If a person has you in his heart, he will miss you all the time, care for you, pay special attention to your every move, and be afraid that when you are sad and sad, he will not accompany you and let you face alone.
If a person does not have you in his heart, even if you stay by his side, even if you look at him expectantly, even if you tell him that you are sad in your heart, he will turn a blind eye and not care.
Whether a person has you in his heart or not, in fact, it is obvious, which can be seen from his behavior towards you.
If a person starts saying the three words "I'm busy" to you often, it means that your place in his heart is gradually decreasing, and he is starting to dislike you.
If a person always uses "busy" as an excuse and is not willing to spend time and energy on you, it is actually his own unwillingness to do so.
01 People who don't love you, even if they're not busy, don't want to stay with you
Where a person spends all his time and energy means what he cares about most in his heart.
A guy who doesn't love you, he won't give you his time and energy because he thinks it's more important to do other things than you do.
We need to do a lot of things to survive in this world, and being busy is the norm, but not so busy that we don't have a little time for you. If you meet someone who is too busy to give you any time, there's only one possibility, and that's that he doesn't love you enough.
Some people always contact you for several days, always meet with you for a long time, let your heart suffer from loss, think that he does not care about you, but he does not admit it, only that he is really busy. You think he cares about you, but you can't feel his care and cherishing in your heart.
A person who makes you suffer from loss and loss, always easy to disappear into your world, and who is not infrequently connected with you, is because you are really not important in his world, you are just a person who thinks of it and comes to look for it, and then forgets it all.
If a person can find you every day, at least it means that he will think of you every day, but if he looks for you every other week or more, it means that he misses you too little. Such a person, if one day there is a person who makes his heart move, he will abandon you in an instant.
I have watched a TV series in which a girl loves her boyfriend so much that she spends almost all her free time with her boyfriend and always cares about everything about him, but is often snubbed by her boyfriend, and every time she happily prepares to go to him, he will say that he is not free, that he has something to do, but never explains what he is busy with.
In fact, most of the time is playing games, partying with friends, or being alone. Every time I saw the girl's disappointed expression and a look of understanding, I couldn't help but feel sad, not knowing when she would realize that the other party really didn't love herself.
Sure enough, the girl's boyfriend met a very beautiful girl, and he began to ask the girl out.
Thankfully, this girl finally realized that her boyfriend did not love herself, not so much to realize, but to admit it, of course, she was very bitter in her heart, but at least she was willing to face it, then she would also come out.
Everyone deserves to be loved, if the other person is not that person, let him go, you will always meet people who really love you, people who will not say that he is always busy.
02 People who love you, even if they are very busy, will take time to care for you and accompany you
There is a kind of person who has time and is not willing to spend it on you. There is a kind of person who has no time, but is willing to take time to care for you and accompany you. This is the embodiment of not loving a person or loving a person.
The person who loves you will always think of you involuntarily in his heart, he can't turn a blind eye to you at all, and he can't do anything about your things, as long as he has time, he will express his concern and care to you. Because he knows very well in his heart that you need his care and care, and need his company, he has the responsibility to make you feel solid in your heart, and he does not want you to always be uneasy because of him.
The writer Zhou Guoping once said that love is to have some unwarranted pity for the beloved and do some unnecessary things. Love is the impulse to be the protector of the beloved, even though it seems unnecessary to others.
When a person really loves another person, he will not only appear next to him when the other party needs it, but will involuntarily take the initiative to approach, take the initiative to do a lot of things, always feel that he does not give the other party enough love, and always think of being nice to the other party, and being better.
When you really fall in love with a person, your heart will be particularly afraid of losing him, so you will do everything to make the feelings of two people stronger, as long as you think of losing him, your heart will no longer be able to calm down, and you will feel unbearable.
If a person says he loves you, but he is not afraid of losing you, even if there are contradictions and quarrels between you, he has no waves in his heart, such a person cannot really love you.
If he loves you, your every move will touch his heart, and your joys and sorrows will cause his joys and sorrows.
Of course, I have to deny that when you really love someone, even if you know that he may not love you, or not love you as much as he says, you are still willing to believe him, because you want him to love you more than you do.
This is why many people obviously feel that the other party does not love themselves, but they are still willing to look for clues to prove that the other party loves themselves.
If you love a person, you will have the appearance of loving someone; if you do not love a person, you will also have the appearance of not loving a person. If a person loves you, of course, he must cherish it, but if he does not love you, it does not matter if he loses it, even if you like it again.
Just remember that you won't always love someone who doesn't love you, what you need is someone who loves you, then it won't be difficult for you to let go of someone who doesn't love you.
So the guy who often says, "I'm busy," just keep him busy. Only a person who does not love you will often say these three words to you. If you don't love you, why ask for it?
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