How to give the old money

These days I see many people saying that they are pressing old money.

This is actually a matter between relatives and children, not too serious, the heart is good.

If you have three or two children in your own family, it doesn't matter how much you send; if there is still an uncle and a, the point is so far, there is no need to be too much, too much hurt yourself, and it is easy to let the other party have pressure. If the economy is really excellent, do not ask your relatives to have a return, give as much as you want. If you give and ask others to return it equally, it is really not good, and it seems to be deceitful to try to form and hurt feelings.

Pressing the old money and the red and white happy event market with the molecule, are all expressions of the heart, if you pursue how much I give you, how much you must give me, then isn't it too thin-skinned? It's better not to give to each other.

How many years I have worked, colleagues, acquaintances, red and white happy events market with countless molecules. His children's weddings were held in other places, and there were not many hospitality, and the money of the elements was confiscated. Later, some people did not know whether it was true or false, and complained that I did not tell them. I said, I am really afraid of trouble in this matter, first, it is very troublesome to invite you to the scene, I am afraid that I will feel uncomfortable if I do not do a good job; second, I will never feel good in my heart if the hospitality is not good. Moreover, the happiness and life of the children have nothing to do with many people, and making such a big scene is a problem for themselves, why not really do things, tu that false name is meaningless.

My acquaintances have two grandchildren, two grandchildren. He gave his grandson 600 yuan each and grandson 400 yuan. I said, you are a little affectionate, preferring sons to daughters; only 4 grandchildren, but also different from the pressure of the old money, the loss of you lived more than half a lifetime, whether it is confused in your heart, or the heart is not right.

Maybe the words were heavy, and the friend was speechless and silent. Chinese compare things with each other, and the average is actually the average that is pursued in the heart. In the face of family affection and interests, it is best to average, and a bowl of water is flat.

Affection, don't take money to measure, flesh and blood affection, is not the pressure of money can explain.

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