Japanese Speaking Training: Expressions that may make others feel disrespectful

Cute and cute expressions often appear in Japanese. It should be clear that when others praise you cute, they may not want everyone to show a cute charm when they talk. Sometimes certain of our words will make others feel disrespectful. Let's take a look at it together and see if you have also been recruited.

1. "Me" (I)

"I'm irritated every time I call my subordinates 'me' (laughs)" (Bank / 28 years old)

"I'm a self-proclaimed genus of 每ji,I'm going to fire."

In "I" and "me", I think that the latter is considerably more childish.

There are two ways to say "I", "わたし" and "あたし", which are obviously more childish.

2. Tameguchi with momentum (sudden misapproval)

"When I'm talking, I usually use honorifics properly, but suddenly I'm like, 'I want to go with it!' Or "It looks fun!" I'm a little worried about people who pop out of their mouths."

"When chatting, a subordinate who usually respectfully uses honorifics suddenly doesn't use honorifics and says, 'Good to go there!' (Spoken) or 'Seems like it's going to be fun!' It's very interesting when it's (spoken). ”

Because this comes out without awareness, there may be people who are inevitable. In that case, it is okay if you follow immediately, "Oh, I'm sorry tension has gone up".

Some people unconsciously blurt out the spoken language, in which case it is no problem to immediately say "Ah, I'm sorry to be so excited".

3. "Donka" (Koreki [Mouth])

"I feel that more and more people can't say 'is it?' (maker/ 26 years old)

"It seems that there are more people who can't say "ですか" well, which is very worrying."

This is NG even for men, and if it is a woman, it is more NG. And I asked, "What do you do with ○○?" There is no article at all. I'm right and asked, "Is it?" Let's make it habitual to be able to say.

"んすか" is NG for both men and women. And say "○○なんすか?" It will make people feel very tasteless. Let's cultivate to say "ですか?" Habits of it!

Do you understand these few words? Is there a similar situation? Regardless of whether everyone speaks in this way or not, I hope that everyone can be clear, we use language to express their meaning, but also a process of mutual respect, so I hope that everyone can pay attention to the correct use of their own language when communicating.