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61-year-old uncle: after 3 months of ballroom dancing, I dare not dance again, those female dance partners are not fuel-saving lamps. What happened and what was the process? Let me take a look!
Uncle Chen, 61 years old
I liked to come up and dance after I retired, and at first I saw a lot of people in the park dancing square dancing, I thought it was funny, so I joined in, everyone was very enthusiastic to teach me, I am a very fast learner, in less than a week, square dancing I can dance very well.
Later, as long as I had nothing to do, I would go to the park to dance with everyone, exercise and meet some new friends. After dancing square dance for a while, I felt that my spirit had improved, so I began to learn ballroom dancing again. My dance partner is a 54-year-old woman who is very enthusiastic and teaches me ballroom dancing moves and techniques.
In less than half a month, I was able to dance the entire song with everyone, and my female dance partner and I became good friends. After the ballroom dance, I didn't do much square dancing, but then the female dance partner said that there was something going on at home and needed 5,000 yuan for an emergency, so I didn't hesitate to lend her the money.
One day my wife needed to buy medicine, she found that I took 5,000 yuan out some time ago, my wife asked me where the money was used, I said that I lent the money to the dance partner. My wife was very angry, saying that I was not carrying her outside to make trouble, and I could only explain to her that my wife asked me to get the money back immediately, otherwise she would not let me go home.
I had to find a female dance partner to let me pay back, but the female dance partner said that there was no money, and when I had money, she would pay it back to me. Later, when I repeatedly asked for money, she gave me the money and said that I was a strict wife.
I felt that I had really done a thankless thing, not only did not appreciate me, but also told everyone about it, which led to some people misunderstanding me, thinking that I was out picking flowers and making trouble, and let my wife and I quarrel. Since then, I have understood that female dance partners are not fuel-saving lamps, and for the sake of family harmony, I dare not dance ballroom dances for 3 months.
epilogue:
Many elderly people will go to the park to dance after retirement, in fact, the benefits of dancing are many, can improve the health of the elderly, you can also pass the time, but the elderly in the dance also understand that the family is always in the first place, do not provoke too many people and things, otherwise it will affect their normal life, so it is not worth the loss.