The popularity of the movie "Door Lock" has exacerbated people's concerns about women living alone.
Accompanied by kindness are some harsh voices: "Find an object and solve it", "Don't live alone, it's terrible" "People are social animals, there is really no need to live alone."
Thank you for your kindness, but living alone is really not as miserable as you think.
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The latest data show that China's population living alone will reach 94 million in 2021, which is equivalent to 1.1 Germany or 2.5 Canada.
At the same time, "one-person households" account for 1/4 of the total number of households, and the proportion of young people living alone is continuing to grow.
It is indisputable that we are rapidly entering the era of living alone.
"One person lives alone, two eyes, three meals takeaway, four seasons online shopping, and no grain."
In the eyes of the outside world, living in groups with families as a unit is the most ideal state of life, and living alone often means loneliness and autism.
Is living alone really as bad as people say?
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Not all social settlements are as lively and lively as in Friends.
It's hard to find friends who work and work about the same number of hours as you, so most of the real-life social groups are shared with strangers.
Sharing a room with strangers will definitely have troubles in all aspects.
Say good weekend cleaning together, when the time comes, you will be the only one left in the house. Agree that the utility bills will be shared equally, and when you want to give money, some people will start to pull their own electricity costs less. A curfew time was set, but the roommate was still singing and dancing next door.
There is only one solution to this dilemma of life – living alone.
At first, living alone may have been forced by a roommate, but after experiencing it yourself, you will find that living alone is really yds.
Living alone, you don't need to think about anyone's needs and do whatever you want.
You don't have to coordinate other people's time when you rest; you don't have to worry about being disturbed when you want to read; you can listen to small songs and hum songs in the house; Bluetooth speakers can be as loud as they want to open, and play games as much as they want to be.
Comfort, freedom, and not being influenced by others all give solitary people more opportunities to enjoy other interesting and new things.
Living alone is not only a way of life, but also a beautiful attitude of embracing oneself.
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When people talk about living alone, they often put the solitary population into a given framework and imagine that they are a similar wave of people: single, enjoying solitude, and avoiding socializing.
But they forget that although people living alone, they have never been "isolated".
"Alone" living alone does not necessarily mean "loneliness".
Wanting to reduce unnecessary socializing and reserving some alone time doesn't mean you don't need other people.
Commuting to work on time on weekdays, returning to your nest to find a little comfort; sleeping until you wake up naturally on weekends, you can have dinner with friends if you want someone to accompany you.
A thousand people living alone have a thousand feelings of life. In general, ease, independence and ease are the reasons why young people choose to live alone.
No matter what kind of way of living, as long as you can harvest a better self, it is a good life.