Today is Mother's Day, when I got up in the morning, I first sent a WeChat message to my sisters, asking them not to forget to call their mother today, and then, during breakfast, I asked my mother what she wanted today, and my mother said she didn't want anything. Actually, I was paying attention to what I was going to give her on this day a few days ago, but she didn't get any wind at all, and to this day, I haven't bought a single thing. At noon today, I suddenly understood that I had never known what to give her for so many years, and that the things I used to buy were all bought at her prompting, and now she no longer asks for things secretly like before, so I am at a loss. Probably no one compares to her.
My dad and my mom have been friends for as long as I can remember. They were originally high school classmates, and after graduation, they were introduced to each other by an intermediary, and then they achieved this marriage. I don't know if this part of the marriage is good or bad, and I can't talk about good or bad. All the way, they were like martial arts masters, and they dismantled all the way.
My mother is a cheerful and cheerful character, just gave birth to my sister after marriage, no one to bring the child, in the school to see the students study at night, she can only return home at eight or nine o'clock every night, she then wrote a letter to the school leaders in the form of couplets, so that the school leaders reasonable arrangements for the work and rest of the staff (mainly her work and rest time), as a result, the school leaders reported her disobedience to the work arrangement, so the leadership of the whole township knew about her, at that time the leadership team required women to participate, and she was a blessing in disguise, I was transferred to the Township Central School and became the director of teaching. My dad can't do it, he can only work, he is like an old scalper in the unit, he can take almost any class, he is an all-rounder, he has been a teacher all his life. In the unit, my mother is the leader, at home, my mother still wants to be a leader, but my father doesn't think so, so more often than not, they face problems not in the form of negotiation to solve, they are in the form of debate to solve, and in the end the argument becomes mutual damage and becomes the best friend.
My dad's skin is black, the kind of black that is really black, and he is a teacher, so at the end of every debate, my mother scolds him: Look at you like that, you can't tell the front and back when you stand in front of the blackboard. My dad was so angry that his eyes were wide open and he was foaming at the mouth, but a few of us were very happy, but we couldn't let my dad see it, otherwise, we might have become that fish pond, and we would probably have a meal of fried pork on a bamboo board. In the face of my mother's strength, my dad usually says some sour words and makes some soft knives: "Yes~, how good are you?" If you don't move the spatula, you can't open the rice. "Oh, what the director said is clever." Something like that. If my mother takes advantage, she just laughs, and doesn't compete with him for these tongues, if she doesn't take advantage, it's to draw a Chu River and Han world, and the final outcome is to break up in one shot and two times, no one pays attention to anyone, everyone is busy, let time test who is right, those days, we'd better be honest, otherwise, hum, it's likely to reward a mixed doubles, when they have the same goal, it's time to unblock.
In the past, every year on Father's Day and Mother's Day, several of us sisters would buy one thing for them, things were different, my dad and my mom would compare each other every year, my dad would be more expensive than his gift and Mom's gift, my mom would compare, who would think about her, who could know what she wanted (she usually revealed it before the holiday, intentionally or unintentionally). We all know it, but we all pretend not to know, watching them chatter together, chattering and comparing, always feel that their days are like this, with guns and sticks in their words, occasionally trying to see the dagger, and finally let us judge the theory. Sometimes we are impatient and can't say it explicitly, so we joke with them and ask him or her what he or she wants to do. Do you want us to beat each other up like they did with us when we were children, and they all laugh and say, "That's not necessary." ”
Now, my dad has been gone for more than a year, and my mom doesn't ask us what we want to do, but occasionally asks us to transfer some money to her WeChat so that she can go shopping. Today's Mother's Day, several of my sisters called her, she was very happy, and I didn't take her out, but just cooked two dishes for her at home, didn't drink, and stayed with her for a day.
Happy Mother's Day!
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