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Wenger, an American expert on marital emotions, once wrote in a book: "Even the most beautiful marriage will have 200 divorce thoughts in a lifetime."

author:Yi Yi marriage lawyer

Wenger, an American expert on marital emotions, once wrote in a book: "Even the most beautiful marriage will have 200 divorce thoughts in your life, and 50 urges to strangle each other." ”

Celebrities are also, even if Huang Xiaoming Yang Ying spent hundreds of millions of dollars to hold luxurious weddings when she got married.

In the end, it is difficult to escape the seven-year itch.

In fact, for most people, the same is true for celebrities, and marriage is mostly in a kind of thin and long-term blandness, even if there are occasional waves, it is inseparable from the trivialities of life.

Marriage is different from love and filming, not only the commitment of two people to spend a lifetime together, but also a scattered life.

In marriage, in addition to the romance of wind and snow, there is also the pyrotechnic gas of chai rice oil and salt, which requires two people to endure and tolerate each other.

Marriage Pope John Gottman said: "The key to the success of a relationship is not in a candlelit dinner, nor on a romantic beach, but in the care of the partner, the care of the small moments of life." ”

We the public see Yang Ying shining in front of the screen and Huang Xiaoming lifting the skirt behind her, but we don't know the specific heartache of their marriage.

I don't know the whole picture, and I won't comment on it.

As a marriage lawyer and as a mother of two children, I hope that my children can grow up healthy and happy.

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