smoked heavily, and did not speak.
This year there is no thirty, still twenty-nine is Chinese New Year's Eve. Grandpa died early, ate Chinese New Year's Eve meal at Grandma's house, a family of five people walking on the cold street, Lao Bai bowed his head and smoked a cigarette, still dragging Xiao Fang to climb the steps on the side of the road, Xiao Fang could not help the child, can only carefully protect the child.
Because of the tension between the mother and the grandmother, she has left early under the pretext of burning paper, and the father crouches on the side of the road looking at the frolicking grandson not far away, and a smile appears on his face full of vicissitudes.
"Bring this dress with you, well, children's toys." Xiao Fang happily packed up the child's food and clothing, completely unaware of the old white gloomy look.
"Bring the trolley!" Speaking to you! Xiao Fang looked at Lao Bai with dissatisfaction, in her opinion, Lao Bai not only did not help to clean up things, but also sat there with a stinky face and did not say a word.
Lao Bai looked at the dissatisfied expression on Xiao Fang's face and tried to squeeze out a smile. Since the Beginning of 19 years, the epidemic has had a great impact on everyone's life and work, and in the end, there is still no money. Sometimes Lao Bai will wonder if the arrival of the child at this time is not a joke made by God for him, he has lived so hard, how to raise children.
Although I thought so, after all, I only went to my father-in-law's house twice a year, and my father-in-law didn't have to say anything to him, and the tobacco, wine, melons and fruits had never been broken from the moment he arrived home, thinking of his father-in-law's face full of ravines but full of smiles, Lao Bai showed a smile of understanding.
"Happy reunion"
Departing at 11 o'clock in the morning, based on the country's high-speed free policy, can save a little is a little, along the way in addition to still making a fuss, Lao Bai and his wife to not talk much, or how to say that the child is the bond between husband and wife.
To the wife's house has been almost five o'clock in the afternoon, Lao Bai basically did not stop all the way, on the service area on a toilet, Baohan expressway after the opening of the road did reduce a lot of distance than before, a full hour faster, can not help but sigh again the strength of my infrastructure strength.
Father-in-law's family, including his wife and sister, the eldest brother is at home, see the old White family is very enthusiastic, Old White once could not accept the customs of his wife's family, as long as there is a person on the road, we generally say hello, in the plug root smoke or something. But the people here are different, they will pull you to stay and eat, and there are quite a few people who really stay to eat!
Say yes, let's just be polite? So, most of the day is preparing dishes, preparing meat, preparing to entertain guests, and Lao Bai sometimes thinks, if I come here to be a son-in-law, one day I will pick vegetables by the fire of the stove.
In his wife's house, because it is in the mountains, the mobile phone signal is not very good, and even a flower has to look at fate, coupled with great economic pressure, Lao Bai lives here like a year.
Get up at 8 o'clock in the morning, and then clean up the children, and then if the weather is good, bask in the yard, if the weather is bad, roast the fire in the house, and then bring some special snacks, rice candy and fruits and the like, waiting to eat, about 10 o'clock, the meal is ready, basically at least 6 dishes, adding a soup dish. After eating, it is still basking in the sun or roasting the fire, and then the father-in-law will take a nap because of his age, and the others will continue to bask in the sun or roast the fire until four or five o'clock in the afternoon to eat dinner.
Although he has been married for some years and has come many times, Lao Bai still can't adapt to the life of waiting for dinner. Although occasionally envy the kind of life that can lie flat.
If you see some young people or middle-aged people wandering around your village, please don't rush to the police, and don't misunderstand them, because they are likely to be sons-in-law from other places who come to your mother-in-law's house for the holiday! Lao Bai was standing on the main road at this time looking at the mountains in the distance, and felt that this sentence was very correct!
conflict! After all, I still couldn't hold back
Give me another chance and I'll hold back! Lao Bai often thought this way on the way home.
Washed his feet at night, roasted the fire in the house and watched TV, and the old white was ready to go out to smoke a cigarette. "Hey! Can you not come back tomorrow? "The wife is nibbling on a pig's trotter in her hand, and the child is roasting in the house, and the wife and sister are taking care of it." Lao Bai looked at his mother-in-law standing behind his wife and did not speak.
"I ask you, can you not leave tomorrow?" The wife asked nonchalantly.
"Look at you!" Lao Bai was not looking at his wife, and turned and went out the door, but the knuckles of his fingers with smoke were white.
Didn't go over to see the kids at night. On the morning of the sixth day of the sixth year, I saw the snowflakes on the ground and on the roof of the car, and my heart trembled.
Lao Bai was smoking with his father-in-law while roasting the fire, although what he said his father-in-law may not be able to hear, the ears are not very good, and what his father-in-law said he sometimes can't understand, but Lao Bai has a divine skill, that is, smiling and nodding, it is correct! After all, all these years have come this way!
"It's snowing so much today, let's go tomorrow or when!" Xiao Fang stood in front of Lao Bai, and Lao Bai looked up at Xiao Fang, and suddenly felt that Xiao Fang's face was so strange!
"The snow is so big, it's definitely not easy to walk on the highway!" Let's go again tomorrow! Xiao Fang saw that Lao Bai did not squeak and said again.
"Don't you know exactly what the situation is?" Lao Bai almost roared out! The father-in-law's expression was obviously stunned, XiaoFang did not speak, turned his head and went out. Such old white has always been a gentle and elegant image, especially in the father-in-law's house, never red face, even if there is any discomfort in the heart, it is private communication or quarrel with the wife at home, facing the delivery at the father-in-law's house is the big girl on the flower car - the first time.
The father-in-law looked at Lao Bai and went out with a cigarette.
After all, there is still no explanation, it may become darker and darker! Lao Bai eventually returned to his home with his wife and children in the snowstorm.
epilogue
Whether it is a holiday in the man's home or the woman's home, it is necessary to take care of the feelings and emotions on the other side. Just like in some families, the daughter-in-law not only has to take care of the housework but also to work at home, so when she goes home and becomes the little daughter in front of her mother, it is also understandable to be a little princess!
After all, at present, everyone's life pressure is heavier, and wives also need to consider their husband's feelings and understand their husband's status and plans. The elderly want young people to stay at home and enjoy the reunion, which is the heart of the elderly, but as young people have their own things and work plans, such as delaying the plan because of bad rejection is likely to be more than worth the loss.
Love and affection are both two-way! Joint operation can only be home and everything is prosperous!
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