Have you ever seen such a daughter? As a child of the parents of doctoral students, he has been intellectually intelligent since he was a child, but he was told by the doctor that he was recommended to go to a psychiatric hospital. Du Jiamei and his wife are both academic leaders, Du Jiamei is a university teacher of information technology in Beijing, and her husband Xia Yuefeng is also a doctoral student of Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications.
After three years of marriage, the crystallization of love Xuanxuan was also born, when Xuanxuan was a child, she also inherited the genes of her parents, and her intelligence was very high since she was a child, and she knew a lot of words, as Xuanxuan's father, the expectations for her daughter were still very large, many people felt that this child knew so many words at such a young age, it was a genius child, the husband and wife were also very happy, Du Jiamei was pregnant once before giving birth to Xuanxuan, and various reasons were not to keep the child.
Xuanxuan's bringing this to make up for all this, Xia Yuefeng at this time, but also completed a leap in life, he successfully admitted to Tsinghua University postdoctoral, Du Jiamei is also ready to take the doctorate, just when the two people's lives are moving towards a better, did not expect that fate once again joked on them, the city is ready to randomly select children to do a children's health psychological screening.
Du Jiamei just happened to be drawn this time, it is this lottery that made the family fall into the bottom, Xuanxuan did the examination, the doctor is also completely ignored, that is, they are playing with building blocks, and then the doctor said, what is your father's name, what is your mother's name, and then Xuanxuan does not answer, simply do not pay attention to the doctor, and then the community hospital suggested that the child be sent to the sixth hospital for a checkup.
And this sixth hospital is a psychiatric specialist hospital, the doctor's suggestion is also to make Du Jiamei very anxious, very worried that the doctor will tell himself what the result is, in addition to taking care of the child, it is also found that in addition to the daughter is a genius, it should not be a problem, the husband and wife do not believe, the daughter will have mental problems.
Although all kinds of disbelief, but Du Jiamei still listened to the doctor's advice, took her daughter to the hospital for a check-up, after the examination, let Du Jiamei have a glimmer of hope in her heart, suddenly there is no, the doctor now diagnosed Xuanxuan with autism tendencies, that is, autism, in the face of such a commentary from the doctor, Du Jiamei is also very unconvinced, the genius teenager has become an autistic child, originally felt that the child should grow up to be very successful, did not think, This suddenly became a disease that could not be cured for a lifetime, and a lifetime of life could not take care of itself, and needed to be taken care of.
Father felt that this matter, more terrible than the general disability, this news made the family suddenly into hell, that is, this autism has indeed changed the situation of the family, as a postdoctoral fellow at Tsinghua University, he gave up this high-paying job and chose a state-owned enterprise unit, so that he can have more time to take care of the family, Du Jiamei also gave up the doctoral examination.
Daughter is the most important person in life, so through a variety of channels to understand the treatment of autism, especially Xia Yuefeng in the understanding, is more heartache, bought a lot of books back to read, found that this disease is very terrible, not the general medicine and injection can be cured, is a disease that accompanies the child for life, autism in the world, there is no good treatment, but for the daughter, Du Jiamei embarked on the road to autism cure.
In this rehabilitation training, the training intensity of the daughter is very large, Du Jiamei said, do not want the daughter to be a child in captivity all her life, hope that the daughter is the same as normal, life and play, and then there is a job and family, life and the future, this difference, to the child's motivation is very large, especially cherish this thing, every minute of learning, are learning very hard, but also made a lot of notes.
Then go home, no matter how late, will take the daughter to practice, at least two and a half hours of training every day, which is very difficult for the two-and-a-half-year-old Xuanxuan to stick to, the beginning of the child is also very resistant to training, for the future of the daughter, can only insist fiercely, there is a return to pay, Du Jiamei is also in this pay, see hope, Xuanxuan's ability to listen to instructions and imitate is also constantly improving.
Through the professional method, all taught To Xuanxuan, every progress is inseparable from the mother's persistence and efforts, for the daughter, Du Jiamei gave up the doctoral dream, the postdoc's father is also like a full-time dad, the daily task is to wash and cook, undertake all the housework, after all, it is still a child, many times, it is also necessary to make an adjustment regardless of it, after all, in rehabilitation training.
In education, or Du Jiamei did better than himself, so to say, as the child's father in other aspects, share the pressure, parents said, Xuanxuan's progress is very large, but want to live independently, or a difficult task to complete, in order to Xuanxuan in the future someone can take care of, Du Jiamei also made a bold decision, worried that after the child no one to take care of, decided to have another child, after all, the first child accidentally miscarried, the second child is autism, regenerate the next child, Will there also be a big risk, Du Jiamei is also full of fear for new life, when thinking of Xuanxuan's future, or decided to gamble.
Du Jiamei said that in this matter also learned a lot of rehabilitation technology, if it is really unexpected, you can only do some training for your daughter for the first time, Du Jiamei is now pregnant, the mother came from her hometown to take care of it, just when the child was about to be born in two months, the new bad luck came again, Du Jiamei's mother had ampullary belly cancer.
Mother's cancer, Xuanxuan's training, this news makes the responsibility of this family all pressed on Du Jiamei's body, at that time, with a big belly to go to the hospital, the husband still has to go to work to make money, just outside the intensive care unit waiting for this result, and the mother's daily physical indicators, I feel very depressed.
The mother said that the daughter here to take care of the daughter of a lot of pressure, increased a lot of burden, fortunately the mother's surgery is still very successful, just during the mother's hospitalization, the second elder Yingying was also born, Yingying is also a very healthy child, this news let Du Jiamei bring infinite happiness, the arrival of the second elder brought infinite happiness and hope to the family.
Du Jiamei's training of Xuanxuan is also to make her daughter gradually become better, in the rehabilitation training of autism, the research is also very deep, many parents are also coming to seek experience and methods, autistic children's families are also more and more, so Du Jiamei said, ready to open a training institution specifically for autism rehabilitation training, but also helped many children get better and better.
Du Jiamei also gained a lot on this road, get unprecedented satisfaction, in order to maintain the normal operation of this rehabilitation training institution, he sold the house that he had not yet had time to live in, Du Jiamei said, the house is dead, people are alive, the house is sold, can help more family members, it is also considered to be a accumulation of morality, so that Xuanxuan may also recover better, and now Xuanxuan is also in the normal school to read the second year of junior high school, the grades are also very good, and there is no difference with ordinary children.
The reporter said that you prefer parents who, Xuanxuan said, mother, father like, the reporter said that the mother is so strict with you, why still like the mother, Xuanxuan said, I love my mother, this is the most direct expression of Xuanxuan, is every child with autism, are children from the stars, in such a dilemma, Du Jiamei has always not given up Xuanxuan, a positive attitude to life, the greatness of parents, the achievement of everything for children.
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