Recent news of bullying in schools has been a bit frightening.
The 45-year-old father first flew a plane because his 14-year-old son was beaten to death by a classmate.
In Mianning County, Liangshan, Sichuan Province, 2 girls were punched, kicked and slapped by another 3 girls, and one of the perpetrators did not stop kicking his shoes.
The topic of "Japanese students committing suicide after ten consecutive breaks" has also appeared on Weibo's hot search. Unable to bear the pain caused by school violence, children in the flower season have jumped off buildings and tracks one after another to seek relief.
Today's latest revelation is that on May 10, a father held a knife and killed a male classmate who often bullied his daughter.
Such incidents broke out on a large scale, and subsequent reports and reports were overwhelming, but the fundamental problems were always in a state to be solved.
Why?
Although bullying occurs among students on campus, the reasons behind bullying can be traced back to the outside of the campus.
Multiple factors such as interpersonal conflicts, negative impacts on the family, lack of education for parents, unfavorable supervision of schools, public perception of guilt, bad social atmosphere, and excessive tolerance of the law have led to various bad results.
The American drama "Thirteen Reasons" recommended by Shu before left 13 tapes after the suicide of the young girl, and narrated one by one the reasons why she finally chose to die.
Spread out evenly, classmates, parents and teachers are inseparable.
The first season of this drama takes the victim's exposed voice and the secret confessed as the clue, focusing on the subjective perspective.
However, the 2012 Mexican "Olympic Film" that Shu wants to talk about today is diametrically opposed.
Each scene is a fixed long mirror with no push-pull and no soundtrack.
The whole process uses an objective perspective of restraint to the extreme, so that the audience still has a sense of substitution to see the whole picture of the bullying incident.
After Lucia
The poster depicts a beautiful girl who is slapped at the moment, and she is the protagonist of the story, Yalei.
Moving to Mexico City with her father from Puerto Vallarta, Yare came to a new school.
Good looking and friendly personality, she quickly met a group of friends.
Yalei is obedient and sensible, learning to cook a good dish with her father, who is a cook, but whenever she goes out with friends, she will ask her father's permission.
Although it has nothing to do with rebellion, this 17-year-old girl will inevitably have the restlessness of adolescence, and her behavior will be dominated by hormones.
At a party full of alcohol and leaves, Yalei and Jose, a rich and attractive boy, get entangled.
They carried other friends all the way to the bathroom, took off their clothes, and enjoyed a moment of passion.
Jose put the phone aside and let the camera record the scene.
Yalei let him do it. She believed him completely and had no qualms at all.
However, when she returned home and used her computer to log on to her social account, she was immediately stunned.
A video of the two people's shame was actually posted online.
Overwhelmed, she cheated on her father and did not go to school. The strange eyes that her classmates were about to throw at her, she couldn't cope with it when she thought about it.
The Japanese students who went to their lives after ten consecutive breaks had similar psychological activities with Yalei.
For those who suffer from school bullying, school is hell. The closer they get to the end of the holidays, the more they fear.
Some people simply went to a hundred, some people hardened their scalps, and once again greeted the arrival of nightmares.
Seeing that Yare did not go to school, Jose came to the door to explain.
He forgot his phone in the bathroom that day, and the video was leaked by the person who accidentally found it.
Knowing that she could not hide for a lifetime, Yalei plucked up enough courage to return to school.
At first, people just passed on small notes to taunt her, and it wasn't long before the humiliation escalated to violence, abuse, and sexual assault.
The girl who liked Jose took the lead in cutting off her long hair.
On her birthday, the men and women who had been good to her were forced to feed her a cake made of unknown ingredients until she couldn't stop vomiting.
When she went out with the school group, she was so excluded by the people in the same room that she could only sleep on the bathroom floor.
A fat boy went in and raped her, and everyone else was playing music and playing, even if it was only a door away, no one noticed anything unusual.
After putting on his pants, the fat boy walked out casually and secretly showed off his "achievements" with a friend.
Even this is not enough.
The small group dragged Yarey to the beach in the middle of the night and poured it with wine and urine.
Out of fear of being found out by the teacher, they asked Yalei to go into the sea to wash away the stench.
When everyone who was playing with the water came back to their senses, Yalei had disappeared into the dark and turbulent waves.
Yalei's experience does convey the truth that girls must clean themselves and love themselves, but it does not mean that she is unruly and deserves to suffer from this.
After all, the person who invaded her privacy was the perpetrator who should be accused by the thousands.
Too many facts tell us that a lipstick, a headset, and a water cup can be the beginning of a bullying.
The situation and surrounding environment that Yalei is in are what this film really wants to attract attention and cause thinking.
Speaking of this, will you wonder why Yalei and her father moved, where did Yalei's mother go, and since the heroine is called Yalei, who is Lucia in the title?
In fact, Lucia is the name of Yalei's mother, who died in a car accident.
The scene of the accident filmed with a mobile phone is the only moving shot in the whole film.
The "After" in the title is intended to show the impact of Lucia's unexpected death on the father and daughter's subsequent lives.
Like most families, although Yalei and her father are deeply in the pain of losing their loved ones and loved ones, they invariably avoid it, thinking that if they don't mention it, the wound will heal themselves.
In the face of the sudden tragedy, the father's reaction was far greater than That of Yalei.
He tries to get his days back on track, but he still collapses in an instant, so much so that he acts impulsively.
His father drove the car that was "rescued" from the car accident, encountered a red light, and in an instant, he simply threw away the car keys, just like that, he threw the car at the intersection, and he walked away.
He started to discuss the marriage in the kitchen, and after listening to it for half a day, he finally couldn't bear it and left on the spot.
He could not let go, and he resolutely refused to admit defeat. He rejects psychotherapy, believing that his daughter can recover on her own.
Yalei, who is usually a sweet little cotton jacket, tries to hide her emotions and give her father more care.
It was precisely because of her father's mood that Yalei did not ask him for help in time.
Moreover, this matter itself was also very difficult to talk about, and YaLei, who did not want to add a heavy burden to his shoulders, swallowed the words that had already reached his mouth.
Deciding to escape from her predicament, she once even bought a ticket to return to her hometown, but she did not get on the bus after thinking about it.
There is a serious lack of effective communication and real emotional communication between father and daughter.
After the conflict, the teacher knew that the person was lying but did not know the truth, and waited until Yalei disappeared completely before paying attention.
The police are even more powerless, and minors are the best disclaimer for bullies.
Knowing the ins and outs of the matter, his father, who realized it after realizing it, chose to fight violence with violence and return the eye for an eye.
He drove the speedboat with Jose, whose hands and feet were bound, drove a long way out of the land, stopped the boat, and then threw the boy into the sea like a stone.
The whole set of movements is clean and tidy. Jose's hoarse pleas were to no avail.
The chef of the restaurant was forced to become an executioner.
At the same time, Yalei was also facing the sea.
Yes, she's still alive.
The watery girl who grew up in Puerto Vallarta miraculously swam ashore after her classmates left.
The immortal Yalei returned to the empty house of her hometown, and she lay on the mattress and fell asleep with the sun, as if she had slipped into her mother's arms.
After waking up, she walked to the beach, thoughtful.
Father was also meditating on the speedboat that was left with only him.
The situation of the two and the scene in which they are located constitute a strong irony, and the people in the picture do not say a word, but there are also harsh questions.
Uncle remembers a father who once left a message on the Internet: "Since the day my daughter was born, I have been ready for jail. ”
To what extent the modern society is chaotic and untrustworthy, it will make the father who cares for his daughter unscrupulous.
School bullying is enough to ruin a family, a person's life.
Don't always take the oppression and conflict that occurs in minors as a child's play, there is no child's play in the world that involves injury and death.
Sometimes it's not that the children are small and ignorant, but the bad guys haven't grown up yet.