There are two scenes in "Win the Championship", Peng Yuchang as the young Chen Zhonghe, at first Chen Zhonghe was only a playing instructor for the women's volleyball team, and he did not even have the opportunity to go out with the women's volleyball team, and at that time, Bailang as Lang Ping (youth) was only a substitute for the national team. When Lang Ping was playing volleyball, Chen Zhonghe said that talent is not something that everyone has, and he wants Lang Ping to accept reality. But Lang Ping asked a word, he said are you willing to think like this for a lifetime as a coach, did not consider becoming the head coach of the Chinese women's volleyball team?
Another scene is Gong Li as Middle-aged Lang Ping asking Zhu Ting why do you play volleyball? Zhu Ting first wrote on the answer sheet: "For her parents." So At the beginning, Zhu Ting played volleyball very badly. Lang Ping said, "Then you will never be able to fight." Asking her to think again, Zhu Ting said, "For herself." Lang Ping asked "What do you want yourself?" Zhu Ting said "I want to be you". Lang Ping was very dissatisfied with this answer.
Author Zhou Ling's "Cognitive Awakening" has broken 150,000 sales in just a few months, and the data is still growing. This time it is about the sister article "Cognitive Drive". Although they are all written in their own books, the content is closely related. Cognitive Drive is divided into two parts, the first part about the mental method of accomplishing a thing, and the second part about the technique of accomplishing a thing. Help everyone solve anxiety to find the value and meaning of life, and jump out of the strange circle of doing one thing over and over again. Help you discover your life goals and master how to accomplish things.
What's holding us back?
Back to the point when you're going to do something you've never done before or complete a plan that everyone thinks is impossible to meet. What would you be thinking?
I can't do this.
No, I'm afraid of failure
Forget it, this thing is not very realistic...
There is such a scene in the TV series "The Legend of the Paladin Sword 3", and the picture below is a passage spoken by the evil sword fairy. It probably means that if you want to do something, you're going to lose if you don't start, but if you start trying to do it, you'll still have at least half the chance of winning.
A lot of things we have not yet begun to fall into self-denial, so we are often lost to our own thinking, and a thing has ended in our thinking before it has begun. Why?
Success, the most afraid of saying to yourself at the beginning is impossible
Before doing a thing, we are always biased towards rational thinking, and this rational thinking thinking is limited, rational thinking only believes in what it sees, for unknown areas, he will have doubts, and most of them will be biased toward rational thinking.
In the phase of doing things and planning, we will put the wishes and processes in our minds and perform many simulation exercises until we are satisfied with the result of "seeing" it.
In some cases, rational thinking not only becomes the strength to achieve the goal, but also becomes an obstacle.
When your habitual ideas are subverted, you may be making progress.
In 2007, the year was a period of rapid development of the Internet. At that time, Wang Jian was the executive vice president of Microsoft's Asia Research Institute. When Wang Jian and Ma Yun met for the first time, they told Ma Yun that if Ali could not master the technology, there would be no Ali figure in the future, which deeply touched Ma Yun. One is to realize the dream, the other is to consider the development of the enterprise, so the two hit it off.
In 2008, Wang Jian left Microsoft, the world's largest manufacturer, and entered Alibaba. Ma Yun gave Wang Jian 1 billion yuan for research and development at that time. Wang Jian entered Alibaba to be responsible for Alibaba's output technology and independently developed cloud computing technology. The "Feitian" team was formed. The two computer bosses at the time commented on this.
Ma Huateng said: "Cloud computing may be possible in hundreds of thousands of years, but it is still too early. ”
Robin Li: "New bottles of old wine." In this way, Aliyun was born and Wang Jian has been growing up in people's doubts.
At the end of 2008, 30 technical engineers barely began to develop, the environment is also quite difficult, all kinds of test equipment pushed to buy offices, in the summer such high temperature can not turn on the air conditioner.
In 2009, the first test was launched, and the test process was successively placed in front of Wang Jian's team, in order to save time, Wang Jian had to lead the R & D personnel to live in the office, so it took several months to solve the problem in the first stage. Although Wang Jian's team does not pay less than others, it is at the bottom of Alibaba's annual evaluation.
Wang Jian's cloud computing is still not a few years past and still has not improved, and many people have begun to scold him as a liar. The bottleneck of technology, the departure of R&D team members, and the doubts of everyone. Wang Jian finally couldn't help but cry bitterly at the annual meeting of a certain year. Fortunately, Ma Yun has always believed in Wang Jian, and promised to give him a billion research and development expenses every year, and he will always insist on Wang Jian to put the cloud computing out.
In 2012, Wang Jian and the remaining technicians began to solve and troubleshoot problems one by one, which lasted until June 2013. The most critical final moment of cloud computing has arrived, with more than 5,000 computer servers gathered in one computer. It is necessary to unplug the power supply to check the stability of the system, and if it fails, it means that more than a decade of experiments have been in vain. The staff repeatedly asked whether to turn off the power, and began the final test under Wang Jian's nod, and finally sacrificed 10 servers, and wang Jian handed in a satisfactory answer sheet after four hours.
If Academician Wang Jian said when making cloud computing that I was afraid of failure, etc., and delayed in taking action, when others questioned, I also fell into self-doubt, maybe there would be no advent of cloud computing. Doing a difficult thing, sometimes we can't achieve our goals not because we're not rational enough, but because we're not emotional enough.
Solving our first problem, we're going to talk about setting goals and sticking to them.
Why is it so easy for us to give up halfway?
Have you ever set a goal like this:
I'm going to quit smoking
I want to lose weight
I'm going to read etc...
I was confident when I first went to implement these plans, but it didn't take long to stop...
Change your identity and firm belief
Every time we go to practice, we only stare at the shallowest "result" to act, and the ending is often done for the sake of doing, and it is easy to end up in the end. A small number of people will work hard in the "process", not satisfied with what to do, but also explore how to do it, why to do it, but this also requires a lot of will to do. Only by reaching the level of "identity" can we start from psychological construction. I'm going to be the kind of person I'm going to be hinting at myself, and I'm going to feel bad about not doing it.
Identity positioning is to carry out your own psychological construction, identity is unconsciously reshaped, in life, even if you do not tell you what kind of person you should become, you have a default identity in your heart.
A German investor with multiple identities, Baudoschafer was a 26-year-old who was still in debt, but fortunately he met his first mentor. Most ordinary people can imagine doubling their monthly income. But 5 times or even 10 times is a miracle for them. Mr. Schaefer thinks the same way.
At that time, Schaefer not only had debts but also lost his job, and his mentor asked him to write down his monthly income target, and the tutor told him that you can set this goal high. The first time he wrote 30,000 euros a month, the tutor was very dissatisfied with his figure and felt that his goal was too low, but Mr. Schaefer felt that this was already very high, and thought that the tutor would praise him.
So I asked him to rewrite it, and Schaefer was very repulsive, but the mentor said that if you don't do what I asked, I can't teach you. There was no way to write a second time to target 50,000 euros a month, and the tutor was barely satisfied with his goal. But Mr. Schaefer felt that his heart was hanging, and felt that this goal was too high to be completed.
Mr. Schaefer will often review and strengthen his money positioning, coupled with the help and enlightenment of mentors. This goal was reached in just two and a half years, and it far exceeded it.
Set goals, draw yourself a big pie, and believe that you can get it done. Keep deepening this impression and you will be able to reach your goal.
Schaefer determined his monthly salary from suspicion, which came to himself to position himself as "identity". Those who can identify themselves are the real masters, who are willing to spend time on psychological construction, who can change themselves from top to bottom or from the inside out. Unconsciously carry out the self-reconstruction of "identity".
A person can only thoroughly understand the essence of accomplishing a thing. Using the underlying laws to open the cognitive drive can we jump out of the dilemma of many futile efforts. Truly eliminate anxiety, get happiness in life, and make your efforts truly effective.