As the saying goes, parents are a child's first teacher. Parents' way of educating children will affect the child's life, the child's various behaviors are closely related to the parents' education, if the parents really love their children, the child's heart will be able to feel it.
Every New Year, parents and relatives will give their children money, which is the happiest and happiest moment of the year.
Children receive huge sums of money during the New Year, some parents will ask the child to hand over the full amount of the pressed old money, falsely claiming that it will be kept by the mother first; some parents will leave a small amount of the pressed old money for the child, take most of the old age money away and save it, tell the child that the pressure money is just a courtesy between relatives; and some parents will give all the old age money to their children for safekeeping, and cultivate their children's financial management ability from an early age.
Over time, children whose mothers keep the money will slowly forget the existence of the money, and eventually the money will fall into the mother's pocket. A child who is controlled by himself will slowly dispose of his own pressure money, and his financial management ability has been exercised imperceptibly.
Just like this 8-year-old child in Shandong, he used his own 1,000 yuan to press the old money to buy a gold ring for his mother, and her mother was particularly happy and touched after receiving it.
So why would this 8-year-old be willing to spend $1,000 to buy a gold ring for his mom? How exactly did Mom educate this 8-year-old? Why are other people's children so sensible?
This happened in Jining, Shandong, where the 8-year-old boy saw that his mother was working hard to cook for the whole family for the New Year, so he took his own money to take his mother to the mall with him, and said that he wanted to surprise her.
The two came to the mall, the boy took his mother to a gold shop, he took out 1,000 pieces of pressed money from his pocket, said to give his mother a gift, the mother picked a 2-gram gold ring, the boy paid for his mother to wear on his hand, the mother was particularly happy, and showed off when he saw people.
It turns out that from the time the child goes to kindergarten, the mother will let the child dispose of all the pressure money, and at the beginning the child will quickly spend the pressure money, and he will buy all kinds of toys he likes.
One day on his mother's birthday, the boy learned that his mother especially wanted a lipstick, but he did not have money to buy a gift for his mother, and he regretted it at that time, thinking that he should not spend all the money so quickly.
Later, the boy slowly saved his own pressure money, he would use his pressure money to buy gifts for his parents and parents, he would also buy good food for his good friends, and when he saw that his mother was very hard, he would also give his mother a gold ring.
Netizens said sour
Netizens said: When my son was 3 years old, he bought me two large diamond rings at the stall, and I was very happy at that time, mainly because the children had that heart. My son is now 10 years old, he also said that he wanted to buy me a gold ring, I said I have, he said to buy me a diamond, I said that the diamond money is not enough, he said that he saved again, I felt very touched after listening to it.
Some netizens also said: My child's pressed age money, I want to buy what I want, their pressed age money I keep for them, is the kind of custody that will not be returned to them, because my mother has also done this since I was a child. Last year, my child's thousands of dollars of pressed money were all handed over to me to play mahjong, and this year my little cotton jacket also used her pressed money to buy me a lipstick, which was really happy.
Editor's opinion
Parents are the child's role model, 8-year-old children are willing to use their own 1,000 pieces of pressure money to buy a ring for their mother, which is enough to show that the mother usually educates him very well, the child feels the mother's full love, is willing to use his own actions to repay the mother.
Parents are willing to give the money to the child to keep himself, which is a great challenge for the child, it will be difficult to implement it at the beginning, but slowly the child will plan for his own money, and over time, the child's view of money will be established better and better.
The child's pressure money can be handed over to the parents for safekeeping, but also can be kept by themselves, these storage methods are not important, it is important to let the child be a grateful person from an early age and full of love in his heart, only in this way, the child's future life path will shine brightly.