In everyone's world, there are actually the most important things. Perhaps, in the eyes of others, those things are just insignificant existence, but in his eyes, it must not be easy to hand over.
Some women, in a relationship, obviously only known for a long time, or have not yet let men see their own good, just think of making men pay a huge price, just think, he is not a fool, not necessarily so enthusiastic, then why should you be good to you? Of course, it is only after feeling that you are worthy that you will take the initiative to approach you and take the initiative to be good to you.
In fact, to judge whether a man's love for you is deep or shallow, it mainly depends on what he is willing to give you. There are only love words and empty promises, or what he regards as life.
Generally speaking, in a relationship, where a middle-aged man is willing to give you these three things, it is true for you, and it cannot be fake.
Willing to give you the money he has saved so hard
No one's money is blown by the wind, especially for middle-aged men. If he doesn't look at you at all, he will feel like a waste even if he spends an extra dollar for you.
Indeed, when a man goes to seduce a woman, even if he is not really in love with her, but just wants to take advantage of her, he will be willing to spend money on it. But spending a little and spending a lot of money are two different things.
In the eyes of a man, every woman around him is actually priced, how much money is worth him, and what kind of role he plays in his heart.
When a middle-aged man is willing to give you all the money he has saved so hard, and is willing to pay for your life and your dreams, it must be true feelings for you. But anyone who has some hesitation will have reservations, rather than giving it all.
Willing to give you his reputation
In the eyes of middle-aged men, face is the most important. When you are young, you may give up your face in order to make a little more money, in order to find more opportunities. However, in middle age, the money earned more and earned less, basically has been fixed, and the face in the circle is the confidence that he can speak loudly.
In other words, sometimes he may know that he does not have money in his pocket, and he will still entertain others with good wine and good food, just because he is afraid of being looked down upon by others.
Therefore, if a middle-aged man is willing to give you his reputation and face, he can lose face for you, and even damage his own reputation, which means that he must have moved his true feelings for you.
Otherwise, how could he be willing to ruin the reputation he had been running for many years? It is nothing more than identifying you, so you can ignore everyone else for your sake.
Willing to give you his most vulnerable and uneasy side
Some people feel that men are the strongest, and no matter how much suffering they have, they can afford it. In fact, in the world of middle-aged men, there is no easy word at all.
Sometimes, you feel as if he has no worries, no matter what he goes through, there will be a smile on his face, but in fact, he just hides his emotions in his heart and easily does not tell others. Or, if you are not familiar with it yourself, why should you take out your own suffering and become the laughing stock on other people's wine tables?
Therefore, when a middle-aged man does not brag about himself in front of you, but is willing to give you his fragile and uneasy side, like a wounded child, seeking your arrangement, that is to move the truth for you, eager to get your comfort.
If not, he only needs to use his maturity and beauty to capture your people, so why risk being looked down upon?