Off-topic: Because of my low culture and poor thinking, I can only record everything that others say and say in the first person. Weekdays are also bragging about not playing drafts, thinking of what records and what, so, believe in me, you will not get eternal life, do not believe in me, can you live forever?? What you see is me ? I don't argue.
Wu Min, an alumnus of my vocational high school. I was studying finance and accounting, and she was in the secretarial class. We don't live in the same bedroom, but I now forget how we met and how we became good friends. Anyway, she's the only high school classmate I've kept in touch with so far. In memory, Wu Min played a boyfriend in high school and had a very good relationship with several boys.
Vocational high school graduation, is not included in the allocation, that year we left the school, my family entrusted me to find a company internship, in fact, to clean, miscellaneous. Wu Min, on the other hand, went to an employment agency. There was a difference between the jobs introduced by the employment agencies of that era and the jobs introduced by the current job agencies. There will be a lot of jobs for you to choose from in the current vocational agency, and at that time, most of them were OK hall nightclubs. What is the lady sitting on the stage, that is, in the entertainment place engaged in accompanying wine, accompanying the chat (not selling the flesh), engaging in a hot atmosphere of the young lady. I don't know how Wu Min took the first step. What I can recall now is that there was a time after graduating from high school when she rented a room, slept during the day, and went to work in the OK hall or at night. Her first husband, Wang Yong, met when he was chatting. She brought him to show me, tall, man-like.
Wang Yong has a formal unit, and his family also has a bit of a background, so after Wu Min formally interacted with him, Wang Yong's family arranged for her to enter a unit to work. It is said that the person Wu Min is most grateful to in this life is Wang Yong, the first person, in the end, because of him, she has a good job, food and clothing. Moreover, according to Wu Min's own words, Wang Yong has nothing wrong with him except for the card angry point, which is good for her.
After they got married, we didn't see each other for a while. First, Wu Min entered the state unit, but I went to work in a foreign country. Second, after Wu Min had a family, she gave birth to a son, lived a full life, and was also very happy, at that time, mobile phones were not popular, and it was not easy to contact. Later, when I returned to my hometown, I found a new job here, and we occasionally saw each other for a meal together. Then I met her son and carved it out of a mold with his husband. It was only when the child was in junior high school that when we met, Wu Min told me: She is divorced and is now with Chen San.
I said you and Wang Yong are good? Why leave? Wu Min told me that Wang Yong had a bad temper and loved to play cards very much, and never cared about the baby. In fact, I know that Wu Min himself also loves to play cards, and the babies are all managed by his mother-in-law and father-in-law, and the two mouths are very relaxed. So why are they separated in the end, I, an outsider, only listen to one side's one-sided words, specifically, behind closed doors, the two parties are clear, right? Anyway, the reason is not important, the result is still two words: away. Moreover, Wu Min actually did not want anything, and after the divorce, a person came out to rent a house to live.
However, I knew Chen San as a person.
Chen San is one of the good opposite sexes that Wu Min played in high school. Not tall, the behavior is a bit feminine, take the current words: Chen San is her male girlfriend. They have nothing to say, I have also been to Chen Sanjia with her once, Chen Sanjia is in the countryside, the family conditions are average, after graduation into the factory, but also married people, Wu Min has time after marriage is also with Chen San They often contact, so they are together, really can say that they know each other's roots.
Wu Min and Chen San were very close, both as alumni and later when they became friends, and they would share everything. However, what they do not know is that this kind of intimacy is only limited to friendship, so when two people do not talk about marriage, the relationship is relatively simple, there is no emotional ambiguity, there is no physical contact, and they maintain a little politeness with each other, but the relationship is longer. But then two people get married, this relationship is difficult to transform into a normal emotion between the opposite sex, it is difficult to turn friendship into love, this kind of discomfort will be very diaphragm for the two of themselves, even under the same roof will feel very embarrassed. Therefore, everything that Wu Min told me later responded to my judgment.
Really, with someone who knows themselves too well, has no privacy to speak of, no mystery, no novelty, no attraction, which is sometimes fatal to marriage. Just like them.
Wu Min said: Chen San knows that Liang (Wu Min's boyfriend in high school) still likes her, as long as she contacts Liang Yi, Chen San is not happy, does not say anything, cold violence.
Wu Min said: In fact, when I was studying, everyone was fighting and playing, the relationship was so big, why didn't he relax them.
She also told me: From marriage to now, Chen San has never touched her, not once. I said he looked like a, didn't that work? Wu Min said: It should not be. He also had a daughter with his ex-wife. I felt like he didn't want to touch me.
Seriously, I don't understand men, but in my perception, where are normal men who have a bad bite? Men don't want to touch you, either there is a real physical problem with hardness, or you make him have no appetite, he hates you, otherwise, a man will not be too picky eaters.
In short, before the second marriage, Wu Min and Chen San were two people who did not say anything, but after entering the marriage, they had nothing to say. After several years of suffering, one day, Wu Min told me: "I am divorced again!" ”
Then, since the signing of the divorce, wu min and Chen San have no contact.
Fortunately, Wu Min now has a new boyfriend, introduced by a colleague. I hope this one can accompany her for the rest of her life.