In October 2010, in a small village in Langya Township, Qu County, Dazhou County, Sichuan Province, a girl named Yuling was wrapped in a worn-out quilt and lying on an equally worn wooden bed, her body covered with insect repellents and unable to walk on the ground, and although she looked sick, she still repeatedly cried out a sentence in her mouth: "Daddy, where are you, I want to see you!" ”
On the side, Yuling's grandfather and neighbors saw this scene in front of them, their hearts were very unhappy, they did not dare to tell Yuling, not long ago, they contacted her father Jiang Wen, but the other party heard Yuling's body festering maggots' first reaction, not to come back to see her for the last time, but "dead to drag her out, dumped." ”
Such an attitude is inevitably indignant, and neighbors have said that they will find Jiang Wen back to the end of the world.
So, did Yuling finally see her father as she wished? What happened to her? Why is Jiang Wen so indifferent to his own daughter? Next, let's take a look at the whole thing!
First, the parents divorced, and the grandfather was dependent on each other
Unlike other children in the village, since I can remember, Yuling has not been deeply impressed with her father and mother, because over the years, they have never returned home to see Yuling, and the cause of all this has to start from the change in the marriage of Yuling's parents in 1998.
At that time, the two broke down their feelings due to personality incompatibility, and after discussion, they chose to divorce, and the children were raised by Jiang Wen. Yuling's mother did not take long to meet a good person and re-establish a new family, but Jiang Wen has been immersed in a failed marriage, he does not know how to get along with his daughter, the feelings are not close, and finally chose to go out to work, a mind to earn more money, do not steam steamed
But the reality is not as good as imagined, there is no special opportunity for working for many years, the savings saved are also squandered because of some bad habits, the promises made have not been fulfilled, but the year of mixing is not as good as a year, Jiang Wen consciously has no face, and simply does not go home.
Poor Yuling was so young that she never saw her parents again, didn't even know what they looked like, completely cut off contact with her mother's side, occasionally chatted with her father on the phone, and her grandfather became the only relative in Yuling's life who was responsible for her.
Although Yuling has not received the love of her parents since she was a child, she has unexpectedly gained the kindness of many neighbors, because Yuling is lively and cheerful, sweet-talking, and has good grades in school, and everyone in the village has more compassion for her. However, no matter how much kindness the neighbors have, what Yuling wants most in her heart is the care of her parents.
Whenever she saw other children in the village with her parents and fathers, she was very envious in her heart, where were her parents? She asked Grandpa this question, and Grandpa just touched her head and said softly, "Your father works in Fujian, earns you money, and when you grow up, you can go to see him!" ”
It is precisely because of this sentence that Yuling has become extremely looking forward to growing up, and when she grows up, she will be able to see her father!
Second, he is seriously ill and wants to see his parents for the last time
Days went by day by day, when Yuling was in the 3rd grade of primary school, Yuling suffered from a strange disease, there were some pustules on her body, pain in the affected area, and often accompanied by symptoms such as low-grade fever, fatigue, fatigue, night sweats, loss of appetite and weight loss, Grandpa Jiang took her to the town health center to see, saying that it was bone tuberculosis.
At first, Yuling's condition was not so serious, Jiang Wen would say something to comfort her when she called, but then Yuling's state became worse and worse, and grandpa called several times to urge him to come back and take money to see a doctor, he said that he was busy at work and tight at hand, which made Yuling very sad.
Think about the other children in the village are sick, their parents will come back, why are they sick now, but still do not see their father's figure?
Because there is no money to see Yuling, she has to delay it again and again, and Yuling has also delayed the best treatment time, only relying on some drugs to conservatively treat, but this is far from enough, but the old man knows so much! Seeing that Yuling was sick and taking medicine and did not improve, he felt that Yuling might have attracted some "dirty things", everyone lived in the village, feudal superstition prevailed, and some old people said, "In this case, you have to sprinkle water on her room!" Grandpa Jiang also listened, and since then, Yuling's illness has become more serious.
It was summer, the Jiang family lived in the deep mountains, the environment was already wet, the room became more humid after being sprinkled, the corners of the wall were covered with green spots and moss, Yuling was covered with a cracked and patched up broken quilt, the body was full of abscesses, the skin was full of insect repellent, not only that, Yuling was also surrounded by many flies, which looked very terrible.
The neighbors in the village heard that the lively and lovely Yuling was now even a problem in going to the ground, and they rushed to visit her, but it was this scene that came into view, many people present were parents, and they couldn't help but leave tears when they saw the little girl so pitiful.
Everyone knows that Grandpa Jiang's economic conditions are not good, but he loves his granddaughter's neighbors in the eyes, and now Yuling's condition is so serious, he did not send her to the hospital for treatment, the reason for this is self-evident, nothing more than because there is no money, Yuling's illness needs to be professionally treated in the hospital, just relying on drugs is not feasible, the top priority is to quickly find the child's father Jiang Wen.
"What about the child's father?" I haven't been back for so many years, I should save a lot of money, shouldn't it be right to see my daughter? You're looking for him!" ”
The neighbors gave Grandpa Jiang "advice", but they got a sigh: "Why didn't I find it!" He said that he was busy, had no money, could not come back, what a trick! I can't move now! ”
"The child's mother's side..."
Before he could finish speaking, Grandpa Jiang shook his head and interrupted, "There has been no contact for a long time."
Everyone looked at the scene in front of them and couldn't help but sigh and sigh involuntarily.
And Yu Ling, who was lying on the bed, knew how bad her physical condition was, how terrible it was to have worms on the living people! She thought that she would not live long, these days even can not eat food, will always spit out, thinking that she has little time, but she has not even seen the face of her parents, Yuling can't help but be sad from the heart: "I want to see my father and mother, growing up so big I don't know what they look like, I want to see their last side!" ”
Listening to the girl's almost desperate plea, the neighbors present all burst into tears:
"Why don't we scrape together the money and get his dad back!"
Third, the father is indifferent, and the neighbors are looking for people
Although the neighbors are enthusiastic, but Grandpa Jiang does not want to trouble everyone, if you can use the phone to call Jiang Wen back is the best, do not have to spend money and effort, thinking of this, he held the last hope to call Jiang Wen.
The phone dialed, but as soon as he heard the old father urging him to go home, Jiang Wen was very impatient, seeing that it didn't make sense, the neighbors came up with the idea to let Grandpa Jiang play the family card, and after hearing the words of the daughter on the phone saying that she wanted to see herself, Jiang Wen was really silent.
Grandpa Jiang once again took advantage of the victory to pursue: "Yuling has abscesses and maggots on her body, and now the situation is more serious than before", but Jiang Wen did not have other reactions after listening to it, and still said that he could not leave, and the neighbors listened to this and did not fight, and retorted one after another: "Your daughter is very sick!" "The child wants to see you, and no matter how busy he is, he won't be unable to come back!" "You can't give birth to a baby, don't care..."
Everyone said a word, I said a word, but it annoyed Jiang Wen, and finally he said an extremely indifferent sentence: Don't be bothered, don't nag, when you die, drag him out, throw it away.
It is hard to imagine that a father could say such a desperate word, and actually regard his own daughter's life as an ant, and the neighbors were completely enraged, and everyone said that no matter where Jiang Tattoo was, they must get him back.
On the morning of October 23, 2010, at the call of the village chief, the neighbors of the village gathered at Yuling's home to raise a total of 2,000 yuan to find Jiang Wen.
But everyone knows that Jiang Wen works in Fujian, but no one knows where he lives? Where is this going to find someone? Just when there was no way out, a neighbor thought that his relatives were also in Fujian, everyone was a fellow countryman, maybe there was a clue! Sure enough, the heavens were invincible, and Jiang Wen's position was really determined through the neighbor's relatives.
Sun Chengying's brothers and sisters also stepped on the train to Fujian at this time, and because they got accurate information, they quickly found Jiang Wen, and unexpectedly found that Jiang Wen had found a new girlfriend in Fujian.
After his girlfriend heard about Yuling's incident, she was also surprised, she did not know that Jiang Wen had this matter at home, after hearing that Yuling's last wish was to see her father and mother, she also moved her compassion, and also advised Jiang Wen that she should take responsibility, and she herself was willing to "pretend" to be Yuling's mother and bring her a little warmth.
In the end, under the joint persuasion of everyone, Jiang Wen was still impressed and decided to return to his hometown in Dazhou, Sichuan, to meet his daughter Yuling's wish to see her parents.
Fourth, the father returned home and finally sent Yuling to the hospital
On October 26, 2010, Sun Chengying's brothers and sisters, Jiang Wen and his girlfriend returned to Langya Town, Qu County, Dazhou, Sichuan, and saw Yuling's current tragic situation, Jiang Wen's girlfriend couldn't help but shed tears, the teenage girl's skinny skin and bones, her body was still full of black rotten flesh, the insect repellent was crawling on it, and she didn't say that she was in pain, and her eyes were staring directly at Jiang Wen.
At the urging of everyone, only timidly called out to the father, Jiang Wen responded softly, introduced his girlfriend to his daughter, and lied to her that this is your mother. The neighbors gathered in Yuling's hut and saw this rare warm scene and sobbed quietly.
"I grew up with my grandfather, I haven't seen you, I see others have mom and dad, and I want to have mom and dad myself!"
Yu Ling's words echoed in his ears, the guilty Jiang Wen did not know what to say, he had not fulfilled his father's responsibilities at all over the years, he did not want to mention the failed marriage, the gossip in the village made him subconsciously want to escape, wandering outside for many years, he almost forgot the existence of this daughter, people's feelings are getting along, only relying on blood relations even if they can maintain it is very limited.
But when he saw Yu Ling's pitiful and well-behaved appearance of not having any complaints about himself, even the most ruthless person could not say the words that pierced people's hearts:
"Dad didn't want you, just busy at work, originally planned to come back in the New Year"
"But I'm afraid that at that time, I won't see you."
YuLing's wish to see her parents has been fulfilled, Jiang Wen has now returned, and as a father, it is time for him to take responsibility, and the villagers said: The top priority is to send Yuling to the hospital, check it out well, and see if she can still save the poor doll.
But Jiang Wen said that he did not bring much money, everyone heard this and did not say anything more, but directly made donations on the spot, and made a few thousand yuan, let Jiang Wen take Yuling to see a doctor, she was also moved to tears: "Dad, this time back, don't go away okay ... ." When I am well and grow up, I will honor you well."
With the help of everyone, Yuling was finally successfully sent to the hospital, the doctor after examination, found that Yuling's body is not a big problem, mainly because of the poor environmental health of her life, long-term malnutrition, and later suffered from bone tuberculosis, which led to suppuration of the whole body, the bacteria at the wound in such an environment breeding, did not carry out anti-inflammatory treatment, and over time grew maggots.
If it is treated well in the hospital, it can be cured.
Fifth, it was abandoned again, and all sectors of society reached out to help
This news made everyone present very excited, jiang Wen also promised that this time he would definitely fulfill his responsibilities and would not leave again, but he did not do what he promised, just a month later, Yuling was sent home again, what is going on?
In November 2010, the reporter who had been following this matter asked Sun Chengying's brothers and sisters about the recent situation of Yuling's treatment, but did not want the other party to tell him: Yuling has returned from the hospital and is now at home!
Getting this news, the reporter rushed to Yuling's hometown, Yuling lay on the bed without saying a word, her eyes were empty, and she was not as energetic as the last time she saw her, and the whole person was much silent.
The sudden cessation of treatment and the departure of her father once again were undoubtedly a heavy blow to this girl who had just ignited "birth".
Sun Chengying's brothers and sisters told reporters that Yuling was sent to the hospital for a few days, Jiang Wen took people back home, according to him said that he could not afford to pay this high medical fee, there was really no choice, people also took advantage of everyone's inattention to sneak away, before promising to be responsible for their daughter, but now they are gone again, Jiang Wen's evasion makes everyone look at it.
Neighbors said they had never seen such an inhuman father:
"Even if there is not enough money and no rule of law, what do you mean by leaving?" The little girl is sad."
Everyone called Jiang Wen and asked him why he abandoned his daughter again, but Jiang Wen replied that he had no choice but to do so, and he sly argued that he would come back, and this time he left to ask for an account.
"I want money!" How much is that account worth? Does it matter if you have a daughter's life? ”
The neighbors obviously didn't buy Jiang Wen's statement! They even called the police for help, but to no avail, the police taught Jiang Wen a stern lesson, but they still failed to persuade this cruel father.
Due to the sudden interruption of treatment, Yuling's condition rebounded somewhat, and the villagers could not bear the girl's suffering again, and they offered to work together to save her, and once again launched a donation.
On November 24, 2010, with the help of reporters, Yuling's matter was reported by TELEVISION stations and media, and many well-wishers also extended a helping hand, and a hospital in Chengdu also provided ambulances for free, saying that it would take Yuling to the hospital for treatment.
Yuling, who was carried to the ambulance again, did not have her father's figure around, but those kind people were there, looking at these warmth, kindness and care, Yuling's heart was full of gratitude, until this moment, she did not complain about her father, but sincerely believed that the other party had some things to deal with and would definitely come back.
The crowd could not bear to destroy this beauty in the little girl's heart, and they were silent and did not speak.
The ambulance took the girl on the journey of hope, the car just walked to the town, it was intercepted by the crowd, and everyone sent warmth, 20, 50, 100... After accepting everyone's kindness, the ambulance went forward again, this time only 8 kilometers, was stopped again, and there were also well-meaning people to send charity, in just 48 hours, with the help of all sectors of society, Yuling raised more than 100,000 yuan in treatment fees.
Sixth, raise all the money, and the big husband tears the hospital
At 2:00 a.m. on November 25, 2010, after more than 5 hours of travel, the ambulance finally successfully transported Yuling to the city's hospital.
After professional treatment, Yuling's condition quickly improved, a week has passed, the maggots on the girl's body have long been removed, the wound has also been anti-inflammatory treatment, during this period the leaders of the town government also came to visit Yuling, and also brought 20,000 yuan of treatment fees, but Yuling's long-cherished father still did not come to the hospital to visit, she most wanted to see her father Jiang Wen from beginning to end.
Everyone naturally understands Yuling's thoughts, when people are sick, it is very normal to want to see their parents, not to mention that a child as big as her, when she is sick, her parents should have been with her, at this time, Yuling's things have been fermented by the media and are known to more and more people, and Jiang Wen has also endured a lot of public opinion pressure.
On December 6, 2010, Jiang Wen finally returned from Fujian and appeared in Yuling's ward, Jiang Wen's arrival made Yuling very happy, while the other well-meaning people around the ward could not help but scold him: "Any father will not do this like you."
"I really can't do anything, I don't have any money, I can only take her home"
Jiang Wen tried to justify the last time he took his daughter home from the hospital, but the families of other patients could not see it, and directly interrupted: "Is it interesting that you say this?" ”
The atmosphere in the ward dropped to the freezing point, Jiang Wen did not say much, the reporter followed up, only to find this man crying in the corner. Maybe it's because of grievances, maybe it's because of guilt... Jiang Wen did not break his promise this time and accompanied Yuling through the days of treatment in the hospital.
Yuling's condition improved after professional treatment, and more than 230,000 yuan was donated across the country, which was stored in an account for later treatment, not only that, she also returned to campus after her physical condition stabilized. Yuling's condition has long since recovered, and in 2017, she entered the palace of marriage and now lives a stable and happy life.
The story develops to this point, and it seems that it can also draw a satisfactory end.
7. Summary
Jiang Wen in the case is very irresponsible, a parent, but only born and not raised, which is undoubtedly a disaster for the growth of the child, but Yuling still maintains such a father.
No one is willing to admit that they are "abandoned", "unwelcome", "not expected", in the face of never going home to visit their father, Yuling can also say "wait for the illness to be cured, when you grow up, you must be filial piety to you" such words, so that more people feel sad for Yuling, the more sensible the child, the more resentful everyone is towards the parents.
Jiang Wen became ruthless due to weak economic conditions, he and Yuling have no emotional foundation, even a burden, but for Yuling, Jiang Wen is her hope to live in this world, and it was not until the end, after not considering economic pressure, That Jiang Wen realized that he should bear the responsibility as a father, which is really sad!
Of course, from this case, we can also get some enlightenment, becoming a parent requires sufficient preparation, which is not only responsible for their own life, but also responsible for their children.
If you are not prepared for this, it is better to choose not to have children, so that there will be fewer tragedies, after all, not all children can be as lucky as Yuling and can get the warmth and kindness of society.