During the period when the father-in-law went to my house to live, he was confessed by the aunt next door, and the father-in-law did not refuse

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Muzi Lee:

The female neighbor is a widowed aunt who is nearly fifty years old, and because of the irregularity of her private life on weekdays, the reputation is extremely poor, and even so, she can often see some old men carrying fruits to her house.

Once, my dad and my mom came to visit our house, and the aunt next door once confessed to my dad and was scolded by my dad.

However, not long ago, when my father-in-law came to live in my house, I was also confessed by the aunt next door, and unfortunately my father-in-law did not refuse. Afterwards, the female neighbor went to my house to make a fuss, and had to say that my father-in-law had violated him and asked my father-in-law to compensate him for two thousand yuan.

The husband did not bother to tangle with the female neighbor, and threw two thousand yuan to the female neighbor, so that the female neighbor could get out of the egg.

After that, the husband began to preach to the father-in-law, the more the husband said more and more angry, he actually got started with the father-in-law, seeing the husband's fight to the death, I quickly pleaded, but to no avail.

The father-in-law is also relatively stupid, and no matter how his husband beats him, he will not fight back.

In the end, it was my son who knelt in front of his husband and cried and said to him: Dad, please don't hit grandpa again, and my husband will give up.

I know that there is indeed something wrong with the father-in-law, but is it also a misconduct for the husband to be violent to the father-in-law because of this incident?

The next day, the father-in-law returned to his hometown in a daze, and the husband reported the incident to his mother-in-law on the phone, and encouraged the mother-in-law to divorce the father-in-law.

The mother-in-law did not pay attention to her husband's proposal, and the husband scolded the mother-in-law on the phone.

I really have nothing to say about my husband's impulsiveness and irritability.

Muzi Li answered the reader's question:

In today's era, which is regarded by many as civilization, the behavior of countering violence with violence will always make people feel irrational, but in anger, we will still see some situations of countering violence with violence.

Don't want to comment on right and wrong, because some people I feel like I should hit.

Why did your husband beat your father-in-law? When you first come to your house, you hook up with your female neighbors and make your husband feel ashamed; make your husband feel that your father-in-law is sorry for your mother-in-law; feel that it is not worth it to be blackmailed by a woman with an improper private life for two thousand dollars.

Why would your husband call your mother-in-law and shake it out? When your husband was growing up, your mother-in-law gave a lot for the whole family, and felt that your father-in-law's behavior was not worthy of forgiveness, or that your father-in-law was not worthy of your mother-in-law at all.

However, regarding a marriage, in addition to the fact that the couple itself can decide the final destination of the marriage, for outsiders, only some advice can be given.

In the current situation, your mother-in-law has chosen to forgive, and you must respect your mother-in-law's decision.

Your husband has a righteous side, a grumpy side, and a stubborn side, which is a matter of character.

Such a person has advantages: the principle is relatively strong; the disadvantages: it is easy to offend people.

That's the end of it.

Your husband has not beaten your children or you because you are obedient, so the marriage continues, and it continues to be followed.