preface
In 1993, a woman named Zhang Caihong gave birth to a baby boy at a health center, but was told by her cousin that the child might not be sound and that "her legs were not straight."
Zhang Caihong instructed her cousin to take the child to do a check-up first, but when the cousin returned, she told Zhang Caihong: "The child is a congenital disability, in order not to affect your future life, your cousin and I threw the child away." ”
Zhang Caihong was stunned to hear this, and she insisted that her cousin get the child back, but after the cousin returned, she brought a bad news: "It was too cold, and the child froze to death." ”
Zhang Caihong was heartbroken and left his hometown to go to the northeast to make a living.
17 years later, Zhang Caihong learned that the child he gave birth to was still alive and adopted.
What's going on here?
The misogynym of meeting people lays the tragic foreshadowing
Zhang Caihong was born into a wealthy family in Pei County, Xuzhou. She did well and was admitted to a health school in the early 90s.
After 3 years passed, Zhang Caihong, who was in her early 20s, returned to her hometown after graduating from the health school and entered the local hospital as a nurse, holding the "iron rice bowl".
By chance, Zhang Caihong met Li Dejun, who was doing maintenance work at the bus station.
Li Dejun fell in love with Zhang Caihong at first sight and launched a passionate pursuit of her, and Zhang Caihong quickly established a relationship with him.
When the parents of the Zhang family heard that their daughter had found a man whose family conditions and work were not very good, they were very angry, and they resolutely opposed the combination of Zhang Caihong and Li Dejun.
But Zhang Caihong, who was overwhelmed by love, still insisted on marrying Li Dejun.
After marriage, Zhang Caihong's parents were unwilling to accept this son-in-law, and their words often revealed contempt, and the relationship between the two sides was getting worse and worse.
Later, Zhang Caihong successfully became pregnant, the whole family was very happy, and her mother-in-law took good care of her.
What is delicious in the family, the mother-in-law left it to Zhang Caihong, and still chanted: "You can't be hungry for my eldest grandson." ”
Zhang Caihong jokingly said, "What if it's a granddaughter?" ”
When the mother-in-law heard this, her face changed and she said solemnly: "Our old Li family is a single seedling in the German army, but we can't break the incense, we must give birth to male babies, if we have female babies, we will beat them!"
Zhang Caihong shivered when she heard this, she did not expect that in her mother-in-law's mind, the idea of preferring sons to daughters was so deeply rooted.
But she was relieved to think of her husband's attitude.
The husband has always stressed that the boys and girls are the same, and with him, the mother-in-law should not be embarrassed by herself.
When Zhang Caihong was four months pregnant, her mother-in-law began to urge her to go to the B ultrasound to check the sex of the fetus.
Zhang Caihong could not help her mother-in-law, so she had to entrust her colleagues in the hospital to make a B ultrasound for herself.
When a colleague told her that she was a baby girl in her belly, Zhang Caihong's heart was worried, and she expected that her mother-in-law would be unhappy.
But Zhang Caihong did not expect that when she went home and announced that she was pregnant with a girl in her belly, her father-in-law left the dinner table in anger, and her mother-in-law cried and scolded, forcing Zhang Caihong to beat up the child.
Zhang Caihong turned his eyes to his husband for help, but who knew that he twisted his head to the side and said without emotion: "You just listen to your mother." ”
Looking at the scene in front of her, Zhang Caihong began to regret for the first time that she did not listen to her parents and married into such an ignorant family.
But with a weak personality, in order to maintain the superficial harmony of this family, she actually beat up the child.
She became pregnant again, but was abandoned due to disability
Zhang Caihong's parents heard that their daughter was forced to take away the child by her in-laws, and she was distressed and angry.
They took a few uncles and brothers from their mother's family and came to the door to quarrel with Zhang Caihong's mother-in-law.
The relationship between the two families was completely bad, and the parents never went to the door of the son-in-law's house again, and they persuaded their daughter to divorce Li Dejun.
But the young Zhang Caihong not only did not heed the advice of his parents, but also checked out the pregnancy again half a year after beating the child.
Hearing that Zhang Caihong had another one, the mother-in-law's face returned to a smile. She said in her mouth all day, "This time you must be pregnant with a male baby." ”
Her attitude made Zhang Caihong feel a lot of psychological pressure, so Zhang Caihong decided to go back to her mother's house to give birth.
After Zhang Caihong's parents heard that their daughter was pregnant, they resolutely refused to let her enter the house.
Father Zhang said: "That kind of family will have you bitterly eat in the future, beat the child out of divorce, otherwise never step into this family door!" ”
The stubborn Zhang Caihong turned his head and left, looking for his cousin Wei Chenghe in the neighboring village.
Zhang Caihong and her cousin have had a good relationship since childhood, and after her cousin got married, she and her cousin were also very close and often moved around.
When her cousin learned that Zhang Caihong had nowhere to go, she took her in, and Zhang Caihong planned to return to her in-laws after giving birth to a child at the health center near her cousin's home.
A few months later, Zhang Caihong's due date arrived, and when the nurse told her that it was a boy, Zhang Caihong was finally relieved, and she thought that holding the boy home, the in-laws would definitely smile and greet her.
On the day of giving birth to the child, Zhang Caihong had not yet gone to the ground, and the cousin brought back a bad news: "This child has a leg disability and cannot be straightened." ”
Zhang Caihong listened to her heart and giggled a little, because she was a nurse before, and she also went to the hospital where there were X-rays during pregnancy.
Her first instinct was that the child might have been affected by the rays.
Zhang Caihong shed tears of remorse, and she asked her cousin to go to the doctor to ask about the situation.
As a result, early the next morning, cousin Zhang Aering entered the ward and said: "The doctor said that the child's disability cannot be cured, and your cousin and I are afraid that you will suffer with this child, and last night we threw it away. ”
Zhang Caihong listened like five thunderbolts, even if it is an unsound child, what right does his cousin have to throw him away?
Zhang Caihong ignored her weak body after childbirth and insisted on going to get the child back, but her cousin and cousin couldn't help her, saying that they would go looking for her.
After a while the two men returned and said, "It's too late, the child is frozen to death." ”
The in-laws could not return, the mother's family broke off the relationship, and now the child was gone, and Zhang Caihong, who was full of thoughts, did not greet anyone and went to the northeast alone.
Zhang Caihong's husband, Li Dejun, after unsuccessfully searching for her, went to the court to sue for divorce, and the two dissolved the marriage relationship.
With the passage of time, Zhang Caihong gradually walked out of this sad past, she returned to Pei County again, and after learning that she had been "divorced", Zhang Caihong and another man formed a family, and life continued.
17 years later, the child "came back from the dead", what is the cat behind it?
More than 10 years later, one afternoon, Zhang Caihong was giving people a hanging bottle in the hospital room, when he suddenly heard two women muttering at the door.
One of the women said: "There is a nurse in this hospital, after giving birth to a child, the family lied to her that the child was thrown away, in fact, this child is now fine, it has been adopted!" ”
Zhang Caihong was not calm after listening, she thought of her own experience, isn't this what she said?
Zhang Caihong hurried out of the ward and asked the two women to explain things clearly, but they denied that they had said those words.
In order to explore the truth, Zhang Caihong went to her cousin's house and asked about the events of that year.
The cousin and cousin looked sincere: "Don't listen to the wind is the rain, people say it is not you, your children are buried by our own hands, how can they still be alive?" ”
Leaving her cousin's house, Zhang Caihong still felt that something was wrong.
She began to secretly investigate the interpersonal relationships of her cousin and learned that her cousin had a sister who adopted a boy 17 years ago and named liu Shangshang.
Zhang Caihong found the school where Liu Shangshang attended, and when she saw Liu Shangshang for the first time, Zhang Caihong firmly believed that this child must be her son, and he looked too much like himself!
In order not to affect the child's emotions, Zhang Caihong did not have the impulse to come forward, she first returned home, told her current husband about this past, and said that she must recognize this "lost" son back.
The husband was silent for a moment after listening, nodding in agreement with the wife's decision.
Therefore, Zhang Caihong contacted her ex-husband Li Dejun and wanted him to do a paternity test with Liu Shangshang, but this news was not a surprise to Li Dejun, but a shock.
Li Dejun said that he now has a new family and children, and does not want the son who appeared out of thin air to break his now peaceful life.
In desperation, Zhang Caihong had to find Liu Shangshang by herself, and Liu Shangshang did not want to believe it at first, thinking that Zhang Caihong was a crazy woman.
In Zhang Caihong's many tearful persuasions, Liu Shangshang finally agreed to do a paternity test.
The appraisal results show that Liu Shangshang is indeed Zhang Caihong's son.
When she got this result, Zhang Caihong was excited and angry, and she first found her cousin and cousin, asked them why they had to lie that their child was disabled, and lied that they had frozen to death.
But her cousin and sister-in-law drove her out with a cold face.
After Liu Shangshang's adoptive father and adoptive mother learned of the news, they quickly transferred Liu Shangshang to another school, and Zhang Caihong lost contact with the child again.
In a fit of rage, Zhang Caihong reported the case to the Public Security Bureau on the grounds that her son had been abducted.
But the result was surprising: the original effective litigation period was 10 years, and 17 years had passed since the incident occurred, and the court did not file a case!
There was no way, Zhang Caihong could only rely on his own strength to find his son back.
So, she began to travel between Xuzhou and Pei county, posting posts looking for relatives everywhere, and also joined various kidnapping groups...
After two years of searching like this, one day Zhang Caihong received a phone call, and a well-meaning person quietly told her that Liu Shangshang would return to his hometown in June to take the college entrance examination.
After learning the news, Zhang Caihong squatted in front of the school every day and finally saw her son Liu Shangshang.
She stopped her son and handed him the paternity test report, but Liu Shangshang said coldly: "When you abandoned me, why do you want to recognize me now?" ”
As soon as Zhang Caihong listened, she understood that it must be the adoptive parents who said something in front of their children.
While crying, she told her son about the events of that year, and also showed Liu Shangshang her receipts for the two reports, round-trip tickets and other things.
Liu Shangshang, who learned the truth, was also stunned, he always thought that his birth mother abandoned him, and it turned out that his adoptive mother's sister was obstructing in the middle.
But why are they so bad that they want to steal someone else's children?
The truth is out, who caused the separation of mother and child?
After the college entrance examination, Liu Shangshang, who complained about his adoptive parents, left home without saying hello and returned to Zhang Caihong's side, and the mother and son were finally reunited after 17 years of separation.
But two months later, Zhang Caihong received a court summons, and it turned out that Liu Shangshang's adoptive parents, Liu Guangyu and his wife, sued her in court, demanding a claim for 300,000 yuan in maintenance for the past 17 years.
Zhang Caihong was angry, because they, she and the child had been separated for 17 years, she did not pursue responsibility as a victim, but was asked for maintenance, and there were such unreasonable people under the sky!
A month later, the case was heard at the Pei County People's Court in Jiangsu Province, and several parties disagreed.
Liu Guangyu and his wife said: "17 years ago, my aunt came to us with a child in her arms, said that the child's parents did not want him, begged us to adopt this child, we could not bear to give up this little life, which raised him. ”
The lawyer for the adoptive parents also said that the case was not an act of abduction, but that the defendant gave the child to someone else to raise. Claiming 300,000 maintenance in 17 years is not excessive.
But Zhang Caihong's lawyer pointed out that Liu Guangyu and his wife already had a daughter at that time, which did not meet the conditions for adoption at all, and their adoption was illegal.
Just when the two sides were arguing, the cousin and cousin of the "culprit" appeared in court, and the truth they told surprised everyone even more.
According to her cousin's cousin, Zhang Caihong's parents were very dissatisfied with Zhang Caihong's ex-husband's family, and when Zhang Caihong hid in her cousin's cousin's house, her parents came to persuade Zhang Caihong to have an abortion many times.
Later, seeing that Zhang Caihong was thinking of giving birth to a child, the parents of the Zhang family found their cousins and cousins behind their backs and asked them to throw them away when the child was born.
It was very difficult for my cousin and cousin to be sandwiched in the middle, because the legal awareness was weak, and finally agreed to the request of Zhang Caihong's parents.
After Zhang Caihong gave birth to the child, the cousin thought that there was only one girl in her own sister's family, so she sent the child over.
Liu Guangyu and his wife named the child Liu Shangshang.
Truth!
It turned out that the initiators of this incident were actually Zhang Caihong's parents, and they had not confided a word with Zhang Caihong until his death.
Zhang Caihong's heart almost collapsed, Liu Shangshang also cried several times in court, he wanted to return to his biological mother's side to make up for the pain of her loss of children for more than ten years, but the adoptive parents looked at him with tears in their eyes, so that Liu Shangshang could not forget the grace of parenting over the years.
Finally, under the mediation of the judge, Liu Guangyu and his wife withdrew the lawsuit, and Liu Shangshang also insisted on the initial decision and returned to Zhang Caihong's side.
Although his son has returned, Zhang Caihong still has resentment in his heart.
For the nurturing grace said by Liu Guangyu and his wife, Zhang Caihong retorted: "My own children are not unaffordable, who needs them to raise!" ”
postscript:
Although the ending of this story is relatively satisfactory, the reason for this tragedy is lamentable.
Zhang Caihong encounters unladylike people, knowing that her ex-husband's family favors sons over daughters, and regards herself as a tool for reproduction, but refuses to turn back in the wrong marriage, and regards giving birth to a boy as a life-saving straw to save the marriage;
The Parents of the Zhang family are strong and arbitrary, and without their daughter's knowledge, they take the initiative to "dispose" of their grandson without permission, and regard life as a child's play;
Cousins and adoptive parents have a weak sense of law, knowing that the child's biological parents are still alive, still choose to conceal deception, and after the matter is exposed, they also beat them upside down.
I hope that this real case can bring you enlightenment and deeper thinking!
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