The simpler the behavior, the more complex the logic behind it

"Do not know the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be good."

The narrative of the exterior is too simple, and the logical complexity of the underlying layer is usually filtered out.

Therefore, there will be a phenomenon of "standing and talking without waist pain".

It's not that I don't understand, it's that I can't see

Only by seeing, realizing, and truly understanding the root causes behind things can we give reasonable feedback.

Instant gratification

The immediate interests, the temptation to people, are too strong.

Adults often bring inexplicable disguises and intuitive scenes to see children, especially babies, for the performance of seduction.

If there is milk, it is a mother.

When you are hungry, you cry, you cry until the food reaches your mouth.

Diligence and bravery are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.

This is how to live, a person, a family, can adhere to the principle of simplicity, not to say that the rich and noble, at least the family is peaceful.

But man's willpower, the resistance to the temptation of instant gratification, is too weak.

A little bit of work, squeamishness, pretending to be pitiful, nibbling on the old and nibbling on the small, pretending to be sick, etc., will use various ways to cover up lazy behavior.

Ho Tak Ho Neng.

Most people can live the lifestyle of the old master and young master.

Look at the Virgin B abroad,

After the abundance of material conditions can be seen in general, the most basic living conditions are satisfied, and people begin to survive in reverse.

Occupying a moral high position and demanding this and that.

Especially in intimate relationships (between parents and children, between husband and wife), there is an increasing tear, the pain of expectations that cannot be satisfied.

"Whoever first sees the moon on the banks of the river, and when the river moon shines at the beginning of the year."

Luo Xiang said that life is short, Jiang Yue is long, do not have too much hope in individual people and things, sooner or later will be disappointed, because the limited nature of people and things can not carry our expectations of infinite hope.

When there is a chance to be lazy, it is difficult to be industrious anymore.

Empathy projection

"Meet the Unknown Self": "Honey, there is no one else out there, only yourself." ”

Every time I see this sentence, I can touch the emotional resonance.

What seems like an ordinary sentence implies an important concept in psychology: empathy projection.

Empathy is a skill that humans have evolved.

You can inadvertently imitate it by observing the expressions of others and empathizing with them.

Face the smile, involuntarily rejoice;

In the face of crying, inexplicably sad.

In imitating each other, we learn to think in empathy, and suddenly open up higher dimensions, and there is a link between lives.

In addition to a person's self-knowledge,

By understanding others and opening up new cognitive pathways, the likelihood of survival is greatly enhanced.

However, there are still limitations to this ability to empathize.

All the details we see, we can only be aware of a small part of it, a very small part of it, a part that we pay attention to.

This is projection.

Many times, what we see is not necessarily the truth, it is just our feelings, projected out.

Many hot spots in the network,

Reverse and reverse, reverse, punch face and punch face, in fact, the objective facts are not clear at the beginning.

Seeing is always one-sided, empathetic is also self-projection.