In his sophomore year of high school, he won the gold medal of the 49th and 50th International Mathematical Olympiads, and was submitted to Peking University, a well-known university in China, with excellent results.
At Peking University, where talents are born, his brilliance has not been damaged in the slightest, as a fledgling freshman, he actually "fought" Tsinghua University alone.
Wei Dongyi
In the hearts of many people in the industry, he is the successor of the mathematical genius Chen Jingrun.
He is Wei Dongyi.
In the hearts of many people, Wei Dongyi is a genius.
A couple in Hunan Province also gave birth to a gifted child, she can recognize a number of Chinese characters when she is two years old, her mother said an ancient poem, she can also use the milky voice to repeat a seven-seven-eight-eight, but in a physical examination, the girl was detected mental illness.
What's going on here?
Unexpected sudden landing", "lonely" with warning
"Doctor, how is this possible?" How could my daughter have a mental illness? She has been so smart since she was a child, will this matter be a problem in which testing link? ”
Summer Moon Peak Family
Du Jialin asked nervously, and Xia Yuefeng behind him also tightly held his daughter's hand, staring at the serious doctor with concern.
Finally, the doctor slowly opened his mouth.
"We can understand the mood of the two, and we do not rule out the possibility of an error in the examination, but for the sake of safety, I suggest that you still lead your child to do a full-body test to ensure that nothing goes wrong."
Summer Moon Peak Family
After listening to the doctor's words, Xia Yuefeng's mood was not relaxed in the slightest, adhering to the principle of not delaying the doctor's work, although they had all kinds of questions in their hearts, they still held their young daughter and left the physical examination site.
Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng originally thought that this was just an ordinary examination, but to their surprise, the test results gave the family a heavy blow.
In response to the call of the state and in order to give the child a guarantee for his body, the couple also brought their daughter Xuan Xuan to the physical examination place.
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However, in the process of inspection, Xuan Xuan made some "abnormal" moves.
When children of the same age all gathered together to play and play, Xuan Xuan hid behind Du Jialin, and no matter how the husband and wife persuaded, she was reluctant to join the army of children.
Because there is only one daughter in the family, Du Jialin naturally thinks that Xuanxuan is afraid of life, so she is reluctant to play with her friends of the same age.
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Moreover, Xuan Xuan was not an emotionally warm child in the first place.
Children are generally happy, but Xuan Xuan is happy since childhood, and the number of crying is also very small, so Xuan Xuan has been a "sensible" child since childhood, and rarely let parents be upset because of the mood of noisy crying.
However, behind this seemingly "sensible" is a huge hidden danger, and this hidden danger has also emerged under the observation of professionals.
"Xuanxuan, can you use blocks to help your aunt build a beautiful bottle?"
The doctor at the scene of the physical examination asked.
In other words, most of the other children will raise their childish little faces and sweetly say "yes", but there is no reaction on XuanXuan's face, but they have completed the tasks assigned by the doctor with their hands and feet.
Du Jialin
Xuan Xuan's "indifference" made the doctor who consulted a little surprised, and the mood of doubt rose in his heart, in order to verify his conjecture, he called the child's parents to observe and accompany him, and then tentatively asked Xuan Xuan some simple questions.
All the questions can be answered like a stream, but the expression on the doctor's face is more and more solemn, and the conjecture in his heart has been verified.
"Xuan Xuan Mother, has Xuan Xuan always been like this?"
In the face of the doctor's inquiry, Du Jialin said that the child has been so mild since childhood, and although there is a fear of life today, it is not much different from the situation at home before.
Du Jialin (left)
Du Jialin did not understand why the doctor would throw such a question, but the doctor's next sentence "The child may have mental problems" was even more shocking to Du Jialin.
Sensing the seriousness of the problem, Du Jialin summoned Xia Yuefeng and his daughter, who were staying together.
After learning this news, Xia Yuefeng also made the same surprised reaction as his wife, but under the advice of the doctor, the couple still decided to take their daughter to the hospital for follow-up.
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But the result of the diagnosis was to cut off the young couple's last bit of luck.
Autism, also known as autism.
This is the final diagnosis of Xuan Xuan.
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Du Jialin, who got the diagnosis report, sat paralyzed on the ground, she did not know why her daughter had this disease, and she did not know why this joke would find the family again and again.
But for this hard-won second daughter, both husband and wife have exhausted their own efforts.
Xuan Xuan is the only daughter in the family, but why is it said that she is the second daughter of Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng? What happened to their first child?
One child died prematurely, and the second child was worried
For the young couple of Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng, a child is an eternal pain in the young couple's heart.
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Because this child did not even have time to open his eyes to see the outside world, only three months later, he unfortunately stopped pregnant and died in Du Jialin's stomach.
The accident was a big blow to the newly married couple.
On June 16, 1999, Changsha, Hunan Province, had a new wedding banquet and a happy marriage, they were Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng.
Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng
In the eyes of the two, they are a two-way choice of lang's love and concubine, and in the eyes of outsiders, they are a powerful combination of pearls and strong forces.
Du Jialin is a teacher at Beijing Information Science and Technology University, and Xia Yuefeng is a doctor of Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications.
Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications
What's more, their position is the fertile ground for the development of career ideals - Beijing.
In 2000, Du Jialin was pregnant with a child, and for this newborn little life, the newlywed Yan'er's little couple had high expectations.
Although they are new parents, they will take care of the fetus in their wombs in all aspects of their daily lives.
Xia Yuefeng not only took care of all the housework at home, but even for three meals a day, he also carefully cooked for his wife according to the recipes of pregnant women, for fear of being a little uncared for.
However, this child was still not born into this world.
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The accident caused a great blow to Du Jialin, and after the feeling of mother-child connection disappeared in her body, she would often wake up from her sleep and hide in the bed to secretly shed tears.
Husband Xia Yuefeng also did not sleep a good night's sleep.
In order to take care of his wife, Xia Yuefeng forced his nerves to tense forever, and he did not dare to enter a state of deep sleep when he slept.
It is also like this that every night when Du Jialin wakes up in the bed and cries, he will take his wife into his arms from behind.
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Although he failed to experience the warmth between mother and son, although he did not hear his child call himself a mother, although the child stayed in his abdomen for only three months, although Du Jialin was in pain several times after the accident.
But all this pain was smoothed out under the careful care of her husband Xia Yuefeng.
"There will still be children, we are still very young."
Fortunately, in 2002, Du Jialin was pregnant with a child again, and this girl was Xuan Xuan.
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The hardships of conceiving in October seemed to Du Jialin to be worthless, until the moment when her daughter was born safely, and her and her husband's hanging hearts finally let go.
After three years of new love, they finally entered the ranks of new parents, and since then, there have been new expectations for the chai rice oil and salt of life, and the empty room has a lot of laughter that can be called "chicken flying dog jumping".
Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng
Wife, the child spits up milk, what to do?
Pick her up, lie on your shoulder, and pat her carefully with your empty palm, I'm going to the bathroom and going out right away.
……
Such conversations often appear in this family of three, although they are busy, but Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng only feel happy.
But even this hard-won happiness is still deprived of autism, which makes Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng accept it?
What's more, Xuan Xuan has been a gifted and intelligent child since he was a child.
When the speech of children of the same age is not clear, Xuan Xuan has been able to accurately find out the Chinese characters spoken by Du Jialin from a bunch of puzzle cards.
Xia Yuefeng is just a children's song humming softly, and Xuan Xuan can repeat it in a similar way.
Looking at their talented daughter, Xia Yuefeng and his wife are simply like a treasure, and they hope that their daughter can become a pillar of the country.
But after being diagnosed with autism, their only appeal to their daughter has changed to hope that their daughter can grow up safely, have her own social circle, and open her heart to dialogue about this beautiful world.
But in August 2004, all this was still an unrealistic luxury.
Li gave birth to three children Igniting a desire for communication for her sick daughter
"Husband, let's have another child, let the sisters be a companion, so that they will not be lonely on the road to growth, and maybe it will be good for XuanXuan's condition."
Good.
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The ideal vision is to live better, but the implementation of reality is still very risky.
Because the 37-year-old Du Jialin has entered the age of an elderly mother, but she still resolutely made this choice.
But this is not Xia Yuefeng and Du Jialin's last effort to save their daughter, on the contrary, in the years of exploration, they have become experts in the treatment of autistic children.
Du Jialin and daughter
It turned out that after Xuan Xuan was diagnosed with autism, Du Jialin gave up the postgraduate examination he had prepared for a long time, and Xia Yuefeng also quit his high-paying job in a private enterprise and entered a stable state-owned enterprise, spending more time on the company of Xuan Xuan.
Patient companionship will certainly cure children with autism, but if they want to really get a normal life, they must rely on professional means.
To this end, Du Jialin deliberately entered a special training institution to learn the methods and skills of communication with autistic children.
In the training institution, Du Jialin is always the hardest one, she will not only listen carefully to the lecture and take notes in class, but also seek the teacher's professional advice on the specific situation of Xuan Xuan after class.
Du Jialin
Although things cannot be done in a hurry, in order to let Xuan Xuan open the door of his heart as soon as possible and take the initiative to establish contact with the outside world, Du Jialin still chooses to integrate the knowledge learned in the classroom into the practice of Xuan Xuan's daily life.
Fortunately, Xuan Xuan's condition is getting better day by day, and more emotional changes appear on Xuan Xuan's face.
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One day, Du Jialin accidentally broke one of XuanXuan's dolls, and Xuanxuan's face was unusually angry, but Du Jialin's eyes, which were reprimanded by his daughter, were already filled with tears.
When Du Jialin was busy with her daughter's xuanxuan affairs, Xia Yuefeng would also fulfill her responsibilities as a father and take the initiative to take over all the logistical support work.
When he came home after a day's work, he would not only not collapse on the sofa and wait for dinner, but would also take the initiative to put on an apron and go into the kitchen to cook a delicious meal for his wife and daughter who were accompanying the children.
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After a full meal, Xia Yuefeng also did not allow his wife to go to the kitchen, but washed the dishes and chopsticks by herself.
Outside, he was a man who fed his family, and at home, the kitchen, including the balcony where the washing machine was located, was his more important battlefield.
Xia Yuefeng and Du Jialin's behavior is certainly hard, but for the sake of this small family, for the sake of their daughter Xuanxuan, they feel that all their actions are worth it.
In the process of Xuanxuan's gradual progress, Du Jialin also began to learn to use her mobile phone to record the growth of her children, and gained some fans on social media.
There are also many parents who are "with the same disease" with Du Jialin send her private messages to ask for experience in communicating with autistic children.
In order to help more families, but also to help more children like Xuanxuan, after some thought, Du Jialin and her husband Xia Yuefeng decided to sell the family's new house and used the money to set up a "Star Hope Autism Rehabilitation Center" in the commercial area.
Star Hope Autism Rehabilitation Center
Many parents come here as the last hope to heal their children.
Du Jialin and the four professional teachers hired did not live up to the ardent expectations of the parents, more and more laughter came out of the rehabilitation center, and the children who were stuck in their own small world gradually opened their hearts and were willing to talk to children of the same age.
Du Jialin and daughter
Xuan Xuan's condition has improved significantly, she can already rely on herself to live independently, while the normal development of her studies, but also opened up her own hobbies, in the face of the newborn sister, she also began to take the initiative to learn to take care of.
In 2018, Xuan Xuan was admitted to a key university, completely integrated into a normal life, had his own social circle, and also had his own career ideals.
Du Jialin and daughter
Although their daughter has been cured, Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng decided to continue to handle the Star Hope Autism Rehabilitation Center to help more children like Xuan Xuan return to normal life as soon as possible and get rid of the problem of autism.
The glitz fades, and loneliness is the end of the hustle and bustle, which is most people's view of loneliness.
But for children with autism, they are more like a cocoon wrapped in layers, needing more gentle care and love.
Because they have not seen the hustle and bustle, for them who have something encapsulated, the only thing that can help them is the gentleness of the outside world.
Be kind to children with autism, become a light in their lives, help them listen to the voice of the outside world, and lead them to touch the beauty of the world.
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