Author: Han Xueli
(1) The golden jade heart of Baoyu
Bao Yu actually knew the golden jade saying earlier, at first he was not disgusted, out of curiosity, he also specially wanted to see Bao's sister's golden lock, and, also said, the words on the jade and the words on the lock were a pair. At this time, he didn't have any special feelings for Jin Yuzhi. Just feeling, curious.
When it comes to the Yuanchun Dragon Boat Festival, the same as the second treasure is actually to point out Yuanchun's attitude, she is singing Gao Jin Yuyuan. Naturally influenced by Madame Wang, the affairs of the Jia family are actually complicated and not complicated, and after all, individuals are not united for personal interests. For example, Madame Wang's liking for Baochao is entirely based on the trade-off of the interests of her own inner house. Madame Wang had a long sister-in-law above her, and in her own department there was an aunt Zhao who jumped up and down in her own department. She needed a capable person of her own.
At this time, Jin Yuyuan reached the peak, and even said that the Xue family was victorious, Dai Yu was immediately sensitive, and she didn't believe Bao Yu's oath, but she was afraid that you had a sister in your heart, and when you saw your sister, you forgot your sister.
At this time, Baoyu was disgusted with Baochao, no, and in order to see the red musk string given by Yuan Chun worn by Bao's sister, he was stunned and became a stupid goose, which made Daiyu ironic, Baoyu in this period was not disgusted with Baochao, if there was no Daiyu, he might accept the golden jade edge that his mother wanted to promote.
It was only when BaoChao persuaded him to read that he understood that he and she were not the same kind of people, different values, they were not all the way people, this idea, let him understand, he and her, no feelings, spiritually incompatible, let him cherish Daiyu's confidant, know that life and affection have their own destiny, he and Baochao are not the same person.
At this time, Baoyu's golden jade heart was gone, just for the peony-like Bao sister, hearing that Ren was ruthless and moving, he would still be sad and stunned. Still sigh, beauty like flowers across the clouds.
Baoyu's golden jade heart, from being to nothing, to sometimes sighing, will still sigh with the attackers, do not know which family Bao sister will marry in the future, to Ying'er also said, do not know which blessed to consume your master's slave, he will still regret, but he knows, and has nothing to do with himself.
It's just that he didn't expect that in the end, jin yu was successful, he became the blessed person, but he lost Daiyu, lost his confidant, became a life with great regrets, irreparable lack, let his heart lack a corner, how can it be perfect, so even if the air is facing the mountain Gaoshi crystal snow, he will never forget the worldly immortal lonely forest.
His golden jade heart, on the contrary, was completely gone. Got it but didn't exist. The stone of Baoyu may not know the benefits of gold, but only hides the soul of a jade.
(2) Baoyu's friends are all handsome men
The girl that Jia Mu likes must be beautiful and lively, that is to say, it is also the first appearance, to the grandson Baoyu, the same is true, Baoyu has social networking outside, naturally has friends, and the four friends he is willing to communicate with are handsome men with high appearance.
Jia Baoyu also has too many socializing, and some characters must be socialized. For example, Xue Pan, his aunt's child, his eldest cousin, this person, in fact, the appearance is not bad, from the Xia family at a glance to Xue Dashao, and the rich lady Xia Jingui is happy before marriage, it can be known that Xue Dashao's appearance is not bad, but the difference is in temperament, falling inferior, this is a serious relative, Baoyu has to socialize.
Another figure who often comes and goes is the relationship between the family, Feng Ziying of the Feng family, this Feng Ziying family and the Rongning second house have a good relationship, he introduced his teacher Mr. Zhang to Jia Zhen, to see Qin Keqing, it can be seen that his relationship with Jia Zhen is very familiar, the relationship is good. Eating wine with Baoyu Xue Pan and often coming to gatherings, it can be seen that the Feng family and Jia Fu are extremely close.
These friends, Second Master Bao can't choose.
Bao Yu had four handsome friends, and his appearance was estimated to be at the level of the Heavenly King at that time.
The first, noble and gentle, was the Prince of Beijing, who appeared at the Qin Road Festival and took the initiative to show favor to Baoyu, and invited Baoyu to study in the palace, which was actually a relationship. The King of Northern Jing is naturally high-valued, with a good and beautiful character. The four words of beauty can know the temperament of the prince. The noble prince took the initiative to befriend Jia Baoyu, one is that Baoyu has a good appearance, and the other is Baoyu's special identity.
The second, also considered a relative, turned a corner, let Baoyu become a classmate, that is, Qin Keqing's brother Qin Zhong, the two met, wrote psychological descriptions of the two people, are amazed at each other's temperament and appearance, only hate to make friends too late, so, a shot together, go to school together, become classmates. It was a pity that Classmate Qin died too early.
The third is Liu Xianglian, the two originally did not make friends on the occasion, suspected to be introduced through Lai Shangrong, Liu Xianglian and Lai Shangrong befriended, it is estimated that through the string of plays to know, If Liu xianglian is poor in appearance, You Third Sister will fall in love at first sight for many years, for Liu Xianglian to die.
These three of them, the identity is still passable, Liu Xianglian is a noble born, is a son of the family, Qin Zhong is also a young master, the King of Northern Jing is a noble prince.
The fourth is a little peculiar, Baoyu is still a star-chasing family, a famous Qi official in the world, hate can not be seen, or Feng Ziying invited a guest, you can know that Feng Ziying's social network is wide, can make the two princes compete for the drama, you can know that the character style is not bad. Bao Yu and Qi Guan saw each other as they were, exchanged sweat towels, and later for the sake of Qi Guan's whereabouts, they triggered the Zhongshun Royal Palace's governor Shi Shi Tou, so that Bao Yu was beaten once, and this friend could not do it in the future.
Qin Zhong died, Liu Xianglian left home, Qi Guan left, Wang Ye was on high, and Bao Yu, the four friends, actually did not come and go often.
(3) Baoyu's education fails, who is responsible
Jia Baoyu is a special child, jia mu single-handedly brought up, extremely doting, of course, Jia mu is the pet of the aristocratic faction, and Aunt Xue's habits, there is still a difference, so Baoyu is gentle and peaceful, and people are kind, and Xue Duzi has become a flying dumb overlord.
Jia Zheng is a good father, in fact, it is not bad, compared to Jia Zhen's humiliating management of Jia Rong, Jia Zhen punched Jia Rong in the face without a word, Jia Zheng's education is still normal, just hope that his son will go to school well, this is the hope of any parent. Very normal, of course, he is also severe, he just grew up in that environment, Jia Fu tutor, has always been a stick education, Jia Zheng educated his son, but also not strict ideas, this is too normal.
But in the end, just reprimands and sticks, for such a sensitive and meticulous and amorous child as Baoyu, it is somewhat hurtful, mentally suppressed, so that Baoyu wants to run when he sees his father, unwilling to meet, and there is something that is not willing to communicate positively, which is naturally a failure of education.
The most severe one was because of the QiGuan and Jin Ju incident, let Jia Zheng personally hit the board, the government moved, Baoyu was beaten half to death, naturally it was the most severe one, but there was a result, no, Jia Zheng let his mother criticize, no longer care about his son, Baoyu instead got preferential treatment, you can play arbitrarily in the garden.
Jia Mu is a doting education, always feel that Bao Yu is still young, has been locked in the inner house, Bao Yu's growth environment, has always been lacking, that is, with the men's interaction, of course, there is communication, but in the house, he can arbitrarily decide not to go to school. And he prefers to associate with girls, and in the poetry club, he is the only man.
Grandmother and father, two completely different educational environments, let Baoyu naturally fall to the comfortable and warm grandmother to create an educational environment, for the adult world, has always been resistant to resistance, unwilling to face. Some are evasive and unwilling to take responsibility, which is a flaw in his character.
Bao Yu instinctively does not want to grow up, willing to be a child, Daguanyuan is his children's paradise, here, there is no responsibility, no wind and rain, he can do whatever he likes.
Therefore, Baoyu's personality is very feminine, knowing how to appreciate and love beauty, but he is unwilling to have the ability to protect beauty.
His failure to grow up is naturally a failure of education, two completely opposite ways of education, so that he chose to escape.
Bao Yu himself is willing to be a good person, but also a good person, but he is not willing to be a capable person, a person who bears family responsibilities, which is not even the same as sister Tanchun, he is free, he is also willful, more casual, selfish.
【About the Author】Han Xueli, a native of Shijiazhuang, loves poetry and has published works in publications such as "Writing Hu" and "Writers Club".
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