Author/Pond Fish
Happiness is two words, with a strong subjective emotion.
That is to say, in fact, in life, you feel happy or unhappy, in the end, not to listen to what others say, or how to define, but your own heart, in a certain life or a relationship, the most direct subconscious reaction to joy and sorrow.
With this reaction, you can deceive others on the surface, but you must not be able to deceive your own heart. The intuitive feeling of your personal emotions is the most real.
And, as time passes, this definition of happiness will become clearer and clearer in your own mind.
In fact, when a woman reaches middle age, whether she is happy or not, she can understand these two places on her body.
01. Her temper
A woman's feelings in life will eventually be intuitively reflected in her temper.
In short, if life and marriage bring her more positive and positive emotions, then the person's temper must be relatively better, and vice versa.
In the past, I had a good friend, she often complained to me, saying that her mother had a bad temper and liked to scold people at every turn, and she had always been very envious of her cousin, because her cousin's mother, that is, her sister-in-law, had a particularly good temper, never got angry, and was always very gentle no matter who she talked to.
Even her cousin herself said that she had grown so big that she had never seen her mother lose her temper.
She used to just regret that she hadn't met such a good mother, but now that she was older and began to look at things from other angles, she realized that her mother was not such a person in the beginning. The marriage of her mother and sister-in-law is really very different.
The husband that the aunt is looking for is the kind of man who is particularly responsible, caring for the family, practical and kind, and has a particularly good temper, never quarrels with her aunt, and no matter what happens to the two people, they respect each other's opinions and have a good opinion. She believes that the aunt is a person who has felt tenderness and love, and can naturally substitute this emotion into her daily life, and the two complement each other, whether it is marriage or life, it is getting better and better.
However, her father was not that kind of man.
The most basic point is that her parents have been married for so many years, her mother has to earn money, everything in the family is also her mother's worry, her father is very lazy, she would rather be scolded, anyway, she does not do anything, her mother must have complaints in her heart.
Therefore, her mother's temper is not very good, including in life. After all, a person's emotions will not only be reflected in a certain thing, but will basically be a comprehensive embodiment.
Marriage and life are often closely related, and many times it is not that you alone want to work hard or expect to achieve a certain result, and you will be able to achieve it. This process often requires the joint efforts of two people to gradually shape a stable relationship day after day, and the personality of the individual will certainly be greatly affected in this relationship.
02. Her face
Believe it or not, a person's behavior habits and ways of life will most likely eventually form a certain symbol on their own body, especially engraved on their faces.
Just like a person who has lived a difficult life for many years and has no smile on his face, you basically can't see the person who represents the positive emotions of the sun on his face, and the first impression this person gives you is just something that is soaked through the appearance, and it is absolutely impossible to be beautiful.
The so-called phase is born from the heart, that's it. I've seen someone give a more professional explanation: what kind of emotions a person often has, what kind of expression, will eventually be reflected in his appearance. One of the reasons is that the expressions we often use will make the facial muscles produce "muscle memory", if you often use certain facial muscles, then your face is likely to be permanently deformed due to the changes in these muscles, even in the usual relaxed state, the muscles will still maintain that kind of work. This is why some people, as they get older, have an angry or even anxious expression on their faces for many years.
The longer the time, the more pronounced this muscular memory becomes.
In my life, I know two aunts, the first aunt When I first met her, I could feel that she should be a relatively happy person in life.
Although she is 45 years old, the corners of her eyes have begun to wrinkle, there are dark circles, but her whole person shows a state, the muscles of her face, inexplicably give people a particularly gentle feeling, I even in her body, through her eyes, see a sense of girlishness that does not meet the age.
Later, after getting acquainted, I found that this aunt's life has been relatively smooth, she has not worried about life, her marriage is happy, everything is relatively happy, her personality has always been like a little girl, she prefers new things, and she is particularly sunny and positive about life.
The other aunt was a year younger than her, but when I first met her, I saw from this aunt's face that she was not good at this attribute. Seriously, her whole person is in a more fierce state, even if she doesn't say anything, just standing there, I can see this just by looking at her appearance.
Sure enough, it is said that this aunt often quarrels with her husband, she is actually a very capable person, but her husband is a weak personality, can not afford to pick up any beams in the family.
So no matter what happened, it was this aunt who was worried, and as time went on, her voice grew louder and louder, and the expression on her face became more and more unpleasant.
You will eventually find that the impact that a person's emotions and mindset ultimately have on the face is really not to be underestimated.
Many times, when this influence is reflected in the face, it cannot be directly defined by beauty and ugliness, but the psychology and physiology of people complement each other to a certain extent, and when the final reaction is on the face, combined with the skills and methods of most people subconsciously looking at the face, most of them can draw a general judgment.
For example, when we look at people, the first thing to see must be how the person's face is presented as a whole, rather than first entangling whether the distribution ratio of the five facial features is uniform.
At this time, without exception, whether this person is doing well or not will definitely be manifested on his face.
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