Lanzhou Morning Post, Children's Weekly, Juvenile Pie
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Spring returns to the earth, and everything in Vientiane is renewed. The new semester is here, and the beautiful campus is bustling again.
The new semester is a new beginning and a new starting point for children.
Those grinding, procrastinating, should all be PASSed off;
Also, writing an assignment makes the whole family jump, this should also be changed.
Today is the first day of school,
The first lesson of our "Young Pi",
Don't talk about the number of words, don't say the big truth, only a few warm words from parents -
For example, in the face of children's grinding and procrastination, and children who have done wrong things, how to guide correction?
Don't think of yourself as another nagging from your parents.
At the heart of this nagging is how to better accompany you.
Yes, what kind of long-term affection can be compared to the companionship of parents to their children?
Long-lasting companionship with each and every one of your children,
Like a small sapling in the spring, bathed in sunshine, healthy and safe,
Then, through the wind and rain, through the struggle, grow into a big tree.
So, children, you who have been reading for a long time,
There is no reason not to cherish this companionship,
Don't cherish your study time!
Hurry, exert the strength to suckle,
And then like a calf,
Run up and run for that beautiful tomorrow!
Today is the first day of school, a few days ago, Chengguan District Changjia Lane Primary School launched a parent classroom activities, selecting the scientific education concepts of many outstanding families in the school, which is worth learning from. For example, in the face of children's grinding and procrastination, and children who have done wrong things, how to guide correction? Here, we have selected some of them to learn with you as the first lesson of the school year!
1. How to change the child's grinding?
If the child is "grinding foreign workers", do not casually accuse or reprimand, give them a little more time and space.
Practices worth learning: Parents should face it correctly and analyze the reasons, such as writing homework is relatively slow, not enough concentration, concentration, then you can make a study plan for him, after school, what to do first, what to do, after doing, there is free time.
2. What should I do if my child does something wrong?
What is normal when a child will do something wrong is actually a good thing, and only by making mistakes can they grow and progress.
It is worth learning from the practice: First of all, after the child makes a mistake, the parents cannot be angry and cannot scold, which will make the problem more serious. For example, if a child breaks a valuable item, you educate through scolding, then the child will develop the habit of covering up mistakes and cheating on his parents, because he will be afraid. Secondly, the child's mistakes are pointed out in time, can not be ignored, the main purpose is to guide the child not to hide the mistake, to know the mistake to change.
3. What should I do to communicate with my child?
Only by caring for and trusting children can children gain a solid sense of security.
Practices worth learning: The most important way is to participate in children's affairs, more children to participate in family affairs, and create more communication scenarios and channels. For example, traveling together, etc., through activities, everyone can achieve a good purpose of communication in a relaxed and pleasant state of mind. When the child takes the initiative to ask you questions, this is the best communication opportunity, must be seized, will play a multiplier education, guidance effect.
4. How to face your child's inadequacies?
Respect and understanding, and then patience and slow improvement.
Lessons to learn: As parents, you have to acknowledge that every child has strengths and weaknesses, strengths and weaknesses, or that everyone is the same. Therefore, it is very important to discover and cultivate children's interests and improve their own shortcomings.
5. About the future of the child, do not nag!
To describe a future for the child that he simply cannot understand, it is better to give him a clear little goal: read a book for an hour a day, play the piano for an hour, let him know where his direction is, and the child knows how to walk the road under his feet.
6. For children, nothing less can not be less books
Reading can not only shape a child's intelligence, but also shape his psychological qualities. A good book, often full of feelings of truth, goodness and beauty, will have a subtle impact on children. Try to read a book with your child, talk about the content of the book together, and talk about books can stimulate your child's interest in reading.
Xia Miao, chief reporter of Lanzhou Morning Post